Is there a different technique for pulling the 8s and 9s than for the 6s and 7s?

n00blar

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The numbering system works, despite the fact every guy has his own image of what a 5 or a 10 might look like. Every guy associates the best looking girl with the highest number, in comparison, every guy also associates the worst looking girl with the lowest. It works because numbers don't have anything else associated with them; they're just numbers.
 

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Originally posted by n00blar
The numbering system works, despite the fact every guy has his own image of what a 5 or a 10 might look like. Every guy associates the best looking girl with the highest number, in comparison, every guy also associates the worst looking girl with the lowest. It works because numbers don't have anything else associated with them; they're just numbers.
Exactly n00blar... this is definitely a whole nother topic of discussion, but there have been HUNDREDS of studies done on this. Its basic instinct for people of the opposite sex to be attracted to the same qualities. It may slightly differ from person to person, but only slightly. Anyone against the number theory is probably a low number themslef and insecure about there looks, and is having a hard time grasping the concept out of denial(previous posters)
 

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I know this, but I'm only using the 1-10 scale to illustrate that I'm talking about the difference between DJing "good looking" girls and "great looking" girls. :)

I've been kind of unclear with what I'm trying to ask, so I apologize. What I'm asking is that with the better-looking girls, if they don't notice you/make eye contact, do you:

-Approach them and make your presence known, fluff talk, neg/C&F, etc

or do you

-Work on your own attitude, because a TRUE DJ would project such a strong aura that this girl couldn't HELP but notice him?

For example, I'm in a bar last night, and I spot out this cutie, but she doesn't ever look at me, so I can't make eye contact. Do I approach her and initiate conversation if she doesn't notice my presence?

(on a side note, her friend and I locked eye contact and I got a smile out of her friend, but I was a little discouraged at this point and figured it wasn't a good idea to approach while I wasn't feeling confident of myself. LOL)
 

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If you get buying signals from friend approach her. Good practice, get in sight of the other one. You cannot approach if you get no eye contact, you'll get bounced. As for great looking ones, same story, but since you are not getting any eye contact they'll have to go after you (see earlier post)
 

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n00blar:
"It works"
i agree

n00blar:
"numbers don't have anything else associated with them"
i disagree

Just as the first number in a series has a certain properties compared to the rest, as well as the second, third, and every other number, so does each and every woman in an account of looks. These properties can be translated, resulting in very strong associations. Lots of beliefs and metafysical systems such as Kabbalah, I tjing, and the Tarot use math to map being human and our behaviour (and other stuff).

Even though there are many numbers to count, let alone add, multiply, etc., i'd find it very useful if a learned (and wise) person would create a limited, indexed list of techniques appropriate to each number. ('fraid not me!)
 

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IMO, now that I'm getting better, I can barely get attracted to any girl who's not a 7 or higher. To me, my perfect 10 is natural brown hair, brown eyes (hate blue, green, or hazel), C or D cup, near hourglass figure (not that important to me), great round and rather large ass, and some good legs. I mostly go after girls who are 5'2" to 5'8". A rather large range but mostly average. A 9 probably has everything except one or two things that detract from my vision but those detractors are nice, but not perfect. So on.

Cindy Margolis to me would be around a 9. I don't like her face but her body is d-d-d-d-d-damn, nice. Kirsten Dunst to me would be 5.5. I never really liked her as she has an average face, mediocre body, and large but saggy biggins. Since she mostly is average all around (except for the boobs, she could get a pushup bra to fix those), she gets an average score.

Most 9s and 10s are spoiled by men, true fact. They basically could have hundreds of AFCs do everything she wants for her. I feel in that way, that is unattractive as since she is most likely very inexperienced in the sack, it'd be better to pick a great 8 that is amazing in bed than a 10 who probably looks up at the ceiling the whole time without uttering anything. 9s and 10s since they were 10 were pretty fawned over by AFCs. Most men are afraid to approach attractive women. I suppose even many DJs think its much better to pursue the 7s and 8s than the 9s and the 10s. 9s and 10s know this and that inflates their ego. They become *****es not because its how they were raised but because their emotional growth is so stunted and warped that they really don't know how to act around men because most men she encounters are drooling morons that would slit their wrists to make her happy. Thats never good for anyone.
 
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