issues while having sex

[wildleopard]

hey everyone..
ive been watching and reading the stuff posted here thru out the time ive been registered and its been very helpful generally..
anyway, i managed to score a 39 yr old woman from where i work.. and i managed to get her into bed after being very persistant.. but herein lied the problem i least expected..
this was only second time having sex.. with my first time also having the same result.. im 27 years old..
well i manage to get hard while making love, foreplay, sucking nipples etc etc.. but when the time comes to actually put it in her.. im not very hard.. and she has to actually guide it inside of her coz im not very hard and im embarrassed that i cant find the exact location while in heat of the moment..although i do finger her inside for lots of time.. anyway, the main problem lies that after everything.. few thrusts and i begin to lose my erection.. and thats it.. no matter how much i feel her body or get sexual things in my mind.. my pen.is just shrinks back.. and i have to stop although she is very frustrated and thinks she is not attractive enuff to keep me hard.. and the first time i had sex, this thing actually turned the woman off.. as my d.ick just kept coming out while she was on top of me..
i dont know what to do.. i dont want to even have sex.. as its embarrassing.. i never thought this wud happen..
can you all please guide me?
secondly, ive realised that this woman's friend is very desperate to hook up with some and she has been single for very long.. and i think she is dying for c.ock... how can i score her while keeping this woman with me as well.. coz my current lady is not available a lot of times...
please give me some nice suggestions.. as it wud be pretty good to get the other in bed..
thanks a lot..
mark

 

[Mr Autobahn]

Let me get this straight, you are having performance problems with one woman, and then are thinking of sex with another woman?

Here are my thoughts...

• Slow down buddy!
• Word of warning, having a relationship with two women who know each other has an excellent chance of blowing up on you.
• And if you work with one of them, imagine how awkward is going to be afterwards...

What do you think about telling the woman about your performance problem? She already knows you are having a problem so there isn't anything left to hide. And to tell you the truth, I think there are lots of guys who have the same EXACT problem you have or worse...

 

[wildleopard]

thanks for the reply..
to be honest, i told this lady that ive been fcuking lots of women when she asked me about my past.. and that was very impressive for her.. so thats why its even more embarrassing for me that i cant even keep myself hard for long enuff.. and obviously i cant *** at that time.. so i come home and wank.. what irony! im not really attracted to her in general but i had to tell her that i loved her very much just to get her in bed.. and she duly obliged..
as for the other woman, how do you think she can come to me just for the sex.. without telling the other?

 

[jimmyjack]

hum another difficult one to read,a 50 dollar charge for this one cause i see darkest in your future.so she is 39 and does not like sucking **** well for me if i have to make love with a woman she has to really suck my **** if not i may end up being like you and you too you have been sucking brest like a baby men suck it very well.stop sucking brest

 

[Night Owl]

[*] Word of warning, having a relationship with two women who know each other has an excellent chance of blowing up on you.

[*] And if you work with one of them, imagine how awkward is going to be afterwards.

My old Grannie always said "never go fishing off the company pier" !! Never were more truer words spoken...

 

[amoka]

The problem is that inside you, you're feel like doing something inappropriate, thus by cheating on your girl. Usually, when people do things out of usual, such as cheating on their woman, they don't function properly. My advice to you is ensure that you can maintain "hardon" with you woman for good period of time during sex before banging another woman on the side.

 

[IsiMan84]

Yea I'm pretty sure it's just tough to keep it up when you're nervous. And it sounds like you're definitely nervous. It happens.

Oh yea and then throw in the fact that you LIED about your prior experiences, thus creating a standard that you obviously won't live up to. All that combined with only doing it once before and you're pretty much doomed.

 

[mintxx]

If you're having a seriously vicious cycle of anxiety, go to your doc and get a sample of Cialis. Then fvck her half a dozen times one evening, or until she says she's sore. You won't need it again once you've built some good mental associations between her and a raging hard-on. Only do this if you have exhausted all other options, and only use it once. If it subsequently fails to improve, you're simply fvcking the wrong woman. It happens.