isnt FRIENDSHIP a human invention?

[Tiguere]

just like
god
money
religion
afterlife
heaven
hell

to be specific im refering to friendship between a man and a woman.

it goes against the laws of nature. and mostly woman get the upper hand in the friendship. they have the power.

how did primitive humans dealt with this phenomenon?

do you guys think centuries ago men were fooled into believing a platonic relationship can exist with the opposite sex suppressing their biologic instinct to reproduce?

do you guys believe FRIENDSHIP had to be invented by the old running elite for the transition of humans from the jungle since back then humans only interacted with their tribe and rarely with anyone else.

feedbacks appreciated.

 

[RedZone]

I feel that with every generation that passes men act more like pussies. This allows women to have more power in the relationship.

I'm almost certain centuries and centuries ago men and women had relationships much like animals do today. The men would show their dominance and the women would chase them.

Now it seems like good majority of men have lost that dominance. We get caught up with everything in the media and let it dictate how we approach women.

All in all who cares if friendships were a human invention. If you want to be friends be friends if you don't don't bother.

 

[Uberguy]

The Internet is a human invention, too, but you don't seem to be averse to it.

If you're attracted to a girl, and you want to be more than friends, make sure she knows that it's that or nothing.

But if you're not attracted to the girl, where's the harm in being friends with her if you enjoy hanging out?

 

[ovi789]

Well friendship is a nice invention of mankind but I wanna say that this is a gift from God , cause humans have brain so that they try and maintain friendship but what about animals they too maintain friendship

 

[DJ Logic]

Hear, hear ovi789. Animals do befriend each other, often for life and with more loyalty than us. Sometimes they cross species boundaries too:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59v3PmKp-5Y

Sometimes predators even befriend what should be their prey:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxYiLzWee84

Friendship is a beautiful, natural thing that all conscious life can participate in. It's not only arrogant, but pretty cynical to think we invented it.

 

[Alle_Gory]

No because animals have friends, and animals aren't human.

 

[user43770]

Tiguere, I feel what you're saying. Ever since I found my manhood I've refused to be "friends" with women. Sure, I talk to less women because of it, but I don't have near as much sexual frustration. This sh1t has been touched on plenty on this forum - by posters who are a lot better than I am (KontrollerX) - but it can't be said enough. Generally, a male with a female friend is a sad situation. The guy wants to fvck and the girl wants to be friends. Horrible. Avoid it at alll costs. From personal experience, it's better to be lonely than to be an emotional tampon.

 

[Razor Sharp]

Huh?

Wow, I really must be a freak of nature or something. Female friends have gotten me more action than any other outlet.

One of my best friends is this smoking lady that I tried to hit on, but she had a boyfriend at the time. I respected her for being faithful even though I could tell she liked me. We been pals ever since and I've f*cked 2 of her friends (currently seeing one of them). She broke up with her man recently and guess who she is sending buying signals to?

A woman only has the upper hand in a friendship if you are hung up on her and have no other options. So while I'd agree that befriending that ONE special girl and being her permanent orbiter is never a good idea, its f*cking AWESOME to have lots of hot female friends and having them orbit you. Why? Because they tend to associate with other hot females and what does that mean for you?

Instant social proof.

Wow, you haven't met Razor yet? OMG he's the coolest guy EVER, in the history of humanity. Quite a catch too; If I didn't have a man right now I'd be all up on that

You don't even need incredible game at this point. The buying temperature is already heated. All you gotta do is look your best, not be a f*cking weirdo and the p*ssy practically falls in your lap. Seriously, when I was single I had 3-4 different girls trying to set me up all the time, the easy hookups actually hurt my game because I stopped approaching for months at a time.

This whole attitude of "women can't be my friend", and "I have enough friends" just reeks of desperation and bitterness of someone who is not successful with women and will try to subtly punish them anytime his poor little feelings are hurt. You are basically saying.

I dont want to be your friend because you won't have sex with me. Wahhh! I'm taking my ball and going home.

How f*cking lame is that? What a douchebag move. But keep doing it fellas. Less competition for me

 

[ArcBound]

This whole attitude of "women can't be my friend", and "I have enough friends" just reeks of desperation and bitterness of someone who is not successful with women and will try to subtly punish them anytime his poor little feelings are hurt. You are basically saying.

I dont want to be your friend because you won't have sex with me. Wahhh! I'm taking my ball and going home.

How f*cking lame is that? What a douchebag move. But keep doing it fellas. Less competition for me

This. My close girl friends always introduce me to other girls. Its like they wanna play matchmaker. Not to mention they invite me out to events, always want to hang out with me to give "social proof" and well, they help me out like friends should.

By saying you are incapable of hanging out as a friend with 50% of the human race says something about your personality...

 

[Gray The Prince]

just like
god
money
religion
afterlife
heaven
hell

to be specific im refering to friendship between a man and a woman.

it goes against the laws of nature. and mostly woman get the upper hand in the friendship. they have the power.

how did primitive humans dealt with this phenomenon?

do you guys think centuries ago men were fooled into believing a platonic relationship can exist with the opposite sex suppressing their biologic instinct to reproduce?

do you guys believe FRIENDSHIP had to be invented by the old running elite for the transition of humans from the jungle since back then humans only interacted with their tribe and rarely with anyone else.

feedbacks appreciated.

Dude, you sound bitter and butthurt. I gotta agree with the last 2 guys who approached above me. Nothing wrong with being friends with a female, as long as y'all aren't really attracted to each other, then its cool.

FRIENDZONE- As far as you liking her and she just wants to be"friends" (Emotional Tampon, you being one of her girlfriends, or some **** like that) then that's a problem.

 

[Strelok]

Huh?

Wow, I really must be a freak of nature or something. Female friends have gotten me more action than any other outlet.

One of my best friends is this smoking lady that I tried to hit on, but she had a boyfriend at the time. I respected her for being faithful even though I could tell she liked me. We been pals ever since and I've f*cked 2 of her friends (currently seeing one of them). She broke up with her man recently and guess who she is sending buying signals to?

A woman only has the upper hand in a friendship if you are hung up on her and have no other options. So while I'd agree that befriending that ONE special girl and being her permanent orbiter is never a good idea, its f*cking AWESOME to have lots of hot female friends and having them orbit you. Why? Because they tend to associate with other hot females and what does that mean for you?

Instant social proof.

Wow, you haven't met Razor yet? OMG he's the coolest guy EVER, in the history of humanity. Quite a catch too; If I didn't have a man right now I'd be all up on that

You don't even need incredible game at this point. The buying temperature is already heated. All you gotta do is look your best, not be a f*cking weirdo and the p*ssy practically falls in your lap. Seriously, when I was single I had 3-4 different girls trying to set me up all the time, the easy hookups actually hurt my game because I stopped approaching for months at a time.

This whole attitude of "women can't be my friend", and "I have enough friends" just reeks of desperation and bitterness of someone who is not successful with women and will try to subtly punish them anytime his poor little feelings are hurt. You are basically saying.

I dont want to be your friend because you won't have sex with me. Wahhh! I'm taking my ball and going home.

How f*cking lame is that? What a douchebag move. But keep doing it fellas. Less competition for me

Lucky you mate but it could happen the complete opposite.

What about a girl who's afraid to lose her "friend" and his attention so when talking to him say stuff like "he's such a nice guy that you can trust", a line like that would burn even Casanova.
Never estimate the selfishness of a woman,just remember the great suggestion guys get from their mothers in order to don't find girls who would take away from home.