Is there any reason for optimism in dating?

[corrector]

you're afraid of needles telling people to get a fake vaxx

no, just the potential type of side-effects that could happen. There are some serious horror stories out there about these vaccines.
However, its all worth it if it helps with your chances getting laid by being able to go to social venues. The best thing is to get ativan, or some anti-anxiety medication so that you don't freak-out if some bad side-effects do happen.

 

[timmyroni]

no, just the potential type of side-effects that could happen. There are some serious horror stories out there about these vaccines.
However, its all worth it if it helps with your chances getting laid by being able to go to social venues. The best thing is to get ativan, or some anti-anxiety medication so that you don't freak-out if some bad side-effects do happen.

LMAO, says the guy with limpdick who thinks he can attract skanks with a VR headset.

Delusional much?

 

[corrector]

LMAO, says the guy with limpdick who thinks he can attract skanks with a VR headset.

Delusional much?

You are reading all my posts? You really need to get laid.

 

[SW15]

The only problem with moving to a city is that your status is going to take a serious hit... Very few people get to play the status game in a city

In an area of 100,000 or less, there's not much of a selection of singles, especially if you've turned 25.

If you move to a larger area, you're not going to have much of a social circle for at least a few years, if ever. Transplants in larger cities usually don't get into the premier social circles.

The reason to move to the larger city is for the larger pool. Even without status, a metro area of a few million beats a town of 55,000.

 

[timmyroni]

You are reading all my posts? You really need to get laid.

Says the delusional eunuch. Your mom takes care of me just fine.

In an area of 100,000 or less, there's not much of a selection of singles, especially if you've turned 25.

If you move to a larger area, you're not going to have much of a social circle for at least a few years, if ever. Transplants in larger cities usually don't get into the premier social circles.

The reason to move to the larger city is for the larger pool. Even without status, a metro area of a few million beats a town of 55,000.

Some smaller towns are absolute gems for meeting hot single women, college towns in particular.

Also, many major metro areas are mediocre to abysmal for dating and for quality of life in general. SF and the bay area are notorious in this regard, but there are certainly many others.

There are going to be guys in just about every city large or small complain about how uniquely awful dating supposedly is in their city.

I'm not saying there aren't any differences at all from one city to the next or that it's not "easier" relatively speaking for some men than others, but betting on a particular city fixing your dating life instead of upping your own value and attractiveness is pretty foolhardy.

Most people who live in small towns are within an hour's drive or less of some major city anyway. Also, large cities are composed of smaller boroughs and neighbohoods with very distinct cultures.

Basically, blaming your city for your dating problems is a copout.

 

[SW15]

Some smaller towns are absolute gems for meeting hot single women, college towns in particular.

Also, many major metro areas are mediocre to abysmal for dating and for quality of life in general. SF and the bay area are notorious in this regard, but there are certainly many others.

There are going to be guys in just about every city large or small complain about how uniquely awful dating supposedly is in their city.

I'm not saying there aren't any differences at all from one city to the next or that it's not "easier" relatively speaking for some men than others, but betting on a particular city fixing your dating life instead of upping your own value and attractiveness is pretty foolhardy.

Most people who live in small towns are within an hour's drive or less of some major city anyway. Also, large cities are composed of smaller boroughs and neighbohoods with very distinct cultures.

Basically, blaming your city for your dating problems is a copout.

The typical area with less than 100,000 population isn't good for singles over 25. College towns are good if you're attneding that college or have connections to the college.

I agree that San Francisco stinks.

Moving doesn't solve most dating problems, especially when you're moving from one larger metro to another.

Being within one hour's drive of a major city isn't much of a help. Women in that major city aren't going to want to deal with that distance.

I prefer mid-sized metros over the biggest ones. Big enough not to suffer from too few choices like the under 100,000 yet small enough not to have the worst aspects of big metro area dating.

 

[lost_blackbird]

If guys notice it, girls will definitely notice it. You need to develop an abundance mindset, and you fake it until you make it.

How does one fake abundance? Is that like when a child has imaginary friends?

 

[Zimbabwe]

OP makes some good point actually. For the average guy, there is no reason to be optimistic about the future. Retarded optimism is what got us into this mess. It's high time someone said that this ain't good enough.

You're right but what exactly can the average man do, because complaining isn't going to solve anything especially when Simps and Sjws are in such large numbers.

Throughout most of human history the vast majority of men didn't procreate. This suggests to me that throughout human history most men didn't get laid. Especially in tribal times when the alpha dominated the group and monopolized the women.

Most men died while hunting or fighting each other in battles (just look at how many millions of men died in world wars), they are not the same as incels today.

 

[corrector]

You're right. Incels are already spiritually dead because their existence depends on being able to have access to a woman's vagina. It's by having that exact mindset that ensures incel's access will always be very limited. Women want to be with men who don't need them. This is a fundamental truth about the sexes. She wants to feel like she's earned it. She wants to feel like she's won her man over - it's important that a woman experiences this process if you really want to keep her around. If you just want to bang her, then it's important to give her this journey too.

What can most incels do today to change the sexual market place? Stop simping and patrol their fellow male simps too. It has to be a collective male effort. Stop banging fatties. Fat women need to be punished for being fat. It's a woman's job to look as good as she possibly can and take care of herself, but simps prevent that from happening.

In Japan, for example, fat women are bullied and ridiculed. The result? There aren't many fatties in Japan. Although that's probably changing now with Japan becoming increasingly *progressive.

Women work together to achieve collective goals for their sex. Men should do the same (but in a way that is good for both men and women). Everything that incels suffer under now is because of other incels simping and enabling female hypergamy. The social contract up until recently is - 1 woman for 1 man. This stabilizes society and everyone has skin in the game.

It's a pipe dream though, so I'll just continue roaming the wastelands like Mad Max, banging women and try to make the most of the decline.

So @DonJuanjr is a worst incel than I am because at least I am not rewarding fatties by having gay anal sex with them. Him and @mrgoodstuff all advocate dumpster diving because that is their mindset. The problem is they also hit a ceiling too. Its not just a slump buster anymore its more like this is all they can get. A fwb with a fattie is a ceiling not a slumpbuster.

You would think their new status would help them get women they actually like? No their standards will warp down because they STILL cant succeed at cold approach.

 

[corrector]

That's where you're wrong. I was a volcel. You're the only incel here who's at his ceiling. Which is no woman. You feel pretty good about that? I know you're jealous of me lowering my standards to end my half year dry spell. Something that you just can't do. Which is why you'll be incel for the rest of your life probably. But hey, you had a good run right? Maybe you can hit up that chick you're still in love with. That woman who doesn't give a shjt about you. That's pathetic. More pathetic than banging fatties if you ask me.

Maybe woman can sense something about you. Maybe it's the same type of vibe females got from Ted Bundy. You know because you like to take creepy pics of them with them not knowing then jacking off to the pics. After which you feel like you own a piece of them. Don't feel too bad about that though. A lot of other guys said they liked to have trophies of women which made them feel like they owned a piece of those females. They were usually serial killers. I guess we can give you a pass on that. Maybe you were possessed by demons. Which you say happens to you. Which oddly enough I think serial killers said that too.

That's all you've got?

You've disproved the idea that any slump-buster works to get your mojo going to get hot women. Thanks for letting us know that this type of advice doesn't get hotter girls to notice you and at best all you can get is one Tinder-fattie.

You are not getting anywhere with cold approach period, certainly not any hot girls. Perhaps you should ask yourself the same question. Hot women still don't want you even after your slump-buster.

 

[SW15]

I wonder if one decided on being a lover of married women, this wouldn't matter as much.

I wouldn't recommend that as an general strategy. Basing one's whole approach to game around seducing married women is going to be inefficient at best.

 

[corrector]

You won't have the vibe to get skinny females.

You certainly don't since you haven't been with one period. Six months, all you get is a fattie from Tinder. Now what do you have to say for yourself?

You are beginning to really get boring. Looks like you got no joy from whatever you got. Look at all you are writing on here just to protect your ego so you think you are one-up on the worst case on this board. That's right, fight for second place loser on this board like your life depends on it.

I'm going to put you on ignore.

 

[metalwater]

I wouldn't recommend that as an general strategy. Basing one's whole approach to game around seducing married women is going to be inefficient at best.

disagree, it works until the guy gets clipped. sooner or later it will happen.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Touch more on the bait and switch aspect.

Push pull essentially.

The barrier to entry is stupid low. Gen z don't approach in aggregate.

@MatureDJ article shows a example of my competition. Lulz!

&&& I STILL WANT TO LEARN. FILL MY CUP.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Tons of attractive women work as cashiers at convenience stores, cafes, retail... easy pickings.

My man! +1

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EVERY SET = PRACTICE! !!

 

[MatureDJ]

Surely wanking is better than banging a fat body? Fat bodies don't illicit anything other than a gag reflex in me so I don't know how men are actually able to hit it. I have very low tolerance for fat too. What I classify as fat, most other men seem to classify as curvy or chubby.

Would you rather hit this or wank?