Is there something wrong with my apperance?

[didntcare]

dude...

you have the look of a Hongkong star! what the hell are u talking about? get a jap style messy mane to hide your ears.

http://forum.japantoday.com/A_tribute_to_the_beauty_of_Asian_men!/m_150262/tm.htm

find one u fancy and grow it.

 

[L B]

Buddy, work with what you have. Listen well to the advice of your fellow DJs. Improve yourself everyday. Read Wiseman44's post again, and again, and again. Read it 20 times if you have to. You can learn greatly from it.

I go to CCP as well. What separates me and you from many students at CCP is that we, as DJs, continually improve ourselves and our game. If you keep at it, success will come to you in no time.

I started out thinking the odds are against me because I used to be a very shy person. When I developed the DJ mindset, all that changed. I now constantly challenge myself for growth. I do everything I can to improve myself and my game. I no longer have problem being shy. I hope that you do not give up and find a way to improve yourself.

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: dude...

Originally posted by didntcare
you have the look of a Hongkong star! what the hell are u talking about? get a jap style messy mane to hide your ears.

http://forum.japantoday.com/A_tribute_to_the_beauty_of_Asian_men!/m_150262/tm.htm

find one u fancy and grow it.

There is NOTHING wrong with his ears!

Listen...I'm an extremely visually wired woman. I'm VERY picky about faces, hair and how men package themselves. His ears aren't a problem. His face shape is kinda round so he needs to add length to it by spiking up his hair a bit. He has a baby face, so a little facial hair will make him look more masculine. The bright shirt pulls attention away from his face and eyes and down to his chest, which isn't his strong point. Women like eyes and that is where they're going to look first. His eyebrows need some grooming and all he has to do is just comb them so they don't have that traingular arch to them.

Then, yes, he should work on standing and walking more confident...but if he does the things I suggested he's going to look much better and he'll FEEL more confident, so it's a two-prong make over he needs.

 

[david90]

how old do you think i am?

 

[Wiesman44]

16

 

[DJnomore]

Originally posted by david90
Women usually look at me for a sec and then look away when I see them looking at me. I feel kinda bad because I feel like i'm scaring them or something. Because of this, I feel really self conscious and that stop me from approaching them.

Is what I desribed above the norm and it's what people do?

You look fine.

You do have an intense look though. Some people need to make an extra effort to smile and be open and friendly due to the natural look that they have.

I suspect if you learn to receive glances with an open and friendly face you will be just fine. You don't have to maintain the friendly look but its important that the first impression is such that you are not preceived as a physical threat.

 

[thefonz]

Stop asking us what we think your age is......i know how this is gonna go.....Forum:"I think your 28, I think your 15, 19, 23" david:"No your all wrong i'm XX, Oh boo hoo why does everyone always think that I'm XX waaa waaa"

here's my advice on getting you to stop your insecurity

1. Stop asking so many questions, your questions reek of emotion......and emotions are for girls, stop revealing them to the whole world. Seriously

2. Work on your body language

3. Walk/Talk like a man

4. Accept certain inevitable facts about yourself, i truly believe you need to get this done first

 

[Alpine]

edited by me

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Dear David:

Your not ugly. Your no Brad Pitt, but your problem does not lie in your face. It lies in your body and body language.

I can tell by your picture that you're somewhat shy and quiet. Its all in your body language. I would have guessed you lacked confidence even w/o this post, but with just the pic.

1) Start working out, girls aren't attracted to scrawny guys. Your young, so you should build muscle quickly.

2) Get that expression off your face. Its reaks of AFCness. Grin, smile, anything that portrays confidence. You just don't look attractive in that pose. I dont ever want to see that expression on your face again. Its not becoming of youl.

3) Don't slouch. Damn it. Throw your shoulders back and stick out your chest.

4) Start working out ! (i know i repeated myself) You have the average thin asian figure. Stand out from the crowd and build muscle. It will skyrocket your confidence 10 fold.

thats a great post but dont overdo trying to stick out ur chest or w.e, i see these fools doing this stuff all the time and everyone can see that ur consciously tryign to stick out ur chest, it looks worse than just doing ur thing and slouching.

 

[david90]

thanks for all the advice. In that pic, my body language and facial expression weren't so good cuz I was angry. I got into a little accident in the parking lot.