High value to me is a pretty complex answer. And really? It's picking between poisons. My personal experience with both types of 'High value"
You can have a woman who most men classically look for: She cooks, cleans, is naturally submissive, goes out of her way for you often, treats you like a king, believes in you even when she maybe shouldn't, supports your goals and dreams even if you're not necessarily doing well at them, takes your side during debates with others, is a bit clingy/needy. There isn't a huge amount of passion because of the inherent lack of deeper tension (which is just friction of conflict), but she is surely not much of a headache due to her easy-going nature. Possible downsides are that she may be passive-aggressive and bottle her feelings which could later explode as she doesn't enjoy confrontation; may have to do a lot of 'mind-reading'. She is more agreeable than disagreeable. But because of her agreeableness, you won't always trust her deeply to tell you the inconvenient truths of the world. There will be great compatibility, but a lack of clothes-tearing, bite her lip passion.
Then there is: A woman who does sweet things for you from time-to-time (cook/clean) but doesn't rely on this to gain her value from you, she won't cook all your meals or pack your lunches for you routinely because she doesn't believe in outdated conventions or the whole house-wife thing, she believes in equality; most things together are shared experiences, she challenges your viewpoints, isn't afraid to walk away from you when you, isn't afraid to turn you down when she isn't being respected by her own subjectivity, is independent, has very strong principles and morals. This woman will essentially be a man-maker to a degree, as she will be giving you more insight into what being a man truly means, but she will also be a pretty big headache from time-to-time, but your respect for her will be high. She is not afraid of confrontation and she possesses more traits of disagreeableness more than agreeableness. And when you understand your power and frame you will see the true dynamics of female-male harmony in essence. This would be the type of woman where she needs a real man who doesn't take anything personally or is not fragile. If you are she will overtly resent you or see you as weak rather than holding compassion because fragility in relationships often means a small amount of emotional danger and shakiness which will turn women off. You may resent her outwardness for conflict and may want to bang your face against a wall. The downfall of this can be intense fights that stray you from your goals and purposes and can be exhausting because the heart of this relationship is truthfulness - which generally means discomfort and rejections of self and the world as we saw it previously. There will be lots of passion, but you will definitely question long-term compatibility often enough. This has been my most transcendental intimate experience, though not without scars.
Then the ideal, which is a rare pokemon, will be a blend of the two above; solid passion, solid compatibility. Enough headaches but not all the time where it can be an annoyance, it's in balance for proper growth and little stagnancy. And I believe from a spiritual view this would be the archetypal soul-mate connection. But the only way to achieve this is to first be in deep harmony with yourself - pursuing dreams, and goals on many levels that are nurturing to you. And because of these independent acts of self-love and respect will be able to truly choose a correct partner which enhances your current being. And of course, you would do that for her.
