The other day I went out with this chick, to an amusement park. I thought it went quite well, I was being C+F, using light neg-hits, etc, and I wasn't even consciously thinking about it. She mentions having tickets to this sporting event that is going on here for a few days and asks if I want to go, on Saturday. I was like yeah that sounds fun. So I get a message from her Sat. morning saying she can't go due to her grandfather having a heart attack the night before. Well that is certainly understandable so I don't even think twice about it, in fact she was saying she was going to try and get tickets for Sunday.
Later on I return her call and say Sunday would be cool, and later that night she calls back saying she did get tickets and we could meet up this morning. Well, this morning I have another voice mail saying she can't go (again) because she is sick. I think it's a blow-off, and am starting to doubt the whole scenario, but I just wonder why she'd make it so elaborate as to say she could get tickets for today since we couldn't go yesterday. If she wanted to blow me off couldn't she have just left it at that on Saturday? What do you guys think? At any rate I am not calling her. If it's not a blow-off then it's up to her to prove that.
Later on I return her call and say Sunday would be cool, and later that night she calls back saying she did get tickets and we could meet up this morning. Well, this morning I have another voice mail saying she can't go (again) because she is sick. I think it's a blow-off, and am starting to doubt the whole scenario, but I just wonder why she'd make it so elaborate as to say she could get tickets for today since we couldn't go yesterday. If she wanted to blow me off couldn't she have just left it at that on Saturday? What do you guys think? At any rate I am not calling her. If it's not a blow-off then it's up to her to prove that.