This isn't currently happening now but these women would literally go out of their way to approach me after all this. A couple months ago there was a girl at my gym who asked me out on a date that night but later flaked and ghosted. She reappeared through text and in person at the gym took my hand and placed it on her thigh. She flaked a second time which was when I asked her if she was seeing someone, which she said she wasn't. A week after that she started approaching me again but at that point I just kept it friendly. I don't talk to her anymore but that is what I get for the most part.
The other problem is I'm just genuinely not attracted to the vast majority of women. I'm fit and in shape so when 70% of adults are overweight or obese the pickings are slim. Most of the ones that are attractive are taken, so I have a mindset of scarcity because I know there just isn't much out there. Hell, I have tried dating sites and apps and was absolutely appalled at the quality of women on there and genuinely concerned, there just isn't much out there.
