Cyrano you said
You bring up some interesting arguments. One of which I want to adress. You say, or at least insinuate that in order to be considered a heterosexual you need to want to be with a woman at that particular moment. You further say that those who do not conform to this standard you've set, and are thus homosexual, rationalize their presumed apathy by rallying under the banner of "Self-Improvement".
My answer
I have no idea what standard your talking about. I was relaying my experience since I’ve been on this board. Homosexuals are attracted to the same sex. There is no standard other than that.
Cyrano you said
If I knew nothing else this would make sense to me. The fact of the matter is though that even the revered Pook advocates taking breaks from the opposite sex in order to focus that energy on other pursuits. Its easy to get caught up in chasing skirts, and indeed it serves evolutionary purposes quite well, but a man is not the sum total of his urges. Man is not a beast, he can control his thoughts and his actions, and to abandon yourself to hedonism is counter-productive and a waste of all the blessings of life you claim to uphold.
My answer
1. Pook is not revered to me. I do admire his intelligence and writing style. I have read only one of his posts, and that is all it took to see a very intelligent well spoken individual. It’s no wonder guys such as yourself put him on a pedistal.
2. You are also well spoken and you too seem intelligent.
3. We are not talking about hedonism here. We are speaking on homosexuality. Nice words though. Mankind is more animal than you think. Look at the fact that women can actually smell a man who will make a good mate for her and produce good offspring.
Cyrano you said
Furthermore, in order for some men to build those towers and forge those legacies, they need a single-minded focus. This is not to say that they would not desire female companionship, but that they would rather get their sh1t together before undergoing the emotional entanglements of a relationship. I can respect that. Surely there have been periods in your life when, quite frankly you were so invested in achieving certain personal goals than getting laid and all the effort that entails would only be a distraction.
My answer
Never! And I think this is the difference between me and you. I am well tied into my physical body. I am not just mind only. I feel the inner stirrings and nature of my manhood. And so can my women as per these IM and Emails clippings:
Col : I cannot feel their manhood... their being... you how in tune I am tune 2 that.
T: you felt so manly to me. i know that sounds kind of silly like "of course i am manly" right? but i feel and smell and taste your manhood...
T: you just are all man and it is a big turn on for me
Sa s: u touch me with moer than that
Sa : u give me butterfies even to this day...
SLV: absolutely....NO ONE compares to you baby
SLV: I like how big you are...your dominance over me physically and mentally...it really turns me on...NO ONE but you has ever had that kind of effect on me
SLV: some men TRY to control me, but they all fail
I think Cyrano and act as a man should!
I work hard and I play hard. I control my life and everything in it. I chose long ago to work for myself instead of someone else handing me a pay check to walk to the bank. I also control the women whom I let in my life…as it should be in my opinion.
Cyrano you said
Guys come here for support. Either to lend it or to recieve, or a hapy medium therein. Period. The fact that some seem to need it a bit more than others is unfortunate, but that's because they haven't gained as much of the mindset of self-respect as you at the time. This very site specializes in taking boys who are but shells of men, wrecked and ravaged by the harsh realities of what passes for relationships, and turning them into the greatest versions of themselves.
My answer
Once again your getting away from the subject of homosexuality. Nice words though.
1. Why do men need support groups these days.
2. This site is for learning how to get women. It has become a support group over the years. I’ve read too many posts were posters were longing for the old days to come back.
3. Since when do MEN need support groups? This is for women.
4. Shells of men…that was good. I like the way you write. You remind me of me when I was younger and writing speeches. What these men need is a swift kick in the nuts to remind them that they do have a set. Not babied and coddled and pampered. I do not agree with the modern version of man. Years ago I complained about a commercial. The avaiance commercial which started with a woman singing she could bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan and never never let you forget you’re a man. That song changed to every now and then I need a helping hand..in the background it showed a man doing the chores…then it even got worse…just as men in our society have.
Cyrano you said
Enlightenment can only be achieved when you know yourself so well that you can see yourself in everything else, and embody acceptance and accordingly. Personally, I think a sense of pity might just be missing the point. Eventually, if you are to come to this point, you'll have to confront those dogmatic beliefs and realze, your parents might be a bit biased with your upbringing. Don't let those walls that they've erected for themselves become dikes (no pun intended) to stem the flow of knowledge.
My answer
Hot dam your good. “Enlightenment can only be achieved….” Now that was some good ****. And your explaining the key to enlightenment? You should market that and sell it since you’ve discovered the secret of the ages bro. Ok here it is:
1. My father was not only in the army and air-force, but he was also a musician. Very open minded. He had a transsexual singer in his band. Sorry my ideas do not come from my parents. They come from studying life. As you get older you will realize that there actually is a flow to life.
2. It’s ok to pity homosexual. They are blocked from the calling of life. I feel sorry for anybody with this problem. Don’t bother with the adoption stuff or artificial crap. It’s not that serious. There is a reason for them not to want to breed.
3. Like I’ve posted I’ve done a lot of thought on this. I am a big practicioner and study-ier of metaphysics and life. I am a 2nd degree Reiki practicioneer. I’ve lectured on metaphysical subjects. I have a tv show that is now being shown all over this country and soon Europe in the same area on PBS. Yeah Yeah I realize that is hard to believe. If you look at my photo’s you will see nothing but book shelves in the background. 90% of those are metaphysics or on life itself. Metaphysically their life style doesn’t work. They do represent a new but old and now powerful energy on the planet. Their movement has taken on a force of it’s own now. To think that they would get straight men to be afraid of being called homophobic is amazing PR work. No, I’m not a conspiracy nut. The gays do have a lot of political power these days. Look at how they got Eddie Murphy to censor his stand up routines…do you think he was kidding about them harassing him?
In Conclusion:
I do feel sorry for you if you’ve bought into the whole “I’m gay so don’t discriminate movement.” Homosexuality is a dead end. It’s a lifestyle choice. Even if your born with it. You stated above about man this and man that. If man is so smart then why choose to follow the programming that says “gay”. *
There are still a lot of homosexuals on this site. Why I guess they are attracted to straight men or are looking for confused men whom to turn to their side of the fence. I don’t know. Maybe you have an answer to this pondering question.
It’s funny to see a man defend homosexuality these days. You must be from the younger generations. I can see that this is the way things have become. Please do not use the discrimination card due to my color. I didn’t choose this skin…they choose evertime they put a dyck in their arse.
Thinketh as a man thinketh and maybe you will hear these type of words:
Nothing makes me feel like I have done my job until I know you are satisfied in every possible way.
I am so drawn to you that is a bit scary and unexpected.
Or these:
I can feel you touching me as I read every word you write.
Or these:
You put me at ease and make me feel safe and cared for.
What kind of man do you want to be. A whinny wimp or stand up as a man.
It is I who truely feels sorry for the younger generations. You've never know a world with homosexuality rammed down your throats and in your face evertime you turn on the t.v.
Believe it or not...it used to be that way!
Peace.\
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