mrksmpsn124
Don Juan
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I have been seeing this girl I go to college with for about 4 months now and we are pretty serious. We are exclusive and have told each other that we love each other. However, she claims she doesn't want a relationship and seems to give me a different reason every time. Anyways, this hasn't bothered me too much because I'm in no rush to put a title on it and make it official, things are fine how they are for the most part and I feel no need to rock the boat. I guess I'm just curious if I should be worried there's some underlying reason she's not saying for why she really doesn't want a relationship.
On top of that, she told me the other day she was bored of us and that she feels like we go in circles and nothing ever changes. I told her I thought part of that could be because we are home from school on our winter break and have only been able to see each other twice in the last 3 weeks. She later apologized for telling me she was bored of us and that she wasn't bored when we were able to see each other more frequently at school.
Finally, for New Years me and some friends are going to my buddy's cabin for a couple of days and are allowed to bring a plus 1. I invited her and she said she wasn't sure because she may be going to disneyland with her cousins. I told her okay and to let me know when she found out. Turns out the Disneyland trip ended yesterday so I asked her if that meant she would be coming at first she said she still didn't know and I said okay you need to decided in the next 2 days. An hour later she told me she wasn't coming because she wanted to spend her last week of break with her mom. I told her okay and left it at that. Then later that night she told me a group of her friends was gonna be in the same area of my friends cabin for New Years and that now she wanted to come with us but that she would wanna meet with friends as well. What happened to being with her mom was that just some bull**** excuse and now that her friends are gonna be where I am she wants to come. Should I confront her about this or just let it be and tell her she can stay with us?
I know this post is long but I'm a newcomer and would really appreciate some help with all three of this problems and be on my way to becoming a DJ
On top of that, she told me the other day she was bored of us and that she feels like we go in circles and nothing ever changes. I told her I thought part of that could be because we are home from school on our winter break and have only been able to see each other twice in the last 3 weeks. She later apologized for telling me she was bored of us and that she wasn't bored when we were able to see each other more frequently at school.
Finally, for New Years me and some friends are going to my buddy's cabin for a couple of days and are allowed to bring a plus 1. I invited her and she said she wasn't sure because she may be going to disneyland with her cousins. I told her okay and to let me know when she found out. Turns out the Disneyland trip ended yesterday so I asked her if that meant she would be coming at first she said she still didn't know and I said okay you need to decided in the next 2 days. An hour later she told me she wasn't coming because she wanted to spend her last week of break with her mom. I told her okay and left it at that. Then later that night she told me a group of her friends was gonna be in the same area of my friends cabin for New Years and that now she wanted to come with us but that she would wanna meet with friends as well. What happened to being with her mom was that just some bull**** excuse and now that her friends are gonna be where I am she wants to come. Should I confront her about this or just let it be and tell her she can stay with us?
I know this post is long but I'm a newcomer and would really appreciate some help with all three of this problems and be on my way to becoming a DJ