Is this a test ?

[taylor03]

hmm - a text from her asking if she has pissed me off - how would you guys respond based on everything i've told you ?

 

[jophil28]

mindfukk - sheesh - what is the purpose or point of doing this to a partner ?!?!

You are not a "partner", that's limp d!ck trendy liberal-speek. A man is either a "husband" or a "boyfriend" or an "ex ", for gawd's sake.
Cops have partners, bank robbers have partners...lawyers have partners.

Back to your question...why does she mindfukk you ?
1. Because she is a nasty, twisted, sorry excuse for a woman who is mentally fukked up.
2. Because you stand still for it.
3. Because she uses it to gain power over you. And power is more important to her than harmony, respect or a functioning. satisfying relationship.
4. Because you stand still for it.
5. Because you bend over for it.
6. Because she enjoys seeing your pathetic azz squirming on her hook.
7. Because you ALLOW it.

Eer, maybe there are other reasons, but I think not -

 

[taylor03]

and i guess all the sweet talking from her is pure bull**** !!! it sucks big time

can any woman be trusted out there ? are there any decent women left who have morals, standards and values - surley there must be some

come on guys give me some hope

makes me want to remain alone for the rest of my natural life

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Come on guys give me some hope
makes me want to remain alone for the rest of my natural life

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HEART BREAKERS

Waif and Neurotic femmes fatales are often parentless or at least fatherless, though in some cases they will turn out to have been abused in some way rather than abandoned. It’s part of the reason for their chronic depression in youth, which they sometimes outgrow as they get older. It also explains the anger towards men hidden under their unhappiness and compulsive heartbreaker behaviour.

Forget worrying about gold-diggers, men. It’s these ladies who will find a way to make you miserable every time. The ones on the Neurotic end of the spectrum will wear you out trying to take care of them when they’re sick; worry you to death with threats of suicide; make an idiot of you as you try to amuse them with silly jokes or make them feel loved with romantic gestures; persuade you spend all your time and money trying to make them happy. None of it will ever be enough. And then they will leave you for someone else, or have to go for drug or alcohol treatment, or decide that they need to be on their own for a little while. The Neurotic knows how to work a man’s protective instincts. That’s why he isn’t sufficiently wary of this type of woman.

Be warned that it may be hard to resist the Neurotic femme fatale, in particular, because, to judge by what I hear from men, this is the type of woman most likely to jump on a man like a hungry tigress. She will seem so boldly self-confident and sexually aggressive, at first, that it will be hard to believe there is anything wrong with her.

This topic is fascinating if you can keep your heart and soul out of it. Only a psychologist or a very mentally strong man is "able" to handle these tigers (at least for some time). Most men who try to tame them end up devoured.

http://aliasclio.wordpress.com/heartbreakers-revisited-women/

 

[frencha]

thanks for the input guys it's what i suspected - can't believe i'm still dealing with this woman bulls**t still

this girl is, by her own admission, "to honest" and has since admitted she has slept with 5 men since she split with her LTR way back in May '09 - not sure if this is again a test to see how i would react or if she is indeed a promiscuous ***** - she also hardly initiates contact (but does respond quite quickly if i contact her) - says she doesn't want to come off as a desperate/needy girl ?!?!

not sure if all these signs are major red flags - should be spinning more plates i guess but, for some reason, she has got the hook in me

your comments are more than welcome as i'm thinking of bailing on this one

I'm in a similar relationship bud. Same BS!! hold the lines buddy!

 

[DanelMadr]

what i'm trying to get across and discuss is this girls disrespectful behaviour ie: saying she wants sex with other men out loud and in front of me - to my mind this is unacceptable behaviour

the general consensus being that i need to go out and meet other girls to divert my attention from this one

there are no other problems - i get what i want from her and she is always available etc

wanted to find out if you boys on the forum had another take on her attitude thats all - just found it a little bizarre after being out of the dating game for several years

Yes it is bad behavior. She knows or should know that it is disrespectful. And you have every reason to be disturbed. Not because you are jealous but because she is behaving badly. She should know that.

Tests are tests but if a girl is not damged stupid bytch she can use more subtle and respectful ways to test you.

Stunts/tests like these are red flags in my book. Maybe I am too picky but I cannot imagine to spend my time with someone who is rude/stupid and pushing my buttons in the most primitive ways.

That girl has no class and no experience with man or she would know how to behave and on top of it she needs to feel in control. Once she has it, she will lose her attraction for you but she will never stop. It will be power struggle...always trying to "win" and getting wet when she "loses". Can you do it? I know I can't.

 

[DanelMadr]

What is it with BPD shyt?

Why has to be every stupid and lazy kid dislectic and every rude psycho mindf@cking bytch a BPD? Oh because it is not their fault, they are just ill. F@ck that.