is the girl intersted in dating or are is it just hangingout

[joe45]

i met this girl through the internet dating site.
so how can you tell if the girl your hanging out with or just met is interested in you-dating wise or is just going out with you as a friend and nothing more and goes out with you since she has nothing to do that day , and that you asked to go out with her-movie, lunch,.....etc
or
she is acutally interested in you dating wise and is going out with you

you intentions to go out with the girl is dating wise obviously. so how can you tell. any actions, the way she talks, acts that shows shes interested or just going out with me just for fun as friends and nothing more.

i been in a case were the girl just went out with me as a friend and nothing more, and i believe that when we were going out it was dating. but to her it wasn't. i found this out since one of my other female friend emailed her on facebook asking her what she thought of Joey and he was like personality, ...etc and stuff and she wrote that he wasn't her type, and that she was just looking for friends.

so other than just asking a friend to email her through facebook and asking , what are some ways one can tell.

also i think some girls just go out with the guy just b/c he asked and she has nothing else to do that day and on top of it the guy is also paying for her-her movie, her dinner...etc and she thinks why not. i have nothing else to do and i get a free movie, now genuine intentions or just using

i just don't want to waste my time busing out and meeting and hanging out with a girl if she just wants friendship and has nothing else to do and b/c i asked her out. i work 2 jobs and volunteer i'm busy as it is.
how can you find out if shes like this or not.

i'm looking for a gf and relationship, not jsut to hang out as friends. i already have many friends-girls and guys.

 

[slaog]

You'll know by her actions. Women say 1 thing but mean another.

It should not concern you anyway... just hang out with her and then see what happens.

Usually if women just want to be friends then they try to avoid you.

Also if you have lots of female friends then you need to ask yourself why? Are you not interested in them or are they not interested in you? Or are they real friends or just for social proof etc?

 

[joe45]

You'll know by her actions. Women say 1 thing but mean another.

It should not concern you anyway... just hang out with her and then see what happens.

Usually if women just want to be friends then they try to avoid you.

Also if you have lots of female friends then you need to ask yourself why? Are you not interested in them or are they not interested in you? Or are they real friends or just for social proof etc?

hehe actions like how, do you have any examples. hehe

social proof? w hat is that

 

[Igetit!]

You want to know if the girl is interested in dating or just hanging out with you,right? This really shouldn't be that hard to figure out man. There are millions of ways to tell. First,do you make it crystal clear that you are romantically interested in her,or do you leave it open to her interpetation?
Another way is when you are on the actual date,you you try to hold her hand,or kiss her,or anything like that? Also,how do you act and behave around her? Do you act like a friend or a potential boyfriend? You have to make your intentions clear,because if you leave it to her,even if she likes you,she'll take the safe "let's just be friends" route so she won't appear to easy or to avoid rejection herself.

 

[Rebound Material]

Usually if women just want to be friends then they try to avoid you.

Unless of course the girl is an AW/CT...then youre just wasting your time.

 

[Mr. Me]

so how can you tell. any actions, the way she talks, acts that shows shes interested or just going out with me just for fun as friends and nothing more.

OMG, you make life more difficult than it has to be!

The sure fire way to tell is at the end of the date: go in for a kiss. Just a two second kiss on the lips, no make out session. If she turns her head, or gives any excuse not to kiss you, then she's not interested in you romantically plain and simple and never will be.

 

[joe45]

You want to know if the girl is interested in dating or just hanging out with you,right? This really shouldn't be that hard to figure out man. There are millions of ways to tell. First,do you make it crystal clear that you are romantically interested in her,or do you leave it open to her interpetation?
Another way is when you are on the actual date,you you try to hold her hand,or kiss her,or anything like that? Also,how do you act and behave around her? Do you act like a friend or a potential boyfriend? You have to make your intentions clear,because if you leave it to her,even if she likes you,she'll take the safe "let's just be friends" route so she won't appear to easy or to avoid rejection herself.

lol hehe ah how would a potential bf act when going out on a first, second date/hang out than. heheh

when would you go for the hand holding, or kiss, first date meeeting, second...etc
we all both in our mid 20's .

 

[Igetit!]

All the girls are responding to is what YOU put out. If you have never said or done anything to show you romantic interest,then she said "let's just be friends",then it's YOUR fault. Because all she did was respond to what you put out there. This really isn't that hard,man. You want to know how would a potential boyfriend would behave with her? Simple. When she shows up on the date,tell her you like what she's wearing. If she's late,tell her you were just about to leave,and mean it. Try to hold her hand,kiss her,hug her. Ask her what she is going to wear for you on the next date. All of this can be summed up in one sentence. Just be a MAN when you are with her.