Hey guys,
Let me first giv u a background check. I was pretty social in HS n had friends w/ high social status, which prolly helped me w/ girls back then. I was quite shy, n the gfs I had (no hook ups at the time), were introduced 2 me by friends, but I was still shy, and the girls I ended up w/ were the ones who almost made the moves. After high school, I travelled 2 the U.S n started a new life. Since I was shy, I decided to get out of my comfort zone and started 2 study DJism n live my life 2 the fullest...
I spent 6 month learning english, and when I came 2 colleege, I started experiencing more, got the 1st gf I worked 4 (meeting her, asking her out and initiated every move). This was still a learning process. I started getting better. After my gf, I decided 2 just hav fun n not try 2 go 4 LTRs. My accent (french) helped also w/ the girls and things like that.
2 years later, I've become basically a natural (no canned material or anything n just go w/ the flow). I've gotten girls and have been quite consistent. I have experienced it all, girls ignoring me when I try 2 open, the "I have a bf" line, and basically everything u can imagine.
Now here comes the problem. I go out every friday and saturday, but suddenly, these past 3 weeks, all the girls I've met refused 2 return my calls. I mean I would understand if it was a short pick up n they flake. There has been a few of those but I'm talking about girls that I have spent a long time w/ n k-closed. They were having a good time w/ me just like before, nothing about me changed, at least not that I know of. They would tell me things like "I really like u", "I like hanging out w/ u", "u're a really good kisser", "U're so suave" and things like that, plus those are not drunk girls. Even when their friends ask them 2 leave, they say that they want 2 stay w/ me. When I called later they don't answer or no return calls. In that case, I next them.
I don't understand this. I'm at the point where I would consider myself of top of my game, and I'm having the least amount of success. Hav u fellow DJs ever been in that situation? If so could u tell me how u got out of it.
Thanks Bros
Let me first giv u a background check. I was pretty social in HS n had friends w/ high social status, which prolly helped me w/ girls back then. I was quite shy, n the gfs I had (no hook ups at the time), were introduced 2 me by friends, but I was still shy, and the girls I ended up w/ were the ones who almost made the moves. After high school, I travelled 2 the U.S n started a new life. Since I was shy, I decided to get out of my comfort zone and started 2 study DJism n live my life 2 the fullest...
I spent 6 month learning english, and when I came 2 colleege, I started experiencing more, got the 1st gf I worked 4 (meeting her, asking her out and initiated every move). This was still a learning process. I started getting better. After my gf, I decided 2 just hav fun n not try 2 go 4 LTRs. My accent (french) helped also w/ the girls and things like that.
2 years later, I've become basically a natural (no canned material or anything n just go w/ the flow). I've gotten girls and have been quite consistent. I have experienced it all, girls ignoring me when I try 2 open, the "I have a bf" line, and basically everything u can imagine.
Now here comes the problem. I go out every friday and saturday, but suddenly, these past 3 weeks, all the girls I've met refused 2 return my calls. I mean I would understand if it was a short pick up n they flake. There has been a few of those but I'm talking about girls that I have spent a long time w/ n k-closed. They were having a good time w/ me just like before, nothing about me changed, at least not that I know of. They would tell me things like "I really like u", "I like hanging out w/ u", "u're a really good kisser", "U're so suave" and things like that, plus those are not drunk girls. Even when their friends ask them 2 leave, they say that they want 2 stay w/ me. When I called later they don't answer or no return calls. In that case, I next them.
I don't understand this. I'm at the point where I would consider myself of top of my game, and I'm having the least amount of success. Hav u fellow DJs ever been in that situation? If so could u tell me how u got out of it.
Thanks Bros