You already did a lot of damage to your image by acting in an AFC way. From each an every one of your replies, I find something that shouldn't have been said or done, or should have been done in a different way.
This is the question that girls use when they're not sure about whether a guy is playing them or wants them as a girlfriend. GIRLS! A man should never use a question like that, because a man is confident, and doesn't care what he is to her eyes. What matters is how YOU see HER.
Now if the girl had answered in any other way, you would have been better off, but something is wrong here. What is it, you ask? Well, she didn't give you a straight answer! So either she is playing you, or she is not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings (girls do that a lot).
Now, what's the bottom line?
Since you already did so much damage, the only way for you to undo this damage should be to pull away from her. Develop your personality and grow to act like a man when interacting with women. Tell her that you are not something to be toyed with, and stand your grounds. You want a relationship, but she clearly doesn't. Plus, you shouldn't be with a woman who is still thinking about her ex-boyfriend.
Get the **** away from there as fast as possible, and tell her to come back when she's resolved those ex-boyfriend issues. In the meantime, GO F*** TEN OTHER WOMEN!!!
I know that there is a very high probability that you will not take this advice, in which case you will end up hurting a lot more than if you applied it right now, but on the bright side, you WILL end up learning something from this situation. Now any smart person can make mistakes, but true intelligence is seen in whether you will repeat them or not...
Good luck with your situation, and keep us all updated.
"Miraculously"?? Where the hell is your confidence? Second of all, what took you so long to ask her out?
I am ready to bet anything that other guys who have dated chicks 8 years younger than them have NEVER asked themselves this questions. That's another confidence issue.
There are two things wrong here: the question you asked, and her answer.
This is the question that girls use when they're not sure about whether a guy is playing them or wants them as a girlfriend. GIRLS! A man should never use a question like that, because a man is confident, and doesn't care what he is to her eyes. What matters is how YOU see HER.
Now if the girl had answered in any other way, you would have been better off, but something is wrong here. What is it, you ask? Well, she didn't give you a straight answer! So either she is playing you, or she is not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings (girls do that a lot).
This reeks insecurity. Do you even know this girl that well? Have you explored every aspect of her personality, enough to know the real her and to qualify her as your wifey-to-be, or is she just very cute? bozo, listen clearly, because I'll only say this once in this reply: do not let a woman conquer your heart before you have conquered hers. You hardly know her, and from the signs she's given you in the past, she obviously can't commit to a relationship. What's the use? This girl is just wasting your time.
What she told you is BULLSHlT!!! Listen, if she really wanted you, she woudn't care about anything else, and would be with you.I just found out.. .that she is still deciding whether she wanna get back with her x dat cheats on her!!! I hope not...She doesn't seem to trust guys easily after dat...
Now, what's the bottom line?
Since you already did so much damage, the only way for you to undo this damage should be to pull away from her. Develop your personality and grow to act like a man when interacting with women. Tell her that you are not something to be toyed with, and stand your grounds. You want a relationship, but she clearly doesn't. Plus, you shouldn't be with a woman who is still thinking about her ex-boyfriend.
Get the **** away from there as fast as possible, and tell her to come back when she's resolved those ex-boyfriend issues. In the meantime, GO F*** TEN OTHER WOMEN!!!
I know that there is a very high probability that you will not take this advice, in which case you will end up hurting a lot more than if you applied it right now, but on the bright side, you WILL end up learning something from this situation. Now any smart person can make mistakes, but true intelligence is seen in whether you will repeat them or not...
Good luck with your situation, and keep us all updated.
