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Is this is a b**ch shield?

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Hi all. I'm new to posting in the discussion forum :wave:
Um, so here goes. I started talking to a girl who is a friend of a friend about a month or so ago. Did c&f, she was cool with me, always laughed and smiled at the stuff I said etc. Got her number without hassle as well.
A week after this, she didn't wanna talk to me, was giving me the cold shoulder, wouldn't warm up to my interactions. Confused, I decided to tell her how I feel and call her on her sudden change of behaviour (on facebook. I know, I know, but she didn't wanna talk to me or accept my calls). Next thing, she says I'm rude! What?! Most of my friends who I've spoken to about this say she's crazy and I should leave her alone. Would be easy if we weren't studying the same course (Information technology).
This week (three weeks after the incident), I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move? Should I just leave her alone?
 
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Called her out on Facebook as in you made a public comment about it? God I hope not...
 
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*SPHECTACULAR* said:
I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move?
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No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
 
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pdx1138 said:
No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
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^This. There is no closure. Just find your nearest exit and eject.

Being that she is probably is crazy, any attempt to make things right (despite your good intentions) will be seen (by her) as creepy, stalking, and harrassing.

Even if she isn't crazy, she will still likely view any attempt to make things right in a negative light as listed above.

Just let it go.

To answers your title question, no it's not a b*tch shield. B*tch shields are usually limited to when you first approach a girl (or group of girls) that you haven't met before.
 

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No point leaving her alone you have NOTHING to lose. She's definitely crazy, I mean come on, a girl taking IT? Got to be a psycho lol!

You may as well just ask her why she suddenly went cold on you for no reason. Really what do you have to lose? If you just leave her alone you'll never hear from her again anyway, so yeah, talk to her for sure.
 
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Thanks for the advice gents. I've gotten over that chick now. Realised that she wasn't worth my time or energy anymore. :woo: Que "On to The Next One" by Jay-Z ft Swizz Beatz! *bopping my head* :rock:
 
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