Is this Friendzone limbo unfolding?

[Kal0051]

No, you misread my post. I didn't say she had CANCELLED the date. I said, I called her and left an email with her yesterday evening and no reply. Where did cancelling a date come from?

yeah, she didn't cancel the date, she just ignored it (which imo is far worse than cancelling, calling and cancelling shows at least a little bit of respect). Dude, she wasn't interested from the beginning and was just hoping you'd back off when she told you she was seeing someone.

Now don't start calling me a faggot, keyboard philosopher, etc. Just move on, plenty more girls out there.

 

[Kal0051]

I just wanted to know if any of you here, actually ENJOY or LIKE interacting with girls on the basis of friendship, like you have with your Buddies (Similiar interests).

I know a few girls I enjoy hanging with purely because their cool.

 

[MAN_OF_TOMMOROW]

I know a few girls I enjoy hanging with purely because their cool.

Well just to show your OPINIONS are so offpoint. I've spoken to her a few hours ago now, she just hadn't been online. She txted me even. I said I'll be in her town this monday coming and she could tagg along if she wants. Her response was...

"SHOULD I bring a friend..I dont want to be like a third wheel lol x.." -

SOME of you guys SUCK, stop saying RUN to the next woman all the fvcking time, shyt, I havent even gone on the date yet and already you chumps are telling me to move on! LOL, prime example of bullcrap advice! I feel like posting all the new things she's said today and how she apologised about not getting back to me, from Facebook... Clas A Jokers!

 

[Igetit!]

Well just to show your OPINIONS are so offpoint. I've spoken to her a few hours ago now, she just hadn't been online. She txted me even. I said I'll be in her town this monday coming and she could tagg along if she wants. Her response was...

"SHOULD I bring a friend..I dont want to be like a third wheel lol x.." -

SOME of you guys SUCK, stop saying RUN to the next woman all the fvcking time, shyt, I havent even gone on the date yet and already you chumps are telling me to move on! LOL, prime example of bullcrap advice! I feel like posting all the new things she's said today and how she apologised about not getting back to me, from Facebook... Clas A Jokers!

I don't know why you're so hostile towards everyone. You joined up here. Nobody dragged you into the forum.

There's over 50,000 members here. What,you're SHOCKED that one or two have a different opinion on things than you?

And another thing,YOU NEED TO STAND UP AND BE A MAN.

Stop letting your self-esteem be dependant on whether or not a girl responds to you.

Here you seem all happy and on cloud 9 because you've received a message or two from this girl,but LESS THAN 24 hours ago,you were all in the dumps whining about how you hadn't heard anything from her,and thought she was possibly ignoring you.

I can't speak for anybody else,but personally,I NEVER TOLD YOU to move on because this type of scenario you're in,I've seen a thousand times on this board. This "she hasn't replied to me yet" situation happens regularly.

I never said anything about that to you because you were drunk. You were somewhere waaaaay off in left field talking about aliens on distant planets.

And to quote YOU, you said...

Oh,well,yad,yad,yad,MOVE ON,get onto the next girl.

I'm glad you heard from her,but THIS WILL HAPPEN again.

THERE WILL BE a time where you're going to want to hear from her,and for whatever reason,she doesn't contact you as soon as you'd like.

You need to stop letting your sense of self be determined by whether or not you hear from a girl.

It's like,"She replied to me today!!! Yippee!!! I'm on top of the world!!!".

Then,if you go A FULL 24 HOURS of not hearing from her,it's,"Women suck. Screw them. On to the next girl. I'm a loser. I might as well get wasted. Oh geez,look at that. I just lost at this Xbox game. That just piles on to the loserness I have".

That's something you need to work on because even if you do "get the girl",that kind of attitude will drive her away from you.