Is this guy being a DJ or a Dumbass?

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I realized in school that this guy really does everything he can do to get girls and girls do get along with him. Now the kid is a total d*ck, but I'll describe him to you and see what you think:

First, yes, from personal experience this guy is a bad person. For some unknown reason, he has it in for me as well - I said hi to him one day and he started being a jerk. For example, in track, he beat me by .2 in a race and kept bragging about it in front of people for a couple days, every chance he got. At the next meet, I absolutely destroyed him lol (he shut up after that). :D But did the kid really have to keep bragging it to me (the other guys on the team were like WTF is he doing)?

I've also seen some things to suggest he's not the greatest person - he's weird (demeanor-wise) and tries to do everything just for him. He has mood swings too and actually acts a little feminine at times in my eyes, as he bytches a lot as well for a guy. FOR EXAMPLE, we went on a firld trip Friday and were by a lake. Some other guy on the trip innocently skips rocks across the lake, minding his own business, and this A-Hole starts giving him beef about it - twice.

Now onto the girls - I dunno if his strategy is good or bad. What does he do? ZERO personal space to the girl. I mean, he's always gotta be holding them, wrapping his arm around them or laying his leg on theirs when they sit down - it looks sickening. It is funny though, as he always has to hold on to a girl in some form and can't keep his hands to himself at all. The one confusing things is that girls actually like him (as a friend).

So, any clues onto how this strategy can backfire? I mean, he isn't a good person (trust me on this one) and he never gives girls personal space. Even though he's bigger than me, I can KO him if I wanted to (he is soft - I can see it in his eyes and I beat him in a track race where a lot was on the line for both of us), but that obviously wouldn't look very good. He is a Grade A cokblocker. In fact, my dad really does not want me getting into fights at school, but jsut by seeing how he acts, my dad told me I can beat the crap out of him if I wanted to (if he tries anything on me) and he'd be OK with it.

It's just an interesting observation - it seems random, but do you have any opinions on this type of kid?
 

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there is a guy at my school kinda the same way.

he is a punk b!tch!
 

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y r u obsessing over a guy?
 

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i no of a similar kid in my school except hes not an ass but he somehow knows every girl in our grade and like hangs all over them nonstops but they all see him as a friend and nothing more thats why i made friends with him cuase each day if were hanging out during lunch or i see him during passing period im almost garanteed meeting a new girl i havent met before
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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1. why are you so jealous of him, if girls actually behave just like friends with him:confused:


2. why should you beat him and why does your father agree with that?!:confused:
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
1. why are you so jealous of him, if girls actually behave just like friends with him:confused:


2. why should you beat him and why does your father agree with that?!:confused:
1.) No, I'm not jealous of him. It's just annoying. Like some guy is talking to a girl, then he just comes and grabs her. He also has that little smirk on his face like "I'm the man." He does this all the time too. It's just irregular, and no way am I jealous of him. He's probably just a c*ckblocker.

2.) Me and this guy really don't get along well, although I don't really know why. He just came up to me one day and said he doesn't like me. He's fighting his own war on this, since I don't even talk to him lol. My dad saw what this kid does at the football games. One kid was talking to a girl I know and this guy just wrapped his arm around her and tried to drag her away from the other guy she was talking to (and hte a-hole was trying to tell the other guy to back off). My dad also knows that we don't get along from track, so I guess that's why he would maybe be OK with it.
 

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Originally posted by The Comeback Kid
1.) No, I'm not jealous of him. It's just annoying. Like some guy is talking to a girl, then he just comes and grabs her. He also has that little smirk on his face like "I'm the man." He does this all the time too. It's just irregular, and no way am I jealous of him. He's probably just a c*ckblocker.

2.) Me and this guy really don't get along well, although I don't really know why. He just came up to me one day and said he doesn't like me. He's fighting his own war on this, since I don't even talk to him lol. My dad saw what this kid does at the football games. One kid was talking to a girl I know and this guy just wrapped his arm around her and tried to drag her away from the other guy she was talking to (and hte a-hole was trying to tell the other guy to back off). My dad also knows that we don't get along from track, so I guess that's why he would maybe be OK with it.

1. what's bad with that?! have you ever been at a club? it happens all the time and nobody gives a sh1t


2. so you fight a guy just because he said he doesn't like you? because this is the only reason you mentioned and makes you appear pretty insecure, man...
 

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sounds like a immature insecure wanna be player to me , but who cares?
being a dj is so much more than that.

just because someone isnt a dj , doesnt mean that they are afc either.

there are some guys who are not chumps but they arent djs.
being a dj means that you are secure with yourself.
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
y r u obsessing over a guy?
haha...621 posts in a month.

Anyway, the one big concern with this "guy" is that he's starting to chip into some chick that I'm interested in. Not that I feel he is going to succeed or anything, but it's just annoying, since he does it ALL THE TIME.
 

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"He will not succeed" keep that attitude. Step up your game a little bit (not too much though). Remember you are trying to attract her not impress her.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Holy S h i t dude!! How do you have 621 posts in 1 month??
im helpful.
 

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Originally posted by The Comeback Kid
haha...621 posts in a month.

Anyway, the one big concern with this "guy" is that he's starting to chip into some chick that I'm interested in. Not that I feel he is going to succeed or anything, but it's just annoying, since he does it ALL THE TIME.
so, dont go ****blocking him, he ****blocks himself.
 

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Have you ever heard the saying:

Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.

If you hang out with him he has more to prove to you if you befriend him than a friend does. That is what this means.

Personally I would befriend this guy. Look at the positives this guy has. He is not afraid of anything. He doesn't give a **** about what anyone thinks. That is a good attitude to learn. He also executes a lot of kino and is not afraid of girl's reactions. Befriend this guy and learn from him. This guy may or may not be a DJ but he definately has a good I don't give a **** attitude.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Have you ever heard the saying:

Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.

If you hang out with him he has more to prove to you if you befriend him than a friend does. That is what this means.

Personally I would befriend this guy. Look at the positives this guy has. He is not afraid of anything. He doesn't give a **** about what anyone thinks. That is a good attitude to learn. He also executes a lot of kino and is not afraid of girl's reactions. Befriend this guy and learn from him. This guy may or may not be a DJ but he definately has a good I don't give a **** attitude.
Learn from him? Not gonna happen (don't mean to sound arrogant). He is not a good kid and when the time comes, this will be proven.

This kid's game is 100% kino. 100%. His social skills are inept IMO and he gets along with these girls because, as I've discovered, he uses tons of kino and does w/e they say.

Maybe he's not afraid of girls in terms of kino, but he's soft. We ran track together, and whenever there was a challenge, he backed out. He would bark at me, but when I showed him up (mainly on the track cuz that's when I saw him), he ran away. He is no DJ for sure - when push comes to shove, he is a verbal-abusing chump who can't ever keep his cool under pressure. He is very easy to piss off. Some girl told me some kid from a nopposing school said something to (the a-hole) at a football game and the a-hole just went berserk verbally on him. The kid from the other school just started laughing.
 

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wow....620 ish posts in a month...when he said this

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
on the contrary, i have a waterproof keyboard and its wireless so i sit in shower while my computer is situated on the counter beside the mirror.
i dont think he was kidding
 

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Originally posted by The Comeback Kid
Learn from him? Not gonna happen (don't mean to sound arrogant). He is not a good kid and when the time comes, this will be proven.

This kid's game is 100% kino. 100%. His social skills are inept IMO and he gets along with these girls because, as I've discovered, he uses tons of kino and does w/e they say.

Maybe he's not afraid of girls in terms of kino, but he's soft. We ran track together, and whenever there was a challenge, he backed out. He would bark at me, but when I showed him up (mainly on the track cuz that's when I saw him), he ran away. He is no DJ for sure - when push comes to shove, he is a verbal-abusing chump who can't ever keep his cool under pressure. He is very easy to piss off. Some girl told me some kid from a nopposing school said something to (the a-hole) at a football game and the a-hole just went berserk verbally on him. The kid from the other school just started laughing.
You could still learn that I don't give a **** attitude and learn on the techniques he uses when he does the kino. I'm not saying become exactly like him, just look at the positive attributes he has and learn those attitudes/techniques (even if he is 100% kino you could learn how he does it and make it 75%). Learn something from him and everyone else. Everyone has a piece of the puzzle, it's your job to collect them so you eventually transform into a beautiful picture.
 

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i agree ...with bluelemond that is
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
i agree ...with bluelemond that is
I see what Bluelemond is saying and I have the gist of his idea.

I can definately try to do what this guy is doing, but there is no chance in h*ll I talk to him. He doesn't like me and I don't like him, so I can see what he does and try it, but not talk to him about it.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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