Is there any truth to the myth a girl will ignore or act distant if she likes a guy

[VladPatton]

If she's to incapacitated to call/text/send an e-mail signifying an ounce of interest, then most likely there is some underlying issue there. Get over it, sister, and send a smoke signal. Attraction works to and fro, fųck that ignoring śhit. 1 female ignore = 1 male next.

 

[Purefilth]

If she's to incapacitated to call/text/send an e-mail signifying an ounce of interest, then most likely there is some underlying issue there. Get over it, sister, and send a smoke signal. Attraction works to and fro, fųck that ignoring śhit. 1 female ignore = 1 male next.

unfortunately this isnt always the case.

Hamster stops spinning =>AFC starts to redline

At least thats what it looks like here a lot of the time:crackup:

 

[captain A]

I look at these as freebies pretty much.

Basically, if it happens to be the case that a girl is super into you but won't let you know, that means that whatever you are doing is working and you should keep doing just that. If you get it into your head that she likes you, then you are bound to change your game around her a little bit and blow it.

She'll keep being into you on whatever level she is and gradually escalate it until you catch on....could take weeks to years. I had it happen once with a girl I had known for five years and didn't say anything until the stars aligned and we happened to be in an isolated situation and things worked out...and they're still working out...anyway, point being: DON't WORRY ABOUT IT and continue about your business going after girls who you KNOW are interested and eventually the ones who are being aloof will reveal themselves. Again.....for me, it's like freebie bonus points for just being a generally cool dude. I usually appreciate these a little more than what my purposeful efforts gain me.

 

[betheman]

men and women will never know just how many people are interested in them, how many men have looked at a woman and thought, 'yeah'!! about a woman ...and done bugger all about it? massess! and we are supposed to be the confident ones!
women are similar, only its the guys job to approach, if he doesnt, she assumes he isnt interested and keeps shtum!
its up to the guys to pick up the clues, sometimes these are soo subtle they go unnoticed, i.e. bumping into you or brushing against you...'by accident'.

always assume a woman is interested until she states otherwise, its up to you to be proactive and more efficient

 

[Who Dares Win]

I sincerely doubt that.

Anyways, keep preaching your bullshlt. If this is what your life experiences have brought you to then it is what it is.

My life experiences have brought something different so you can't convert me on this matter.
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You talk like a chick seriously no insult, all you do is ad personam attacks and principles based on a single case in your experience, read yourself.

You're no different than that girl which says candies dont make you fat only cause her particular friend brenda eats them and is slim.

No logic and the total convinction that your particular life is so important to make a general rule (based on a single case), b1tchy and self-centered and ofc Im bitter cause I disagree with you.

Does the fact that any man in here disagree with you, at least makes you think? r they all bitter or maybe they had more than 1 girl to base their idea on?

 

[zinc4]

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[zinc4]

well, i got this chick who i have barely even talked to and never flirted with going out of her way to ignore me at my workplace...will see me and my guy friend co-worker talking to each other who also barely knows and who is much older and married and will always go out of her way to ignore me and look at him overly smiling and say hey all gooey like while he is 10 feet away from the flight of steps that she just walked up and then just glance at me who is standing right in front of her and say oh, hey.....it even makes my guy friend uncomfortable and he will say how weird her acting is...i mean the way she does it is not like a person who could just care less about your presence...it's more like a person who looks for good oppurtunities and situations to do it in an overly manner...

it almost feels like she is angry at me about something...but we have had a very basic cordial work relationship... but it has gotten to the point where it feels like a slap in my face everytime i come in contact with her.....like seriously, i have a short temper by nature and just feel a surge of anger welling up in me each time she goes out of her way to ignore me because we have had no beef no issues, no nothing....

i guess i am just going to ignore her like she doesn't exist from now on...i just don't don't appreciate dealing with someone who i don't even really know in the first place going out of their way to disrespect me on a daily basis....the way she just does it is just overly obvious and rude...initially, i was attracted to her and figured there was a good chance she might just like me, but now i am just ticked off and would never want anything to do with the likes of her or anyone who goes out of their way to insult me on a regular basis

 

[bish0p]

Does the fact that any man in here disagree with you, at least makes you think? r they all bitter or maybe they had more than 1 girl to base their idea on?

lol, yes because EVERYONE in here is quoting me and disagreeing with me.

The reality of the situation is, EVERYONE else in here is saying the same exact thing I am...only YOU are disagreeing with me. You are delusional.

Just let it go, man. Move on.

 

[Who Dares Win]

lol, yes because EVERYONE in here is quoting me and disagreeing with me.

The reality of the situation is, EVERYONE else in here is saying the same exact thing I am...only YOU are disagreeing with me. You are delusional.

Just let it go, man. Move on.

Again ad personam + nothing substancial, even that "lol" to make it seems
you're not mad...anyway Ill take your suggestion and move on, Im done talking with you.

http://i.qkme.me/3ohwpg.jpg

 

[st_99]

The OP's question is irrelevant.

Since the guy should be leading the interaction it doesnt matter. You'll get your answer soon enough.

but the truth is every girl acts a little different because of how they were raised or what happened in their past and a bunch of other reasons..

 

[bish0p]

Ill take your suggestion and move on, Im done talking with you.

Took you a while.

Later and good luck.

 

[Ringleader41]

This girl wants my D and thinks im hot, but she avouds me and I have to initiate every time and she gives me one word responses. Lolz

 

[foreverAFC]

well, i got this chick who i have barely even talked to and never flirted with going out of her way to ignore me at my workplace...will see me and my guy friend co-worker talking to each other who also barely knows and who is much older and married and will always go out of her way to ignore me and look at him overly smiling and say hey all gooey like while he is 10 feet away from the flight of steps that she just walked up and then just glance at me who is standing right in front of her and say oh, hey.....it even makes my guy friend uncomfortable and he will say how weird her acting is...i mean the way she does it is not like a person who could just care less about your presence...it's more like a person who looks for good opportunities and situations to do it in an overly manner...

it almost feels like she is angry at me about something...but we have had a very basic cordial work relationship... but it has gotten to the point where it feels like a slap in my face everytime i come in contact with her.....like seriously, i have a short temper by nature and just feel a surge of anger welling up in me each time she goes out of her way to ignore me because we have had no beef no issues, no nothing....

i guess i am just going to ignore her like she doesn't exist from now on...i just don't don't appreciate dealing with someone who i don't even really know in the first place going out of their way to disrespect me on a daily basis....the way she just does it is just overly obvious and rude...initially, i was attracted to her and figured there was a good chance she might just like me, but now i am just ticked off and would never want anything to do with the likes of her or anyone who goes out of their way to insult me on a regular basis

i get this every day at work from many different women, and men too. i wish there was something you could do, but they just make it so awkward that im forced to ignore them for the sake of getting on with my work. i wish sometimes there was a way to put them at ease or reverse the situation, but again its hard to understand what they want. ive started to ignore women as soon as i notice any of the lame behavior but unfortunately now im ignoring almost all the women at work. only a very few of them have been able to communicate and interact with me like a normal person would. its very frustrating. and then some of these women who have been making it a point to ignore me every day for months at a time will suddenly flash me a smile at some random moment.

do you guys have any advice here, what are we supposed to do? should we just relax more and try to be more friendly to these people despite their rude/odd behavior or is it best to just shut them out? is it a problem of not approaching more? i hate having to walk around all day pretending i dont notice people or having to act like they arent there.