Is this a ***** way of getting chicks?

[lokariototal]

Is this a pvsssy way of getting chicks?

What i'm gonna say it's kinda hard to explain but here it goes!

Ok! I was wondering if EACH guy, has it's own strenghts and weaknesses with getting women. For example, is it OK and normal that a guy is a MASTER in ****y comedy but not so good at for example kino? or vice versa? Should a guy use his strengths or what? I'm kinda decent at things like kino or ****y comedy or whatever, but my biggest strength i think is PHONE GAME. 2 years ago, I used to make use of phone game. That was My strength. I remember I could call a girl and we would be talking about sex and stuff within half an hour. On the phone I'm was my flirtiest, most seductive self ever. I remember I used to call girls, and it was very easy for me to get dates, and we would be holding hands very easy and stuff. In fact, I made a girlfriend just by talking on the phone! I remember I always brought the subject of sex in a funny way.... i was always like "Hey, we should totally go hang out on my bed this weekend............. I Have a lot of movies to show u!!! " and things got more and more explicit and naugthier, girls loved it and laughed like hell! The thing is, I wonder if that's just the way I am, my strength (phone 'game'), or if that's a *****, easier, lazier way of getting women. I don't do that since years now because I labeled it as a ***** way of getting women. Also, having those types of conversations is kinda hard in real life. It just feels kinda weird for me. I wonder If I should use my OLD strategy (phone 'game') of getting women which is very easy for me, or if I should just try to learn the old fashion way?

I hope u understand what I mean!

 

[ajax11]

No, but I will tell you this; the more "hidden" the method of communication, the more likely you are to say things you wouldn't in person. It's like this:

Anonymous website like this: most likely to say things you wouldn't in person
E-Mail and text: most likely to say things in person to someone you know or deal with
Phone: also a way to say things you wouldn't in person but pretty close (to me)
Then there's in person.

Now if you are different in person than you are over the phone I would just say you're not being the real you on the phone, but if that's just the way you are then I don't see the problem with it.

 

[horaholic]

Use your strengths, obviously. WTF kind of question are you asking? The only pvssy way of picking up chicks is raping them.

 

[Skydiver43127]

Only if it doesn't work.

I think via a "hidden" form of communication it's much easier to be your real self and the more personal it gets the more you hold back out of politeness.

With a strong enough frame the things you say on the phone won't be weird when you say them in person. But it's a result achieved with a lot of work and personal development. Life is short, so if your current method gives results why change it?