Is This Girl A Keeper? Or Shall I Next

[derby1]

I plated a chick like this, worshipped the ground i walked on ...it was ****ing great , had my tea done, bath ran and everything

only ceased contact cause her mates started to get involved in "what are we" convos..........

 

[Bible_Belt]

Tanned brown skin

Suntan or ethnicity? just curious. She seems to have the devotion common in a mature Latina woman.

 

[Dr.Suave]

No need to dump her right now. Look for a better girl in the meantime.

 

[soulforge]

I plated a chick like this, worshipped the ground i walked on ...it was ****ing great , had my tea done, bath ran and everything

only ceased contact cause her mates started to get involved in "what are we" convos..........

Well this is it man... All girls will eventually bring up the 'What Are You We' convo.. You can't keep plate status going forever.

With this chick, I have struck a reasonable balance... For example I spend 1-2 days a week with her, take her out for drinks or a meal.. Smash her stupid everytime..

Keep things very sexual and project dominance over her.

I keep in touch with her by text, but keep it minimum couple of texts a day...

I'm not making myself too unavailable and at the same time not TOO available.

Will have to just see how things play out.. Its coming upto 5 months, so still early days.

 

[soulforge]

Suntan or ethnicity? just curious. She seems to have the devotion common in a mature Latina woman.

Suntan bro... She isn't Latin... But 5 months in, she seems like a good chick.. Nothing negative I can point out about her, other than looks wise she is 6

And she needs a better career!

However I could ditch all that for a hot, wealthy career woman & she could turn out to be a total monster lol.

Another good thing.. She does not go out, hitting the bars, getting drunk with her friends.

 

[soulforge]

She needs management/Not an amateur pimp
Who doesn't know what to do/When the money ain't cool
-Sir Too Short

Seriously, does she have even the slightest ambition to achieve more? If she does, push her. Open the dialogue. Have one of those heart to hearts, that get her emotionally investing and talking about her dreams. Encourage her to go out and get it. Start wiring the circuitry now. Even, if a few weeks, months down the road you do decide to move on, she will always remember you as the supportive leader you should be if you decide to revisit the relationship. Eat the fruit, water the tree.

Yeh agree with this bro... If i move onto something a little serious with her, then yeh, I would encourage her to build a career for herself.. Some people need that encouragement, or someone to lead them towards better options.

 

[marmel75]

Need your opinion on this girl I am seeing guys.. Overall I am happy with her, but sometimes I feel I can do better than her, and I might be settling for less..

Recently she has starting expressing her feelings for me, and wants me to show her MORE effection.

I have done a list of negatives and positives, tell me what you think?

The Negatives -

01) She is a 6/10 looks wise, but body wise, she is a 8/10, slim figure, only 8 stones, nice shape, big firm titties and nipples.. Tanned brown skin!

02) She has a 14 year old son

03) She is 1 hour drive away, kind of long distance

04) She does not earn much, or have a professional career


The Positive -

01. Gives me ALL the sex I want, anytime and anywhere.

02. 4 months in, and not a single incident of disrespect.

03. Always follows my lead.

04. Looks after me, when my back is in pain.. ie massage, back rubs etc.

05. Will cook for me whenever I want.

06. Doesn't expect me to pay for things all the time.

07. Is considerate, doesn't play on her phone all of the time, or on social media.

08. So far totally drama free.


The only things that put me off is, she doesn't earn much, and maybe looks wise she is a 6 lol

Also I don't feel for her like i did for my ex.. but maybe thats a good thing.. Being in love with a chick, is not always the best thing, oneitis has lead to the destruction of many men!

What do you think guys? I can go out and get a better looker, but she may turn out to be a complete fukin C@@T

Why is it either/or? You should be do continuing to date other women and bang other women and then you could replace her over time if you wanted to...

I'm not sure why you think its one or the other.

 

[soulforge]

One thing I have realised and learnt mostly the HARD way is.. No matter how well a woman treats you, she has the potential to do a complete U-TURN and stop caring just like a light going off..

How many men come on here in SHOCK not knowing what the fuk happened.. Treated like a king one day, then discarded for no reason or for a better option!

So when a woman treats you well 4 or 5 months in, I think its too early to start praising her qualities...


A quality woman will prove her worth over a long period of time.. The first year is when they are behaving at there best..

Once you catch the feels, then you will see the real her.. wether that is good or bad.