Is this girl showning interest, or just an AW?

harrison9876

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I get confused...especially with the women in LA...and MORE specifically, the girls in the field I am in (acting).

The new semester in school just started, and I noticed a NICE HB9 Australian, who is not in my class. Just noticed her in between classes last month.

3 weeks ago, walking from my car to class, she ends up approaching me from behind on the sidewalk, and introducing herself.


HB - " Hey, you are in in my class right?

ME - "mmmmmm....No, don't think so"

HB - "Really? (extending her hand) My name in HB"

I reach out and hold her hand for a minute.

ME - "Oh hey, I'm Mike. Where is your accent from?"

I knew she was from Australia...but asked her anyway.

HB - "I'm from Australia...mmmmmm...where is yours from?"

I actually do not have an accent...AT ALL...so I thought the question was odd. It seemed like she was looking for something to say, and came up with that.

We chatted for only around 10 seconds MAXIMUM after that as she was late for class..kept it casual and fun...

HB9 - I have to go, as I am late...but we'll continue this conversation later"

Off she goes.


DAY 2

I dress fairly cool, moreso than anyone else in my school (small school)...so I tend to stand out.

I am in the lobby about 5 minutes before classes start. She sees me, and approaches me with a MASSIVE smile.

HB9 - "Oh hey!!

ME - "wassup?"

She comes over and give me a hug...her vibe is VERY friendly and playful.

HB9 - "You have upgraded to a hug"

(I notice she "hugs" a lot of guys)

ME - "How was your weekend?"

HB - "Good! Sorry...but I totaaaaaaally forgot your name."

ME - "oooooooooooooooooo...that is sooooooo mean. I totally remembered yours.

HB - " I know, I am so bad...I was just "swooning" so much after our last conversation that I just could not think clearly.

ME - (with a smile on my face) "uh huh"

HB - "no wait...I'll get it...hold on...I know know it was something "boy next door"...

ME - (playfully) "boy next door? Are you serious? Oh my god...I've never been called that before..."boy next door , huh? Geez."

HB - On no, you are totally not boy next door. YOU are cool. I just don't recall...mmmmmmmmm... Richard?

ME - "Nope".

HB - mmmmmmmmmmmmmm...Michael?

ME - There you go.

HB - I knew it was something like that.

She notices a cut on my hand.

HB - "Oh wow, what happened to your hand? Did you get into a fight?"

ME - "nah, that is from boxing"

HB - "wow, really? Where do you box?

ME - Just over where I live in Malibu."

HB - cool, I love Malibu. I am going there on Sunday...learning how to skateboard.

ME - Nice...

HB - so you come all this way for class? Wow.

There were more details to the convo, and it was fairly easy and playful for a few more minutes. I was about to number close, but she, again, was running late for class. She starts head to class quickly.

HB - I actually have to go...but...WE will continue this conversation later...Michael...it is Michael right?

ME - well...maybe it IS Richard, and I am just fvcking with you.

HB - (playfully and with a smile) You are terrible. Okay Richard, or Michael...or whatever your name is...WE will continue this conversation.

She runs up the stairs.

I am only ever able to see this girl once a week, and so far, for about 2-5 minutes before class starts.


DAY 3


I sorta assumed she was expressing a high IL, so I figured I would get her # yesterday before class if I saw her.

Turns out she was not there before class...no big deal. After class ends, it is very dark outside, and I am walking towards my car. I notice a girl on her phone in the distance...NO CLUE who it is, as I could only see her profile.

This girl starts intensely waving at me...I was already walking towards her, as my car was that way...but I approach, not knowing who it is and within about 10 feet I see it is HB9. I thought she was calling me over to ask me something, as the wave was like a "hey, totally come over her, I have something really cool and amazing to tell you!!" Once I get to her, she gives me a hug (still on her phone)...and I sorta stop for a second...not knowing why she was waving at me with such determination...like I said, I thought she wanted to ask me something...or tell me something important. She stayed on her phone, turns to me, places her hand over the receiver and says:

HB - "ummm...I am the phone."

And then continues her phone conversation.

It was a very direct, straight, unemotional attitude...like she was saying, "dude...what are you waiting for...can't you see I am on the phone?"

Baffled at why she was so interested with me coming over to say hi and give her a hug...only to stay on the phone, and then give me attitude about it...like I am interrupting her or something.

She continues her phone convo, so I just continue walking to my car.

I was actually a bit offended by it. Not sure what to make of that.

I have a habit of reading into things...and 90% pf the girls in my school are AW...

My feeling is to poke fun at her about it the next time I see her...but now, I have no clue if this is AW behavior or not...

Thoughts on this?

Mike
 
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El Payaso

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Ignore this girl. AW to the max. "You have upgraded to a hug". WTF?
 

harrison9876

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mmmmmmmm...well that certainly sucks...

:(

The "upgraded hug" thing seemed a bit awkward on her part...like she did not know what to say or do when approaching...

ha ha...

oh well...
 

jnMissouri

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I think it's too early to tell, and that all hot women are AW to some extent. What matters if she is attracted to you. Try to get a date with her, get her number, etc. That's the easiest way to see. If it never moves forward, then just AW that is not attracted to you. If it moves forward, then back, then forward and back a little again, she's gaming you. She will show interest then when she thinks she has you, go cold, and so forth.

I think you should play aloof a bit when she flirts with you, next time she waves, blow her off. Next time she tries to talk, tell her you have to meet someone and can't talk, give me your number I'll call you later (then don't, at least not for a while), and I'll bet she will start chasing you a bit more, then she will go cold again when you move forward and show some interest. She is hot and cold with you, don't be so available, you have never played her cold from what I see. Start...
 
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