*looks at william
*runs up and gives him a BIG hug
*now speaks in the softest most understand voice ever*
welcome man..u really NEED this site... a lot more then you think you do. TRUST me.
ok, and hte first thing that you should DO, is (tell us ur age), but also start thinking about some things.
As of reading this right now...just right off the bat, ill place quotes too.
ok..now first..you say she avoids talkng to her... yet you are sure you are in love..
How exactly did you FALL in love with her?
did you happen to look at her and thikn "ohh my! look at her body... wow...she is so perfect for me... look at how she acts...i thikn i love her..."
or did u actually(and i know this sounds crazy): GET TO KNOW HER?
do you know the first thing about her?
did u happen to kno she was a slut?, how about the fact taht she has an alcoholic stepfatehr who molests her? mayb shes stinking rich and is a complete snob?(being a snob would explain her not talking to u of course)
mayb she is dull as a rock?
HAVE you actually found out things about her... FROM her..?
What you are experiencing is called INFATUATION.. and however hard it is(right now) to accept that NO, she ISNT your "meant to be" true love, you will be much happier in the long run.
you seeming like a rather sensitive person(and no offence, but a lot of AFCish qualities as well), since ur so sensitive, you prolly think this is good? WRONG!
sensitivity is only wonderful IN LIMMITED AMOUNTS, like if her mom explodes, and scares the sh1t outa her, then you b sensitive, if she gets a paper cut, your not to run arud the skool trying to find a band-aid.
really man, im not going to tell you "dont think about her", because its imposible..
your mind cant process negative dude, so if i say "dont think about purple elephants" chances are ur thinkin of purplle elephants right now.
instead what i WOULD say is :
"hey..yeah..them pink elephants are nice.. but hey! check taht sh1t out! its a fvcking green gorilla throwing nuclear waste at helicopters!!!"
now what are u thinking about?
my point is, when ur sitting there, going "dont think abou her, dont thinki about her...dont think about ohw hot she is, dont think about her blue eyes.." ur only throwing fuel into the fire of you already BLAZING infatuation.
what you should be saying is this:
"ohhhh... taht b1tch wants me..
....ohhhh! her friend wants me tooo!... oh damn... look at the girl at ht water fountain...THAT is one fine piece of ASS!"
ur now htikning about the ass.. of the water fountain girl.
stop ur focus on her...in other words.. place it else-where!
other chicks, skool, sports, learing this website material
, listenign to music, painting pictures, dancing, helping ur parents, who cares what, just something.
and ill think ull start to notice.. taht slowly... she DOESNT look that great..there is just a tad bit roll of fat on the sides.. her lovehandles are a big to FULL, her face has quite too much make-up on it... she DOES seem to get around wiht other guys...and then,.. mayb after learning THE DON JUAN(DJ) techniques, MAYBE then you can go and approach a different girl.. mayb sometime later in you life.. in the 20's? and youll approach her, and SHE will be th one for you.. and youll be SURE its love.. because SHE WILL LOVE YOU BACK... not telling u to get away, and avoid u
any way this sh1t is geting really long... im SOOOO glad you came here man.. ur starting on a long journey, and youll be happy in the long run taht u didnt turn into a slave, emotional tampon AFC.
trust me.
and also describe your present situation, wiht the ho who ur infatuated with now.
thanks for reading, im oreo
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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM