Is there anyway to correct this situation or should I just simply exit?

[Robert28]

You are overthinking it too much.....and that is shown by your actions around her and why she has kicked you into the freindzoned

she has had too much time to think because you are overthinking and not leading her to your desires

Novices with women always make the fatal mistake of thinking they need to act a certain way so that she will like you

The truth is you should act however you like the more direct , flirty and outrageous she will be more attracted to it regardless of what she says

Confidence is king with women the can not deny its appeal

It’s gotta be a guy she’s attracted to though in order for confidence to work. Some ugly dude strutting up all confidently won’t work. Chad being confident? Works everytime.

 

[derby1]

You’re right, a 36 year old virgin is likely not going to suddenly start being promiscuous. In fact she’s probably so hung up about sex that she’s going to make you endlessly wait, and endlessly prove yourself to her, that you’re the perfect guy and it’s the perfect moment.

So you should probably have some other irons in the fire.

you sound like you have your full life planned out with her in your mind( she will sense this with your movements), this is a woman who has given you NOTHING, messed you around. and shes living in your mind rent free..

She on the other hand totally forgot about you the minute you left hers, she wouldnt even be able to point you out in an identification parade.

 

[Bingo-Player]

It’s gotta be a guy she’s attracted to though in order for confidence to work. Some ugly dude strutting up all confidently won’t work. Chad being confident? Works everytime.

Not necessarily women don't assess men's looks the same as men assess women's

For example she may like a "pretty boy" but will still sleep with a guy who's got dirty hands and is rough around the edges as to her he is sexy

Women want to be used it's in their nature

You still need to own your own frame though if you have a perception you are not good enough for her then she will pick up on that quickly and you will be dismissed

If you are very overweight , dressed poorly then i am sorry you are not getting laid

 

[Robert28]

Not necessarily women don't assess men's looks the same as men assess women's

For example she may like a "pretty boy" but will still sleep with a guy who's got dirty hands and is rough around the edges as to her he is sexy

Women want to be used it's in their nature

You still need to own your own frame though if you have a perception you are not good enough for her then she will pick up on that quickly and you will be dismissed

If you are very overweight , dressed poorly then i am sorry you are not getting laid

What about women that only date guys with tattoos? She’s not gonna sleep with a guy that doesn’t have them. A guy overlooks way more flaws in a woman than a woman will in a man. A girl can be a little chubby but if she’s got a cute face and decent personality guys will still line up. Meanwhile a guy can be in shape, wear decent clothes, make good money but a woman will blown him out the water because he’s 5’7”.

 

[Sebastian0001]

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You still need to own your own frame though if you have a perception you are not good enough for her then she will pick up on that quickly and you will be dismissed

If you are very overweight , dressed poorly then i am sorry you are not getting laid
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what if you are underweight?

 

[Sebastian0001]

What about women that only date guys with tattoos? She’s not gonna sleep with a guy that doesn’t have them. A guy overlooks way more flaws in a woman than a woman will in a man. A girl can be a little chubby but if she’s got a cute face and decent personality guys will still line up. Meanwhile a guy can be in shape, wear decent clothes, make good money but a woman will blown him out the water because he’s 5’7”.

I think its the other way around. She might have a tattoo guy fantasy but she will still bang guys who are completely different in appearance who can successfully turn her on which can be done in many ways and does not only rely on looks (hence many ugly guys date gorgeous women). For men, if they have subconsciously determined in their mind that they could never have sex with the female because of her appearance, its pretty much over. There is nothing she can do.

 

[Robert28]

I think its the other way around. She might have a tattoo guy fantasy but she will still bang guys who are completely different in appearance who can successfully turn her on which can be done in many ways and does not only rely on looks (hence many ugly guys date gorgeous women). For men, if they have subconsciously determined in their mind that they could never have sex with the female because of her appearance, its pretty much over. There is nothing she can do.

I don’t think ugly guys dating beautiful women is as common as we think. Does it happen? Sure. If it were true though, id have long been dating a woman way above my league but instead I usually get woken one notch above me. If I try to go one or two notches below me I rarely have success. The problem is finding the good looking woman that’s single, so many aren’t these days.

 

[Sebastian0001]

I don’t think ugly guys dating beautiful women is as common as we think. Does it happen? Sure. If it were true though, id have long been dating a woman way above my league but instead I usually get woken one notch above me. If I try to go one or two notches below me I rarely have success. The problem is finding the good looking woman that’s single, so many aren’t these days.

that means your technique is probably not good enough, that is my issue at the moment too and I am working on that, gotta have the right mindset and technique

 

[Robert28]

that means your technique is probably not good enough, that is my issue at the moment too and I am working on that, gotta have the right mindset and technique

It probably is. I’ve been told I have a “confidence problem” which I never had in my 20’s and teens. Who develops a confidence problem and struggles with women the older they get? Me apparently lol

 

[powersize]

you sound like you have your full life planned out with her in your mind( she will sense this with your movements), this is a woman who has given you NOTHING, messed you around. and shes living in your mind rent free..

She on the other hand totally forgot about you the minute you left hers, she wouldnt even be able to point you out in an identification parade.

What do you expect from the women to bring?

 

[derby1]

What do you expect from the women to bring?

sex and a real positive vibe, fit feminine and friendly.

my original reply was for @Sebastian0001 not @rjc149 , quoted the wrong part

 

[SW15]

My advice is to stop talking to her and forget her completely.

This is the best solution. There are some lessons to be learned in this interaction. It wasn't good at all.