Is walking power really the only power we have over women?

[SamTheHobit]

If so it's actually quite sad, I mean 90% percent of the women won't even give a fvck so that power kinda flies out the door.

Do you guys have any other idea's of having power over women? I mean it's not fair that they always hold the cards.

 

[zekko]

Guru1000 and BackintheGame78 have both posted some recent threads which feature mistreating women. Some may have deserved it, some may not. But they do show that if you are willing to be ruthless in your actions, you can affect some "power" over women, if that's what you desire:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=228691

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=228292

 

[marmel75]

Hmm...not sure if I'd necessarily say its mistreating a woman, I'd say its doing whatever you want without regard for what they claim they want.

 

[SuckItUp]

It's not about having power over women as it is not allowing them to have power over you.

 

[Stugots26]

You don't have any power OVER women. You don't have any control OVER women either.

Control of the external world is an illusion.

All you can really control is your own actions and your emotions. Women try to manipulate us because they can hijack most men's emotions to the point men cannot control their actions. Women do this by playing on our fears of loss and lack of confidence.

It really is all a front, though. Women are incredibly insecure or they wouldn't have to resort to such manipulation. Walking away works better than you actually think it does. And it will work on a woman IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU.

You may never see the effect though. Remember, women manipulate. They can't accept reality as it is, so they try to change reality by trying to change the emotional states of the men around them. If it doesn't work, usually they'll move on to try it with the next, weaker guy. Most women won't let on how much it stings, but again that depends on their attraction level.

You walk away because it's healthy, particularly to have and enforce boundaries. You walk away for you. Some women chasing after you when you do walk away is only a bonus but should not be the reason.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It's not about having power over women as it is not allowing them to have power over you.

It actually IS about showing dominance over them which allows/forces them to submit. In my short experiences with using it, its the quickest, fastest way to get what you want and have the woman become almost obsessed with you at the same time. It's straightforward, she knows what your intentions are and if she goes along with it, there is no mystery as to what is going to happen.

But I seem to be simply working on using a personality trait that I already had, which I never really applied to dating. Not sure how this would work with someone who does not have a forceful personality or if it would come off as fake or incongruent.

 

[SuckItUp]

It actually IS about showing dominance over them which allows/forces them to submit. In my short experiences with using it, its the quickest, fastest way to get what you want and have the woman become almost obsessed with you at the same time. It's straightforward, she knows what your intentions are and if she goes along with it, there is no mystery as to what is going to happen.

But I seem to be simply working on using a personality trait that I already had, which I never really applied to dating. Not sure how this would work with someone who does not have a forceful personality or if it would come off as fake or incongruent.

Fair enough. Sadly it's not congruent with my personality (I'm more of a charmer/rake) but hey perhaps it's time to weave it into my framework.

 

[Konada]

If so it's actually quite sad, I mean 90% percent of the women won't even give a fvck so that power kinda flies out the door.

Do you guys have any other idea's of having power over women? I mean it's not fair that they always hold the cards.

Walking away as Stugots put it rightly, is a demonstration of your boundaries and discipline as a man. The women who don't give a fvck aren't worth your time simply because they are either playing games or have low interest. The women who come back are those you can focus your attention on.

 

[prison/con.net]

life aint fair. get over it. You're supposed to be a MAN. There's people around with their backs broken, legs blown off, etc, and all your little whiny ass thinks about is "boohoo, I can't get any".

 

[SamTheHobit]

life aint fair. get over it. You're supposed to be a MAN. There's people around with their backs broken, legs blown off, etc, and all your little whiny ass thinks about is "boohoo, I can't get any".

Don't be a tw@t.

 

[Suspens]

What guru does and advises is not mistreatment. The way he delivers the message to her dates exudes power, confidence and real indifference.

BackInTheGame did a good job with delivering the message, it was his bitter, immature and vengeful behavior which was absolutely wrong.

 

[Lozboss]

Some great posts in here.

Key for me is this: Walking away says that you enforce your boundaries.

Women will test you, to see if you a beta who will take that ****- who will mould himself to please her.

Set your own boundaries and then stand by them- if someone steps across then you need to hold your ground and wade out any storm. If they continually do it then you walk.

this is all linked to an abundance mindset- arguably the most difficult red pill truth. Walking away says 'I am better than this and I will go find better'

Never use it as a tactic- use it to enforce your own boundaries and stay true to yourself.

On a separate note OP i suggest you go on a self enforced sex ban. Why you ask? To show yourself that you CAN live with no sex. Once sex holds no power over you then the women's tools will falter.

 

[RangerMIke]

Nothing is more powerful to do to a women then just walking away and ignoring her, it drives them nuts. Trying to set boundaries is pointless. When she does what you like reward her with your presence: when she does something you don't like punish her by removing yourself and ignore her.

Don't get mad, just have the mindset that life is too short to be spending it with a miserable nag. When she behaves poorly, just walk away, and go find another one.

 

[Heisenburger]

You don't have any power OVER women. You don't have any control OVER women either.

Control of the external world is an illusion.

All you can really control is your own actions and your emotions. Women try to manipulate us because they can hijack most men's emotions to the point men cannot control their actions. Women do this by playing on our fears of loss and lack of confidence.

It really is all a front, though. Women are incredibly insecure or they wouldn't have to resort to such manipulation. Walking away works better than you actually think it does. And it will work on a woman IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU.

You may never see the effect though. Remember, women manipulate. They can't accept reality as it is, so they try to change reality by trying to change the emotional states of the men around them. If it doesn't work, usually they'll move on to try it with the next, weaker guy. Most women won't let on how much it stings, but again that depends on their attraction level.

You walk away because it's healthy, particularly to have and enforce boundaries. You walk away for you. Some women chasing after you when you do walk away is only a bonus but should not be the reason.

Excellent post. Well said.

Treat a woman like you would treat your pet dog. If your dog is misbehaving, your not going to give it a doggy biscuit (your attention) are you.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Walking away is the only power you NEED. You're greatest asset in life is time, you will to give or take time from someone is your greatest virtue.

 

[Poon King]

You don't have any power OVER women. You don't have any control OVER women either.

Control of the external world is an illusion.

All you can really control is your own actions and your emotions. Women try to manipulate us because they can hijack most men's emotions to the point men cannot control their actions. Women do this by playing on our fears of loss and lack of confidence.

It really is all a front, though. Women are incredibly insecure or they wouldn't have to resort to such manipulation. Walking away works better than you actually think it does. And it will work on a woman IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU.

You may never see the effect though. Remember, women manipulate. They can't accept reality as it is, so they try to change reality by trying to change the emotional states of the men around them. If it doesn't work, usually they'll move on to try it with the next, weaker guy. Most women won't let on how much it stings, but again that depends on their attraction level.

You walk away because it's healthy, particularly to have and enforce boundaries. You walk away for you. Some women chasing after you when you do walk away is only a bonus but should not be the reason.

+1

Couldn't of said it better myself. This post is 100% true.

However.. there ARE ways to have power over women if you really want it. But the amount of work required isn't really worth the hassle. You don't need power over ONE woman when there are many who will give you what you want.

Anyway.. for those who do want power.. the key is dependence and fear. These are the main tools that allow you to control a woman (or anyone else). You must provide something she cannot get anywhere else if you want to create dependence. If you want to use fear.. you must find a way to lower her self-esteem to the point that she believes she cannot do better than you. This is actually the game most women play when they manipulate men into beta submission. Its very effective.

Word of caution though.. human beings inherently don't like to be controlled. When someone has too much power over you it leads to resentment which in time.. makes that person work towards taking that power away. The civil rights movement is a good example as well as people who want to overthrow the Government.

People don't like to be controlled. Its best to live a free life and allow women to do the same. The most important thing is that YOU are free and not a co-dependent b!tch who needs female validation like oxygen.

 

[GS750]

"Poon King" always has women on his mind hating them like his fellow SS mods who protect him in the forum letting him run rampant posting whatever he wants. Women are your oxygen being the co dependent b!tches you are.

It's dipsh*ts like you who are bringing this site down and members are getting fed up and leaving. Go post over at loveshack.


Edit: Looks like talker has been banned. Oh well.

 

[GS750]

And you contribute how? I'm interested. Almost every single one of your 10 posts on this forum attacks PK in some way. You have a Poon King fetish. And in all likelyhood he doesn't spend half a second worrying about you or what you think. Loveshack is waiting on you.

 

[Lozboss]

I honestly wish the mods would just start banning these trolls- always trying to derail genuine threads.

 

[GS750]

well it looks like Talker has been banned. His posts are gone, no loss there. This is an important thread. The ability to walk away from a woman, and knowing when to walk away from a woman, shows that you value yourself and your time more than anything. There are way too many girls willing to jerk guys around, string them along, use them, etc. for selfish reasons. In my case if I get the feeling I'm being jerked around I'll flat out ignore or just simply block their number. Got no time for that.