Is this girl still interested...

[Aesthetix29]

Ok as the majority of you know i took a girl out on a date last saturday.. everything went really well lots of laughter, kino kissing etc...

Cut a long story short.... after the date we went back to our mutual friends for drinks and we ended up staying in the spare bedroom and had sex a few times, then we went back to hers the day after hungover and just chilled in her room.. and ended up sleeping together again... then at 6pm sunday i went back home.

she texted me this on monday morning

Her ' Hey thanks for sat had a really good night just dropped **** at school made a bacon butty n im off bk to bed enjoy work xxx '

Me ' Your welcome... so does that mean were on for a second date then mrs (;Aww im so jealous i want a bacon butty haha... and yeh..yeh rub it in will you, Ive actually managed to blag work so im only on half day...RESULT! Xx '

bear in mind these messages were sent on monday and by wednesday i'd still not heard anything so yesterday i sent her this

Me ' Heyy, How are you? Figured we could do something this weekend... Like have a chilled day at the park as the weathers supposed to be gorgeous X '

She replied around 5hrs later...

Her ' Heyyyyy so sorry for the late reply just got home from work had a mad busy day not even had a lunch break!!! I'm working sat till 3 then im going a BBQ i'm supposed to be going to a christening sunday but realllllly dont want to..how r ya anyway hows work been xxxxxx '

i replied a few hrs later...

Me ' Well why dont you sack the christening off and we'll do something instead ? And as for work thats a story for another day! Pfft haha X '

and thats where im at... To me it seems as tho ive already bedded her she doesnt want too come across as a sloot and is playing hard to get, keep the challenge going. but with that last text i sent ive basicially put the ball in her court and its now down to her she knows that i like her.

Am i right to think she's still interested or is this a lost cause ? there must be something as we clicked really well.. she is a very busy women she works full time and has 2 children..

LIKE I STATED EARLIER IVE NOW LEFT THE BALL IN HER COURT IF SHE WANT TO PURSUE THEN SHE WILL...RIGHT..... ?

Sorry for the long write up but i'd like someone elses point of view, I forgot to mention that shes very shy which i find kinda cute.
Regards
Aesthetix

 

[Greasy Pig]

Cut the "xxx" at the end of each text. That's not maintaining an air of mystery.
She's obviously got buyer's remorse and is trying to let you down easy.
Don't contact her again. Wait for her to reach out. If she doesn't, lose the number.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Ok thanks GP... Well i usually keep it at 1 kiss or 2 at the most... 'Buyers remorse' haha i get what your saying tho i wont be contacting her again now ive done my bit its down for her to pursue me now if thats what she wants. But if she doesnt then i'll lose her number.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Yeah OP, just chalk up another lay and get back out there, learning through bitter experience the whims and ways of these fvcking infuriating creatures we call women.
If she does reach out after a few days, play it cool and don't be too keen to engage until she offers to meet or gives you a crystal clear, ironclad signal that she would be keen for you to organise a meet up.
Honestly, don't waste your time with women who aren't passionately interested in you.

 

[Poop1337]

I would just try to have sex with her again instead of nice weather dates. Don't worry about if she likes you. Just throw out some invites to drink or what ever and see if she takes the bait. In the mean time make sure you're spinning plates.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Ok thanks.... Ok so I've come home from work and I had no internet on my phone so once my phone connected to the wifi u recieved a iMessage off her from 7.30 this morning saying

Her ' Hey was asleep when you texted I don't wanna go but it's my mate I could leave early I suppose did ya go out last night? I'm shattered this morning just need 20hours sleep n I'll be fine no work for me tomorrow so that's goodxx '

Now I think she's asking if I went out last night because I took so long to reply to her text... And she's also saying that she's willing to leave the christening early so we can do something and she's telling me that she's also got tomorrow off work.... So could I kinda class that as an invite to go round haha ? I havnt replied to this yet and she sent it 6hrs ago... So not sure what to make of it tbh... I'm just playing the game!

 

[Tomo]

Me ' Your welcome... so does that mean were on for a second date then mrs (;Aww im so jealous i want a bacon butty haha... and yeh..yeh rub it in will you, Ive actually managed to blag work so im only on half day...RESULT! Xx '

Mate, this is where you killed it. Always maintain a frame of keeping things at an arms length especially at the start of dating someone new. You don't simply jump into a relationship; 'XXX's and emoticons and calling a girl 'Mrs' only comes after you too have committed to each other and built up that familiarity that comes with seeing someone for a bit and even then I've learnt to only use it every now or then almost like a reward.

Next time give a girl the generic reply with a bit of wit. Cut down on the fancy x's and emoticons. She can find an orbiter or a girlfriend for that. I've found my success has always occurred when I've kept texts short, to the point and not being afraid to end a conversation even if the HB is sending me hearts and kisses etc.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Mate, this is where you killed it. Always maintain a frame of keeping things at an arms length especially at the start of dating someone new. You don't simply jump into a relationship; 'XXX's and emoticons and calling a girl 'Mrs' only comes after you too have committed to each other and built up that familiarity that comes with seeing someone for a bit and even then I've learnt to only use it every now or then almost like a reward.

Next time give a girl the generic reply with a bit of wit. Cut down on the fancy x's and emoticons. She can find an orbiter or a girlfriend for that. I've found my success has always occurred when I've kept texts short, to the point and not being afraid to end a conversation even if the HB is sending me hearts and kisses etc.

Mate I know I've made some school boy errors along the way but I'm sure I can come out on top still... Not sure if you've seen her latest reply but she is willing to make some time for me on Sunday this weekend... Just going to leave it a while now let her think about it etc...

 

[MattTheW]

"Her ' Hey was asleep when you texted I don't wanna go but it's my mate I could leave early I suppose did ya go out last night? I'm shattered this morning just need 20hours sleep n I'll be fine no work for me tomorrow so that's good��������xx '

Now I think she's asking if I went out last night because I took so long to reply to her text... And she's also saying that she's willing to leave the christening early so we can do something and she's telling me that she's also got tomorrow off work.... So could I kinda class that as an invite to go round haha ? I havnt replied to this yet and she sent it 6hrs ago... So not sure what to make of it tbh... I'm just playing the game!"

She said she could leave early. That is a yes. Don't answer the part about whether you went out or not, unless she asks you in person. Let her imagination work

The "suppose" isn't 100% committed but basically this^

And definitely don't tell her what you did last night to keep her wondering....

 

[Partizan]

Don't ever say "Heyyyy" or put multiple letters at the end of anything in a text.

Women do that. Alphas do not.

 

[El Payaso]

1) You text like a teen girl.

2) You chased her after sex when it should be the other way around.

 

[asa_don]

was emma good in bed?

since you already nailed her, just let it play out, don't be eager to go out with her on dates, use your meet ups just for drinking and sex, keep a good thing going, if she is down she will go for it

 

[No.Danny]

You text worse then my 15 year old "girlfriend"
Wow that was straight up gay.