Is this flaking?

[Giantsfan88]

I try to set up the third date by telling her to come over my house to check out my music studio on Thursday. She replied "Oof wish I could but I'll be working at another music studio this Thursday " Does anybody else think this is low interest? I know I'm not gonna contact her until she contacts me but I want opinions. Red flag: she didn't initiate contact after second date like on first

 

[Peña]

Yeah it is. Music studio. funny.

 

[RangerMIke]

Likely low interest. That is how I would take it. I'm assuming this was a 'text' ask out.... Jez... man you can't really tell unless you can hear the tone in her voice. When you ask out a woman by phone, she doesn't have time to think about what she is going to say... she has to answer, and her vocal tones will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know.

Ask her out by phone, and she would likely say "okay", then if she flakes... well you know it's a fvcking flake.

 

[Bingo-Player]

very difficult to say with such little information ......

 

[Giantsfan88]

What other information would be helpful? We made out a few times on our second date

 

[Giantsfan88]

I noticed she would call all of our affectionate interactions "cute" too. Does anybody think I could recover?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Duckies and bunnies are cute.. sorry bro.. unless you hit the lotto she has low I.L.

 

[Giantsfan88]

If I could get her on the phone, I'd like to ask her about it. Since she'll never come around why not right?

 

[LMFAO]

The sad smiley face at the end of a text usually means what she's saying is BS and she's just being polite. These days I would typically respond to a text like that as either "<insert counteroffer here >" if I feel there is some chance or just straight out delete her number especially if it's an online girl.

If you feel like trying again call her up 4 days later and ask her out again. If she says no or flakes just delete her number.

 

[void957]

I try to set up the third date by telling her to come over my house to check out my music studio on Thursday. She replied "Oof wish I could but I'll be working at another music studio this Thursday " Does anybody else think this is low interest? I know I'm not gonna contact her until she contacts me but I want opinions. Red flag: she didn't initiate contact after second date like on first

you should be good to go, since she had a legit reason.

reply a day later saying with a different date idea, and if she rejects that also, then she is flaking for real.

 

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[Giantsfan88]

Anyone think no contact can change this "cute," easy "nice" guy impression of me she has? I haven't chased her via call or text

 

[LMFAO]

Anyone think no contact can change this "cute," easy "nice" guy impression of me she has? I haven't chased her via call or text

You asked her out that's enough chasing.

No contact doesn't help you to build attraction in this situation.

So no. If she has low interest she will just completely forget about you within a couple of days. Why does she care if she's above a 6 she has guys throwing her d1cks at her every day.

Your only options are either to forget about her and delete her number or forget about her and call her in 3-4 days and give her one last flake opportunity.

Stop worrying too much on one particular girl, especially one you barely know. RSD Jeffy replies to such one girl threads in only two ways in RSD Nation: 1) You're a phaggot (let's replace that with stop worrying too much about a girl you barely know) 2) Get more girls.

 

[Giantsfan88]

Yeah I know there are other girls and I'm meeting more. But basically you're saying her IL has dropped so low after my second time seeing her that challenge is now useless and all I could do is go for it one more time with a slim chance of success?

 

[RangerMIke]

Anyone think no contact can change this "cute," easy "nice" guy impression of me she has? I haven't chased her via call or text

No this woman is going to be too much work. Your interest is too high and her's is too low. Sure you might be able to evenually get her, but in the time it takes you could be banging a couple of girls.

Just walk away... if she reaches out to you, try to make a date. If she won't go out you SHOULD be done. The only way you should ever see this girl again is if she is willing to come to you at your place. But for heaven's sake don't count on this, go out meet other women.

 

[Giantsfan88]

She agreed to come to my place (I called her in asked). I think I asked too soon (maybe shouldn't have asked her at all). Should I reschedule and counter offer on purpose at some point because I'm not sure how enthusiastic she sounded on the phone and to gauge interest level/see if she would have flaked?

 

[nismo-4]

Anyone think no contact can change this "cute," easy "nice" guy impression of me she has? I haven't chased her via call or text

Hell no. You can't raise a nonexistent IL.

She'll see it as you taking the hint and saves her the trouble of cutting you.

Women will move the earth's orbit for a man she likes. Interested women won't confuse you.

Maybe you should apply the one strike rule. One flake, especially for a new woman, she's deleted from all platforms

In closing she has low il and you care too much. It's a lost cause.

 

[Giantsfan88]

I set up another date. Am I better off canceling then?

 

[Giantsfan88]

She's meeting me at my place

 

[nismo-4]

Will she actually show up? That is the question.

Words mean nothing. Actions are tell-all.