As much as I hate to agree regarding kids and marriage, I have to agree. I would never counsel a young man starting out to get married. I would honestly tell him to avoid it like the plague. I think kids are awesome and it is truly something I enjoy, having my kids but not under the conditions that I am currently saddled with. It takes away quite a bit of the enjoyment when I'm stuck with the woman I'm stuck with. However, as they say, it's cheaper to keeper and it's true. Less aggravation, less money, less stress to continue along than to get rid of her, which really is me removing myself, not getting rid of her.[/QUOTE]
I was just talking to a player. He banged some skank and his friend is engaged to her.
****ty female behaviour is rewarded. Her best years are flushed down the toilet and when she is valueless even more so, some cuck marries her.
IMHO I think TRP marriage is retarded but, if guys get value, then, whatever. Power to him.
I can say, top form SMV but, any idiot can say that or 10s but, in reality, do they even pull?
There's a lot of stuff from nonsense to useless. A cute say 6+ on top form I will take and pursue any day > hawtttt cratered SMV epiphany phase or near/past the wall.
One of the best women I pulled is a hard 6+, yogi, fit as ****kkkkkk, sheltered to the max, grew up with mom and dad. While not hawtttt, she's explored consciousness and self knowledge.
Still, I won't give the ring. Marriage is dead. It's a one way flow that offers men nothing of value while guaranteeing female access to resources, both present and future earnings. Worse, it guarantees her control over sexual access.
No dice. If not in the mood, low libido, low sex drive, LMR, etc #next!
Fellas, there's always hotter, younger, thinner, fitter, etc.
Flipping the script is key.
If she is a valueless commodity, she is treated as such.
If you're going along, banging chicks 18-23 as a 30s or 40s man, at least from a day to day and personal level, you're having way more fun than I am. I try to look at it from a different light and that's having my kids but honestly, it's tough, really tough most days to stay positive.
Mate, it's a zero some game. At age thirty, it's not my first rodeo. Even still, it's a headache and a lot of nonsense. **** test from a chick who flips burgers at McDonald's. Valueless but has the goods.
If she goes BPD psycho between top form and epiphany phase, you're +5-7 yrs older. The deficit is monumental. Even blanc would be affected by the fall out in breakup and game plummets.
My biggest tactic in game is noting females competitiveness (more do then men give credit), playing to the following, and my willingness to walk.
In marriage, once there's kids, it's a diff game but willingness to walk away from the start is ideal. The alternative is bring a hostage.
Good luck mate.