Okay guys, before you read, here are a few things you gotta understand about me.
-I'm 5'5
-I am somewhat disabled due to scoliosis that had to be fixed with a back surgery a few years ago, I can walk albeit with a bit of a limp.
-Due to my scoliosis, I now have a large and noticeable hunch in my back. Not necessarily like Quasimodo but a close second.
-I don't workout much and as a result, I'm skinnyfat.
Now that you guys know that much, allow me to continue. Anyway, after what I listed above, you guys can already guess that I don't have very much luck with women. A buddy and I went out to a foam party about two weekends ago. My friend is about 6'5 and very athletic (ex-college football player) black guy. He has a full six pack, the v-cut right above the crotch and looks jacked no matter what he wears. (Sorry if that sounds kinda gay but I figured its best to be a little more descriptive)
Anyway, he takes his shirt off at the foam party and is getting grinded on by girls all night long and if he wasn't being grinded on, he approached girls from behind and they all reciprocated interest. Impressed, I ask him what he did and he simply said that he just doesn't give a **** and just approaches whatever girl he wants. He told me that if a girl rejects him, he shrugs it off and moves onto the next one. He encourages me to be confident and to try approaching.
So, I try to imitate my buddy by taking my shirt off and approaching but each and every time I was turned down. Even by the whales. My friend did tell me to keep my head up and to chalk it up as a bad night, he even offered to be my wingman next time we go out.
I get what he's saying, but this crap is discouraging. I've been reading SS for a while now and figured I'd go ahead and ask if I should ask my friend to help me in the gym and start putting this stuff to use or something.
I don't know, I'm stuck in a pretty deep rut. I would like to get an input and don't worry about sparing my feelings, I need to hear the truth.
-I'm 5'5
-I am somewhat disabled due to scoliosis that had to be fixed with a back surgery a few years ago, I can walk albeit with a bit of a limp.
-Due to my scoliosis, I now have a large and noticeable hunch in my back. Not necessarily like Quasimodo but a close second.
-I don't workout much and as a result, I'm skinnyfat.
Now that you guys know that much, allow me to continue. Anyway, after what I listed above, you guys can already guess that I don't have very much luck with women. A buddy and I went out to a foam party about two weekends ago. My friend is about 6'5 and very athletic (ex-college football player) black guy. He has a full six pack, the v-cut right above the crotch and looks jacked no matter what he wears. (Sorry if that sounds kinda gay but I figured its best to be a little more descriptive)
Anyway, he takes his shirt off at the foam party and is getting grinded on by girls all night long and if he wasn't being grinded on, he approached girls from behind and they all reciprocated interest. Impressed, I ask him what he did and he simply said that he just doesn't give a **** and just approaches whatever girl he wants. He told me that if a girl rejects him, he shrugs it off and moves onto the next one. He encourages me to be confident and to try approaching.
So, I try to imitate my buddy by taking my shirt off and approaching but each and every time I was turned down. Even by the whales. My friend did tell me to keep my head up and to chalk it up as a bad night, he even offered to be my wingman next time we go out.
I get what he's saying, but this crap is discouraging. I've been reading SS for a while now and figured I'd go ahead and ask if I should ask my friend to help me in the gym and start putting this stuff to use or something.
I don't know, I'm stuck in a pretty deep rut. I would like to get an input and don't worry about sparing my feelings, I need to hear the truth.
