Is this a lie? And does a broken date mean you can't have a serious relationship ever

[Giantsfan88]

HER: You're gonna hate me but can we do another day? My mom just got home and said it's crazy.

ME: My house is warm. It's your call

HER: It sucks because I really want to. But even my best friend would have a tough time getting me out. If we can do Friday or Saturday, that'd be nice. If we have to wait, that's fine too. I just have some cool ideas and snow is ruining it.

ME: I know you want to and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later

HER: Okay ya boob.

Cliffs:

-People were advised to stay off the roads that night in my area
-She texted this
-I originally called to set up the date
-She asked to delay the time of the date the same day
-She did not text to confirm the night before like she did our previous dates and I called her to change the location the same day (had to)

My questions are: Was I disrespectfully lied to? Would Doc Love say next?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sounds legit to me.

Ever heard of CP? Confident persistence? It is persistence without desperation. Some of the guys here are too quick to next someone in an attempt to save their ego. Don't be like that.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

She offered a counter-offer set of days so she's good.

 

[Giantsfan88]

managed to make a mistake

I have two houses. I once gave her one address and then another. I just called and locked down a date. I then texted her and confirmed the address. She never responded. Maybe I came across eager and needy with that. I don't know?

 

[Chickfight]

This is your 4th thread on this trivial matter. I'd say you've lost already.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

your problem is that you are creeeeepy as ****. EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU TEXT THIS WOMAN YOU POST ON THIS WEBSITE. you are so goddam insecure. We told you before and we will say it again. STOP ****ING OVERTHINKING EVERY THING. you've taken this women on what 1 or 2 dates and youre acting like your life depends on a date with her. SHE SENSES THIS!

Lets say you get a date with this chick(if it will ever happen shes been flaking for a month + now). Youre going to be nervous as ****. stressed the **** out sweating the entire evening analysing everything she says and does. Instead of what you should be doing: NOT GIVING A **** AND HAVING FUN WITH THE BROAD=WHAT CREATES ATRACTION. get a ****ing grip

This! Times infinity billion...

You need to become outcome independent.. your genes depend on it.

 

[Giantsfan88]

your problem is that you are creeeeepy as ****. EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU TEXT THIS WOMAN YOU POST ON THIS WEBSITE. you are so goddam insecure. We told you before and we will say it again. STOP ****ING OVERTHINKING EVERY THING. you've taken this women on what 1 or 2 dates and youre acting like your life depends on a date with her. SHE SENSES THIS!

Lets say you get a date with this chick(if it will ever happen shes been flaking for a month + now). Youre going to be nervous as ****. stressed the **** out sweating the entire evening analysing everything she says and does. Instead of what you should be doing: NOT GIVING A **** AND HAVING FUN WITH THE BROAD=WHAT CREATES ATRACTION. get a ****ing grip

Haha wow I'm not a creeper I just like the girl and don't want her interest to completely plummet at my hands. Hence why I'm making these threads on my phone while I go about my life. Am I insecure yes? We all are. I'm extra insecure. But I'm working on it. But unless she's a psychic or somehow accessed this forum, there is no way she can sense anything unless mystical powers really exist. I contact only to set up dates and I'm trying to learn patterns of fluctuating interest because I believe in the percentage theory. But you don't know me and the situation so the words you're using are a little much. I'm very in touch with every word and action you take with a woman, it has the potential to turn her off completely. I want to be successful with a lot of women in the very near future so I'm trying to learn. But in the end, I agree with everything you say :crazy:

 

[LuckyStrike88]

Haha wow I'm not a creeper I just like the girl and don't want her interest to completely plummet at my hands. Hence why I'm making these threads on my phone while I go about my life. Am I insecure yes? We all are. I'm extra insecure. But I'm working on it. But unless she's a psychic or somehow accessed this forum, there is no way she can sense anything unless mystical powers really exist. I contact only to set up dates and I'm trying to learn patterns of fluctuating interest because I believe in the percentage theory. But you don't know me and the situation so the words you're using are a little much. I'm very in touch with every word and action you take with a woman, it has the potential to turn her off completely. I want to be successful with a lot of women in the very near future so I'm trying to learn. But in the end, I agree with everything you say :crazy:

Fact: You will not be successful in the near future.
Because: You are too stubborn and can't let go of your over-analyzing insecure mindset no matter what anyone here says to you.

 

[Giantsfan88]

I know but I need to not initiate contact so much like rescheduling, scheduling, and texting her my address after the call that I set up the date. I'm not letting her do enough work. Especially when I called rescheduled to first snow storm date (she should have or at least hit me up first) and that text with the address that she didn't respond "ok" or "see ya then" too... :cringe: I'm not hanging back enough; especially because she always confirms first. I feel like a pu$$y for that sh1t.

 

[Yewki]

I know but I need to not initiate contact so much like rescheduling, scheduling, and texting her my address after the call that I set up the date. I'm not letting her do enough work. Especially when I called rescheduled to first snow storm date (she should have or at least hit me up first) and that text with the address that she didn't respond "ok" or "see ya then" too... :cringe: I'm not hanging back enough; especially because she always confirms first. I feel like a pu$$y for that sh1t.

You shouldn't feel like a pus*y for sending the message, you should feel like a pus*y for caring this god damn much about it. You sent it. Whether it's good or bad, oh well. Stop giving a sh*t. Do something else. Work on your stamp collection.

 

[Giantsfan88]

I'm addicted to these forums and whenever I get a break from work I check them. It has been cutting into my time for hobbies, but not my other social life thankfully. Call me what you want, I don't want to fvck this up for dumba$$ reasons. Sh1t like sending that last text, and a while back when I called the NEXT DAY after she didn't counter offer my attempt (though I got the date anyway with decent enthusiasm) Subtle mistakes plummet interest level. Dating is a numbers game but why destroy something that's so good so soon.

 

[Yewki]

Call me what you want, I don't want to fvck this up for dumba$$ reasons.

Once you get a better perspective and realize women are not a big deal, you'll be OK with f*cking up. You'll realize it's actually pretty hard to f*ck up, because it won't matter as much. Obviously you're very concerned about f*cking up though. And that's a problem.

Dating is a numbers game but why destroy something that's so good so soon.

The fact you think this girl is "so good" is a problem.

 

[Giantsfan88]

Once you get a better perspective and realize women are not a big deal, you'll be OK with f*cking up. You'll realize it's actually pretty hard to f*ck up, because it won't matter as much. Obviously you're very concerned about f*cking up though. And that's a problem.



The fact you think this girl is "so good" is a problem.

It's little mistakes like texting "it's gonna be this address (my address)" after a phone call with good sexual tension. She did not respond back to it and it was so easy for me to not have done that and it was the final straw to terminally lower her interest level. Such stupidity on my part. Shes confirm anyway so it COULD HAVE WAITED. So close yet so far I was...