darkjedi
Don Juan
So, I've been trying to work on my club game for a bit now and I find that I can approach woman confidently now without any issues.
The problem I am having now is once I do have that woman's attention and I'm gaming her, things are going good, when I go to isolate... her friends come by and block my advances ending up with her running back off with them. Or, she always mentions that she has to find her friends, ect... Why can't she think for herself and tell her friends to stop hating? Let me give you some examples:
- Approach woman, get her to dance with me, build up convo, rapport. While dancing,
Me: Let's go outside and take a break (or another variation I've used come with me to the bar, I'm going to grab a drink), I've love to talk to you some more.
HB: I need to stay here with my friends.
Me: Ok, thanks for the dance I'll catch up with you later (scratch that for the night)
- Another dance floor situation,
Me: *talking to her build up rapport*
HB: *listening to me and talking back*
HB's Friends: *grabs HB and says something like, "Hey girl, lets go get a drink or I have to goto the bathroom."
HB: I have to go with my girl's, but come find me later.
Me: Ok... (mental note to scratch that as well)
- Approaching a small group 2-3 woman
Me: Sup ladies, how's it going tonight?
Group reply: Good, cool, ect...
Me: *makes some general chat about the club with group*
Group: *laughing having good convo with me, ect...*
Me: *start to game woman I'm interested in within the group*
Me: *to HB* So let me talk to you for a sec over here.
HB's Friends: She has to stay with us, we're bout to head back out to the dance floor.
HB: Yeah, I have to stay with them.
Me: That's cute, your mom is here to keep you out of trouble.
HB: *starts laughing* come dance with me
Me: Sure, but we're going to head to the dance floor this way *grab HB's hand and attempt to pull from group
HB: *signals to friends we are leaving*
HB's Friends: *grab HB come on we're going this way, stay with us*
HB: *tries to pull me with them*
Me: I'll catch up with you in a sec... *leaves group*
- And lastly my favorite when gaming a woman that is there with one other friend.
Me: *approach both woman and bulid up convo*
Me: *start talking to HB I'm interested in*
Me: Let's go hit the dance floor.
HB: Ok that's cool, *we head to dance floor... friends comes too*
Me: *after dancing a few sons* I'd love to talk to you a bit more, let's go take a quick break.
HB's Friend: No, she can't leave me, she's with me tonight...
HB: Me and my girl have to stay together, but lets keep dancing.
Me: Your friend can keep dancing, we'll just post over to the side for a sec
HB's Friend: *grabs HB and starts dancing with her*
Me: That's cool, I'm going to take a break but I'll catch up with you later...
You get the idea now...
The biggest problem I am having is isolating the woman I'm gaming due to her friends. I know if I can get her away from her friends and get her to not think about them, my conversion rate would go up. I've even had a few good wingmen with me to occupy the friends, but it does not work. Her friends always seem to end up in the mix. I'd love to be able to isolate the woman without her friends coming back to take her away or her saying she needs to go back to her friends. It would be great if I could close her and leave the club with her without her friends having any say in it.
I'd love to hear from you on how to go about eliminating this problem. How do you all handle this?
The problem I am having now is once I do have that woman's attention and I'm gaming her, things are going good, when I go to isolate... her friends come by and block my advances ending up with her running back off with them. Or, she always mentions that she has to find her friends, ect... Why can't she think for herself and tell her friends to stop hating? Let me give you some examples:
- Approach woman, get her to dance with me, build up convo, rapport. While dancing,
Me: Let's go outside and take a break (or another variation I've used come with me to the bar, I'm going to grab a drink), I've love to talk to you some more.
HB: I need to stay here with my friends.
Me: Ok, thanks for the dance I'll catch up with you later (scratch that for the night)
- Another dance floor situation,
Me: *talking to her build up rapport*
HB: *listening to me and talking back*
HB's Friends: *grabs HB and says something like, "Hey girl, lets go get a drink or I have to goto the bathroom."
HB: I have to go with my girl's, but come find me later.
Me: Ok... (mental note to scratch that as well)
- Approaching a small group 2-3 woman
Me: Sup ladies, how's it going tonight?
Group reply: Good, cool, ect...
Me: *makes some general chat about the club with group*
Group: *laughing having good convo with me, ect...*
Me: *start to game woman I'm interested in within the group*
Me: *to HB* So let me talk to you for a sec over here.
HB's Friends: She has to stay with us, we're bout to head back out to the dance floor.
HB: Yeah, I have to stay with them.
Me: That's cute, your mom is here to keep you out of trouble.
HB: *starts laughing* come dance with me
Me: Sure, but we're going to head to the dance floor this way *grab HB's hand and attempt to pull from group
HB: *signals to friends we are leaving*
HB's Friends: *grab HB come on we're going this way, stay with us*
HB: *tries to pull me with them*
Me: I'll catch up with you in a sec... *leaves group*
- And lastly my favorite when gaming a woman that is there with one other friend.
Me: *approach both woman and bulid up convo*
Me: *start talking to HB I'm interested in*
Me: Let's go hit the dance floor.
HB: Ok that's cool, *we head to dance floor... friends comes too*
Me: *after dancing a few sons* I'd love to talk to you a bit more, let's go take a quick break.
HB's Friend: No, she can't leave me, she's with me tonight...
HB: Me and my girl have to stay together, but lets keep dancing.
Me: Your friend can keep dancing, we'll just post over to the side for a sec
HB's Friend: *grabs HB and starts dancing with her*
Me: That's cool, I'm going to take a break but I'll catch up with you later...
You get the idea now...
The biggest problem I am having is isolating the woman I'm gaming due to her friends. I know if I can get her away from her friends and get her to not think about them, my conversion rate would go up. I've even had a few good wingmen with me to occupy the friends, but it does not work. Her friends always seem to end up in the mix. I'd love to be able to isolate the woman without her friends coming back to take her away or her saying she needs to go back to her friends. It would be great if I could close her and leave the club with her without her friends having any say in it.
I'd love to hear from you on how to go about eliminating this problem. How do you all handle this?
