AFC Savior said:
all through myspace, she flaked on meeting so there was no "in person" with her
tell me why I should care about her enough to follow some kind of rules in how I talk to her?
You are stupid. Here is why:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135507
You did all the wrong things to get her to hang out with you. Not only that, you done those things over and over again, expecting different results.
The girl told you several times, no, and called you a chump she does not want in her life. You did not understand her. You don't understand women. You hardly understand yourself.
In the end, you got frustrated, and emotional.
Conclusion. You're no better than any AFC out there. You are frustrated, emotional, do not have balls to move on, you are clingy as sh!t. Generally, you provoke that Ewwwwwwwwww feeling inside women.. That particular woman was disgusted with you. You're not a Don Juan, or a man that comes anywhere close to the ideal of Don Juan. You have no value, and you are insecure.
To handle that woman like a real man, you should have never talked to her after she flaked the first time.. That's affect, not cause. You should have build rapport with her, got her phone number, talked to her on the phone, and went from there to meeting her in real life.. Which by the way is too much work and why you shouldn't be hanging out on myspace.