It’s 2025, I’m going through a I hate women phase. I have to vent here.

[cola]

This is a safe place to vent right? Like I feel like most guys here get it..

Guys idk where to begin, like I can’t talk to anyone about this in daily life but I literally hate women. I got to get this **** off my chest it’s been on my mind for a while ..


They are not equal to men:
I hate that they feel like they are in any way equal to men. Why do we have women police on officers?
I’m 6,1 240 lbs with 20 years of weight lifting under my belt, there isn’t a woman that could subdue me on earth without use of lethal force.

If I was a cop I’d be so pissed to be assigned a woman partner, she would literally be a liability in a 2 on 2 situation.
The point is, we allow women to have jobs and careers they biologically aren’t suited for just because “everything has to be equal”

They have contributed almost nothing to modern society as far as infrastructure, technology and yet we have to parade around society like they are somehow equal to a man.

Now, the trend is they want full time jobs but don’t want to pay an equal share of household bills:

The new trend on TikTok and Instagram is women don’t want “50/50 men” .. women are literally saying out loud they want to work full time jobs, but don’t want to contribute an equal share to the house hold.. What’s even crazier to me is this **** is happening in the midst of some of the hardest economic times any of us have seen in our life time.
What type of selfish sack of **** would work full time and bank all their money and watch their man scramble to come up with all the bill money? Women will literally watch you work yourself to the brink of death all to brag to their friends that their man pays all the bills. It’s ridiculous, you would have to be masochist to even consider a long term relationship with any of these women.

Im so tired of the “men so scary, they will rape me narrative”

Can men be a little douchey with women? Yes, we have all seen the guys at bars drunk be a little too aggressive with women and say some out of pocket things but let’s be real 99% of men wouldn’t consider raping or sexually assaulting a woman. Now its like if I stand too close to a woman she is acting like I’m some type of monster or stalker or something … it’s like men have to go out of their way to prove to women they aren’t gonna kidnap them or something like give me a break, which leads me to:

They walk around half naked, but I’m a creep for looking:

Idk how many of you guys are still in the club or bar scene but the trend this summer was women literally wearing lingerie as club outfits.

but somehow, you aren’t suppose to judge them on this slutty display.. Where are standards or morals? How could you even expect a man to respect that? Want to wife that? It’s just disgusting..

If you have any boundaries what so ever you’re controlling:

I was recently dating a girl exclusively who had some childhood male friends who wanted to come visit her. She insisted that they spend the night at her place instead of “wasting money at the hotel”.. due to work obligations I would not be present.
I told her this would be the end of our exclusivity. You aren’t going to have men stay at your place a weekend and I’m not around ..

Well her and her friends decided I’m “controlling and insecure” I blocked her.
They throw around that “controlling & insecure” **** at anything you do that shows you have balls.

It’s to the point guys I don’t even want anything to do with women, they literally disgust me and we need a major shift or society is going to continue to get worse in regards to male female relations


that’s all.. just a rant I have to make online because if you say it out loud “you’re sexist” and bla bla bla.. I’m sure I’ll meet someone and it will pass but this is where my mind is right now

 

[Gamisch]

What do you want from women?

I believe that eventually every man will "hate " women either because he got burned by them, or completely ignored. This is what we call redpill rage. Is a phase you gotta grow out off.

There are equally as many bad men but you don't know that because you don't (have to wanna) deal with men. People in general are evil spirited, just look at the world. From top to bottom there is corruption and unfairness. It's not just women that are to blame.

Having said that, again, if you want something from them you better love them..women can be amazing but it's all about expectations. Some things are to be taken with a grain of salt, such as typical female complaints.

Seems like you got a long way to go. I advice you to ACTIVELY work on trying to be ANTI misogynistic.

 

[cola]

What do you want from women?

I believe that eventually every man will "hate " women either because he got burned by them, or completely ignored. This is what we call redpill rage. Is a phase you gotta grow out off.

There are equally as many bad men but you don't know that because you don't (have to wanna) deal with men. People in general are evil spirited, just look at the world. From top to bottom there is corruption and unfairness. It's not just women that are to blame.

Having said that, again, if you want something from them you better love them..women can be amazing but it's all about expectations. Some things are to be taken with a grain of salt, such as typical female complaints.

Seems like you got a long way to go. I advice you to ACTIVELY work on trying to be ANTI misogynistic.

I’ve literally been around here over a decade. But maybe in a way you’re right and this is some type of regresssion.

Maybe I’m getting older and desperately want something more than hook ups, and in my younger days that’s all I cared about so I could tolerate their bs. Atleast long enough to get what I wanted.

 

[Divorced w 3]

This is a lot of bent up stuff but I will give you the expenses point. The idea that a single adult would not make a contribution to the home in which they lived is absurd. If a woman came to another woman and said you make 75% more than me, I want to reduce my cost in this apartment in a proportionate way, the living arrangements would never happen (well maybe women would but two men typically wouldn’t.). I won’t go down too deep on this but I share your sentiment on this.

 

[Solomon]

Brother Cola I have seen you post since you were 19 and obviously have followed some of your post through the years
The game has changed, women are far more fickle then they were in 2009.
My thing would be bro take a break for your mental health.
I was in a similar mindset as you from 2015-2020. I had to go through some pains and growth to realize I was at fault because of the women I was entertaining (at that time bottom of the barrel OLD broads)

If you are looking for a relationship then you need to vet women more stringent you will lose out on a lot of women's easy ***** and you may even have relationships be short term or fail but it's about sticking with your standards and boundaries
As men we have to realize if women have standards and boundaries we can have them too
The difference though now is we have to be on point to exert those i.e. have our shyt together
However if you have your shyt together and women see it or perceive it you will be in the drivers seat

 

[Gamisch]

I’ve literally been around here over a decade. But maybe in a way you’re right and this is some type of regresssion.

Maybe I’m getting older and desperately want something more than hook ups, and in my younger days that’s all I cared about so I could tolerate their bs. Atleast long enough to get what I wanted.

It's not progress...in my play book at least.

It's completely normal to want more than hook ups because hook ups become old really quick. It's also difficult to hide your true ( good) intentions all the damn time especially when women initially play the game pretending to be wife material.

Tbh you gotta stick to your beliefs and also be honest about where you are lacking.

Hook up fatigue is a real thing.

 

[BPH]

Seems we're about the same age, so I'd say the best advice I could give is to accept women as they are, rather than how you want them to be.

Women, and people as a whole, are largely the same; late, flakey, self-centered, inconsiderate. When you realize that and expect that, you'll be disappointed less often, and be able to recognize and value the few women who don't fall into those categories. This is why I think it's important to be good with women and to have an abundance of them in your life - you have the life experience to differentiate between good and bad ones.

As far as the online portion, that's not real life. Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, etc are not the real world. People post whatever's trending because they want attention and parrot whatever idea's popular. I recall when a certain political event happened in November where women were posting online about abstaining from men.

I didn't see a single woman with a shaved head anywhere I went.

 

[cola]

Seems we're about the same age, so I'd say the best advice I could give is to accept women as they are, rather than how you want them to be.


As far as the online portion, that's not real life. Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, etc are not the real world. People post whatever's trending because they want attention and parrot whatever idea's popular. I recall when a certain political event happened in November where women were posting online about abstaining from men.

I didn't see a single woman with a shaved head anywhere I went.

This is true.
I deleted social media immediately after making this post.
@Solomon whats good playboy. Good to see you still around.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Get off social media/tik Tok that exposes you to the worst types of women for starts.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Maybe I’m getting older and desperately want something more than hook ups,

That's the thing. Hookups are easy. Decent long term relationship type women are much harder to come by.

The only solution is to qualify hard and early and keep looking until you find somebody.

Don't allow yourself to get emotionally hooked into an unqualified woman.

 

[pipeman84]

I was recently dating a girl exclusively who had some childhood male friends who wanted to come visit her. She insisted that they spend the night at her place instead of “wasting money at the hotel”.. due to work obligations I would not be present.
I told her this would be the end of our exclusivity. You aren’t going to have men stay at your place a weekend and I’m not around ..

Well her and her friends decided I’m “controlling and insecure” I blocked her.
They throw around that “controlling & insecure” **** at anything you do that shows you have balls.

Why do you date exclusively this kind of woman?
When guys on this forum scream 'insecure' on threads discussing marriage/LTR and body-count ... what do you expect from some hoes?

 

[CBear]

This is a safe place to vent right? Like I feel like most guys here get it..

Guys idk where to begin, like I can’t talk to anyone about this in daily life but I literally hate women. I got to get this **** off my chest it’s been on my mind for a while ..


They are not equal to men:
I hate that they feel like they are in any way equal to men. Why do we have women police on officers?
I’m 6,1 240 lbs with 20 years of weight lifting under my belt, there isn’t a woman that could subdue me on earth without use of lethal force.

If I was a cop I’d be so pissed to be assigned a woman partner, she would literally be a liability in a 2 on 2 situation.
The point is, we allow women to have jobs and careers they biologically aren’t suited for just because “everything has to be equal”

They have contributed almost nothing to modern society as far as infrastructure, technology and yet we have to parade around society like they are somehow equal to a man.

Now, the trend is they want full time jobs but don’t want to pay an equal share of household bills:

The new trend on TikTok and Instagram is women don’t want “50/50 men” .. women are literally saying out loud they want to work full time jobs, but don’t want to contribute an equal share to the house hold.. What’s even crazier to me is this **** is happening in the midst of some of the hardest economic times any of us have seen in our life time.
What type of selfish sack of **** would work full time and bank all their money and watch their man scramble to come up with all the bill money? Women will literally watch you work yourself to the brink of death all to brag to their friends that their man pays all the bills. It’s ridiculous, you would have to be masochist to even consider a long term relationship with any of these women.

Im so tired of the “men so scary, they will rape me narrative”

Can men be a little douchey with women? Yes, we have all seen the guys at bars drunk be a little too aggressive with women and say some out of pocket things but let’s be real 99% of men wouldn’t consider raping or sexually assaulting a woman. Now its like if I stand too close to a woman she is acting like I’m some type of monster or stalker or something … it’s like men have to go out of their way to prove to women they aren’t gonna kidnap them or something like give me a break, which leads me to:

They walk around half naked, but I’m a creep for looking:

Idk how many of you guys are still in the club or bar scene but the trend this summer was women literally wearing lingerie as club outfits.

but somehow, you aren’t suppose to judge them on this slutty display.. Where are standards or morals? How could you even expect a man to respect that? Want to wife that? It’s just disgusting..

If you have any boundaries what so ever you’re controlling:

I was recently dating a girl exclusively who had some childhood male friends who wanted to come visit her. She insisted that they spend the night at her place instead of “wasting money at the hotel”.. due to work obligations I would not be present.
I told her this would be the end of our exclusivity. You aren’t going to have men stay at your place a weekend and I’m not around ..

Well her and her friends decided I’m “controlling and insecure” I blocked her.
They throw around that “controlling & insecure” **** at anything you do that shows you have balls.

It’s to the point guys I don’t even want anything to do with women, they literally disgust me and we need a major shift or society is going to continue to get worse in regards to male female relations


that’s all.. just a rant I have to make online because if you say it out loud “you’re sexist” and bla bla bla.. I’m sure I’ll meet someone and it will pass but this is where my mind is right now

Nice to see you cola. It's important to get these things off your chest especially because other man feel the same.

They are not equal to men
100% they aren't and I feel like traditional/conservative women understand this more than liberal women. You literally can't talk sense into them. Look for someone who embraces male/female differences.

Now, the trend is they want full time jobs but don’t want to pay an equal share of household bills:
Yes, that's the thought process of modern women. 1 woman indirectly taught me a very important lesson on this. I've always been very stubborn and didn't agree with a man paying for a woman. This woman tried to convince me very very hard that if I truly loved her, I'd be happy to pay for her and "jokingly" always stated "what's yours is mine, what's mine is mine". You can imagine how pissed off I was hearing that as time went on. Then long story short, I met a woman who I do love. She's very hard working and she's very willing to pay for herself and for me. However, I am more than happy to pay for her majority of the time and I happen to be quite stubborn about providing for her. It taught me that your gut feeling will tell you who is worth doing this for and who isn't. Look for someone who will treat you well, get you things, do things for you and you will happily provide for her.

Im so tired of the “men so scary, they will rape me narrative”
Just stay away from these women. Most of the women who are loud about this have terrible judgement and have gotten themselves in bad situations just from bad decision making, and are spoiled brats. For example, some recent tea that I got was that my girl's friend went on a date with some guy who got very aggressive with her on their first date so her friends obviously told her not to see him anymore. Well she ended up seeing him again and he got drunk and aggressive with her again and ended up hitting her. And she's surprised about that afterwards and telling her girlfriends what a bad guy he is. Terrible judgment. Look for someone with good judgment and is sure of themselves.

They walk around half naked, but I’m a creep for looking:
There are a LOT of these unfortunately. Very simple. Look for someone who dresses modestly for everyone but you. If she wants everyone looking, she's a narcissist and only looking out for herself.

If you have any boundaries what so ever you’re controlling:
This is all too common with modern women. Guy friends that they're extremely close too, friends with exes, questionable thought process or decision making. Once again, these are selfish women who are looking out for themselves. One that truly loves you won't make things difficult for you and probably won't have any of this going on in the first place. A woman that won't let go of guy friends or exes can but doesn't want to because she sees those relationships as beneficial to HER even though they know that they aren't for you. They will never find someone that accepts that or if they do, they'll get tired of them and they'll continue being lonely. Look for someone who makes other guys jealous of you over how much she adores you instead of her making you jealous of her guy friends/exes that she can't let go of.

It's totally normal to have these negative feelings during modern times and in this broken world. However, I encourage you to avoid keeping this mindset bc other people (especially women) sense it and it repels them. It puts you in mental shackles as well (ie why get with this person if they're just another ****ty woman anyways). Just keep looking and remember, most women are ****, just like most guys are ****. Keep trying and use your judgement from your experiences to trust your gut feeling with the next one and find the one for you. Best of luck!!

 

[cola]

That's the thing. Hookups are easy. Decent long term relationship type women are much harder to come by.

The only solution is to qualify hard and early and keep looking until you find somebody.

Don't allow yourself to get emotionally hooked into an unqualified woman.

And I guess you don’t realize that till you’re past the age of looking for casual hookups

 

[cola]

Nice to see you cola. It's important to get these things off your chest especially because other man feel the same.

They are not equal to men
100% they aren't and I feel like traditional/conservative women understand this more than liberal women. You literally can't talk sense into them. Look for someone who embraces male/female differences.

Now, the trend is they want full time jobs but don’t want to pay an equal share of household bills:
Yes, that's the thought process of modern women. 1 woman indirectly taught me a very important lesson on this. I've always been very stubborn and didn't agree with a man paying for a woman. This woman tried to convince me very very hard that if I truly loved her, I'd be happy to pay for her and "jokingly" always stated "what's yours is mine, what's mine is mine". You can imagine how pissed off I was hearing that as time went on. Then long story short, I met a woman who I do love. She's very hard working and she's very willing to pay for herself and for me. However, I am more than happy to pay for her majority of the time and I happen to be quite stubborn about providing for her. It taught me that your gut feeling will tell you who is worth doing this for and who isn't. Look for someone who will treat you well, get you things, do things for you and you will happily provide for her.

Im so tired of the “men so scary, they will rape me narrative”
Just stay away from these women. Most of the women who are loud about this have terrible judgement and have gotten themselves in bad situations just from bad decision making, and are spoiled brats. For example, some recent tea that I got was that my girl's friend went on a date with some guy who got very aggressive with her on their first date so her friends obviously told her not to see him anymore. Well she ended up seeing him again and he got drunk and aggressive with her again and ended up hitting her. And she's surprised about that afterwards and telling her girlfriends what a bad guy he is. Terrible judgment. Look for someone with good judgment and is sure of themselves.

They walk around half naked, but I’m a creep for looking:
There are a LOT of these unfortunately. Very simple. Look for someone who dresses modestly for everyone but you. If she wants everyone looking, she's a narcissist and only looking out for herself.

If you have any boundaries what so ever you’re controlling:
This is all too common with modern women. Guy friends that they're extremely close too, friends with exes, questionable thought process or decision making. Once again, these are selfish women who are looking out for themselves. One that truly loves you won't make things difficult for you and probably won't have any of this going on in the first place. A woman that won't let go of guy friends or exes can but doesn't want to because she sees those relationships as beneficial to HER even though they know that they aren't for you. They will never find someone that accepts that or if they do, they'll get tired of them and they'll continue being lonely. Look for someone who makes other guys jealous of you over how much she adores you instead of her making you jealous of her guy friends/exes that she can't let go of.

It's totally normal to have these negative feelings during modern times and in this broken world. However, I encourage you to avoid keeping this mindset bc other people (especially women) sense it and it repels them. It puts you in mental shackles as well (ie why get with this person if they're just another ****ty woman anyways). Just keep looking and remember, most women are ****, just like most guys are ****. Keep trying and use your judgement from your experiences to trust your gut feeling with the next one and find the one for you. Best of luck!!

Hey old friend good to see you’re still around and good to see I can still come here when I need sensible men to vent to.

 

[Solomon]

I’ve literally been around here over a decade. But maybe in a way you’re right and this is some type of regresssion.

Maybe I’m getting older and desperately want something more than hook ups, and in my younger days that’s all I cared about so I could tolerate their bs. Atleast long enough to get what I wanted.

Brother you're maturing I'm on the the same wave. I don't care for hooks ups been there done that.
Unfortunately, a lot of women especially as you get older come with baggage i.e. single moms, mental health, etc
If you get burned out there is nothing wrong with taking a 6 month break or even a year. Heck if you only need a couple months so be it
But if you let that Rage fester women will be able to pick up on it subconsciously even if you try to hide it

 

[cola]

Brother you're maturing I'm on the the same wave. I don't care for hooks ups been there done that.
Unfortunately, a lot of women especially as you get older come with baggage i.e. single moms, mental health, etc
If you get burned out there is nothing wrong with taking a 6 month break or even a year. Heck if you only need a couple months so be it
But if you let that Rage fester women will be able to pick up on it subconsciously even if you try to hide it

Very true, thanks brother. Right now it’s gonna be books, gym and finances, deleted all social media. I need a hard reset and a break from these 304s.

 

[CBear]

And I guess you don’t realize that till you’re past the age of looking for casual hookups

This is interesting as the red pill is very much a response to feminism and from what I've seen, men entering or are well into their 30s are beyond tired of women just as women around this age are beyond tired of men. I believe that the redpill and hookup culture has created a lot of resentful men just like feminism and hookup culture has created a lot of resentful women. I've heard a lot of people saying that if they could've redone it all, they would've just focused on trying to find the long term partner instead of hooking up as it was just a waste of time and the better options become less and less the older everyone gets.

 

[cola]

This is interesting as the red pill is very much a response to feminism and from what I've seen, men entering or are well into their 30s are beyond tired of women just as women around this age are beyond tired of men. I believe that the redpill and hookup culture has created a lot of resentful men just like feminism and hookup culture has created a lot of resentful women. I've heard a lot of people saying that if they could've redone it all, they would've just focused on trying to find the long term partner instead of hooking up as it was just a waste of time and the better options become less and less the older everyone gets.

But on the other side of the same coin, I’m old enough to have friends who did it the right way.
They didn’t hook up, they married their highschool sweetheart and had kids and now are getting divorce raped because she just woke up and didn’t wanna be married anymore..

 

[Bokanovsky]

This is a safe place to vent right? Like I feel like most guys here get it..

Guys idk where to begin, like I can’t talk to anyone about this in daily life but I literally hate women. I got to get this **** off my chest it’s been on my mind for a while ..


They are not equal to men:
I hate that they feel like they are in any way equal to men. Why do we have women police on officers?
I’m 6,1 240 lbs with 20 years of weight lifting under my belt, there isn’t a woman that could subdue me on earth without use of lethal force.

If I was a cop I’d be so pissed to be assigned a woman partner, she would literally be a liability in a 2 on 2 situation.
The point is, we allow women to have jobs and careers they biologically aren’t suited for just because “everything has to be equal”

They have contributed almost nothing to modern society as far as infrastructure, technology and yet we have to parade around society like they are somehow equal to a man.

Now, the trend is they want full time jobs but don’t want to pay an equal share of household bills:

The new trend on TikTok and Instagram is women don’t want “50/50 men” .. women are literally saying out loud they want to work full time jobs, but don’t want to contribute an equal share to the house hold.. What’s even crazier to me is this **** is happening in the midst of some of the hardest economic times any of us have seen in our life time.
What type of selfish sack of **** would work full time and bank all their money and watch their man scramble to come up with all the bill money? Women will literally watch you work yourself to the brink of death all to brag to their friends that their man pays all the bills. It’s ridiculous, you would have to be masochist to even consider a long term relationship with any of these women.

Im so tired of the “men so scary, they will rape me narrative”

Can men be a little douchey with women? Yes, we have all seen the guys at bars drunk be a little too aggressive with women and say some out of pocket things but let’s be real 99% of men wouldn’t consider raping or sexually assaulting a woman. Now its like if I stand too close to a woman she is acting like I’m some type of monster or stalker or something … it’s like men have to go out of their way to prove to women they aren’t gonna kidnap them or something like give me a break, which leads me to:

They walk around half naked, but I’m a creep for looking:

Idk how many of you guys are still in the club or bar scene but the trend this summer was women literally wearing lingerie as club outfits.

but somehow, you aren’t suppose to judge them on this slutty display.. Where are standards or morals? How could you even expect a man to respect that? Want to wife that? It’s just disgusting..

If you have any boundaries what so ever you’re controlling:

I was recently dating a girl exclusively who had some childhood male friends who wanted to come visit her. She insisted that they spend the night at her place instead of “wasting money at the hotel”.. due to work obligations I would not be present.
I told her this would be the end of our exclusivity. You aren’t going to have men stay at your place a weekend and I’m not around ..

Well her and her friends decided I’m “controlling and insecure” I blocked her.
They throw around that “controlling & insecure” **** at anything you do that shows you have balls.

It’s to the point guys I don’t even want anything to do with women, they literally disgust me and we need a major shift or society is going to continue to get worse in regards to male female relations


that’s all.. just a rant I have to make online because if you say it out loud “you’re sexist” and bla bla bla.. I’m sure I’ll meet someone and it will pass but this is where my mind is right now

I understand where you're coming from and find it difficult to disagree with anything that you've said. The double standards are particularly grating. Women want equality but only when it benefits them. They demand equal wages and, at the same time, want men to be providers (the mutually incompatibility of those two propositions is somehow lost on them). In many ways, men have become second class citizens. The criminal justice system and the family court system are heavily biased against men. Men have to walk on eggshells to avoid being falsely accused of sexual harassment in certain settings while women who ruin lives with false allegations are almost never punished. It's understandable that all of this makes you feel bitter and resentful. But at the end of the day, hating women is not the answer.

If you really want to blame someone for the current state of affairs, you might as well blame men. They bear just as much responsibility, if not more. It's not like there was a women's rebellion or a civil war between men and women that women won. Instead, it was generations after generations of weak and/or corrupt male politicians, pvssy-whipped husbands and random variety pvssy-beggars voluntarily giving up their power and creating an environment where the weak dominate the strong.

Also, consider this: while women have theoretically obtained a privileged position in society, most of them have no idea what to do with it. Most "liberated" modern women are fundamentally unhappy and lead shallow, unfulfilling lives. What women demand in Tok Tok videos is rarely what they actually end up getting in real life. Those are just aspirational videos, the female equivalent of viral Andrew Tate clips. The average American woman is not going to end up with anything remotely resembling a wealthy and "generous" man.

 

[CBear]

But on the other side of the same coin, I’m old enough to have friends who did it the right way.
They didn’t hook up, they married their highschool sweetheart and had kids and now are getting divorce raped because she just woke up and didn’t wanna be married anymore..

Well tbf, imo I think both are extremes. I don't think it's a good idea at all to marry someone that you've been with since you were 14-18 with nothing to base off of or no experience whatsoever. Humans are curious and will always ask themselves "what if". I've also seen people get married young to the first person they were with or bc they had a baby and one or both end up cheating and divorcing due to the "what if" thought.