Is this a good IOI? Also did I mess up

[BlahUgh]

Alright theres this girl that I think might like me based on how sometimes a couple small things (nothing concrete) just body language kinda stuff from afar, but ive never talked to her. Today I was outside walking toward a door and I saw her walking in the opposite direction. As I was walking I could tell she was looking at me (we weren't walking directly opposite, more like a a V shape so I could see her out of the corner of my eye. So as I walked I turned my head and we maintained eye contact for awhile. Anyways I end up ahead of her once the V got smaller. The wierd thing was she for some reason quickly ran ahead of me and open the door before I could(she was wearing tight pants and had a nice ass btw), ( I was still abit away so it wasnt like she pushed me), but then once she got in she just stood of to the side, but wasnt facing me.

Was this her trying to get my attention or something? Was I suppposed to approach her, and seeing that I didn't does that mean she probably thinks im not interested or what?

Next time I see her how should I approach and what should I say.


oh yea one of the main reasons why I think she might like me is because I know that a positive sign of interest is when a girl throws their hair back after noticing you as you walk past or whatever. Well a couple of times I've seen her from afar she does this wierd thing where she looks back and basically grabs her hair and holds it by the ends so that you can see the whole length. 1 or 2 times I was the only guy around when she did this. The thing is in this process I can't see her face so its wierd.

 

[zolo]

This is what I mean by AFC posts

Yes she wanted your attention you stupid schmuck.

No she doesn't think you are not interested, she thinks you are too afriad to talk to her. Too afraid to make the first move, and that she was a fool to wase her time holding a door for a wuss.

The next time you see her make sure she doesn't see her, then follow her through the door. She is not going to hold the door for you (because she doesn't know you are behind her) and then make a comment like "What did you quit yor job?" She will say some thing like "What job?" you say "OH....I thought you were the door valet seeing you almost mowed me down to get the door for me the other day...I thought maybe you quit since you didnt get the door for me today"


Or the next time you see her just walk up to her give her a dollar and say thank you. she is bound to say something, and just say to her. "I didn't mean to be rude the other day, but I didn't have any small bills on me the other day when you got the door."

Dude there are 100000 ways to play this one out

 

[abcd_z]

www.sosuave.com/articles/kiss.htm
I can't say anything that wasn't already covered in that article.

 

[The Juan and only]

I agree with zolo on this one.

 

[BlahUgh]

Originally posted by zolo
This is what I mean by AFC posts

Yes she wanted your attention you stupid schmuck.

No she doesn't think you are not interested, she thinks you are too afriad to talk to her. Too afraid to make the first move, and that she was a fool to wase her time holding a door for a wuss.

The next time you see her make sure she doesn't see her, then follow her through the door. She is not going to hold the door for you (because she doesn't know you are behind her) and then make a comment like "What did you quit yor job?" She will say some thing like "What job?" you say "OH....I thought you were the door valet seeing you almost mowed me down to get the door for me the other day...I thought maybe you quit since you didnt get the door for me today"


Or the next time you see her just walk up to her give her a dollar and say thank you. she is bound to say something, and just say to her. "I didn't mean to be rude the other day, but I didn't have any small bills on me the other day when you got the door."

Dude there are 100000 ways to play this one out

She didn't actually open the door for me. She ran ahead of me and opened the door for herself and then just stood of to the side.

 

[zolo]

I am not going to tell you what to say, figure it out on your oun, but there are 100's of ways to adress her just standing off to the side too..Yes I can give you some ideas, but I wont be there on the date to coach you, so you have to do this on your own.

The hard truth is not everyone was cut out to be a DJ or have a quick wit.

DJ's are born it is a natural ablity, they just need some trainig. Just like sports players and math guys, we all have natural ability, it just falls in differant areas, just realize where they lie, hone them, and you will exceed with girls.

The B-ball stars get the girls. The best laywers get the girls, the best doctors get the girls. the best in every feel get the girls. Not everyone is a DJ