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Master Don Juan
Hi guys,
You've all got some awesome, smart, though-provoking opinions here. Thanks.
I'm not sure if women do ganji on purpose. I think we may do what looks like ganji more out of fear than manipulation. As women, we know that a man usually controls the pace of the relationship, thus he holds most of the power. I think we may test a guy out if we like him to see if there's a chance he likes us and we pull the "friend" card to cover our butts. If a guy would tell me he just wants to be friends, I would believe him and that's the way I would see him. If I want a relationship with him, I'd probably just keep that to myself and try to be the best friend to him that I could possibly be, but I would not ganji him.
SB
You've all got some awesome, smart, though-provoking opinions here. Thanks.
I'm not sure if women do ganji on purpose. I think we may do what looks like ganji more out of fear than manipulation. As women, we know that a man usually controls the pace of the relationship, thus he holds most of the power. I think we may test a guy out if we like him to see if there's a chance he likes us and we pull the "friend" card to cover our butts. If a guy would tell me he just wants to be friends, I would believe him and that's the way I would see him. If I want a relationship with him, I'd probably just keep that to myself and try to be the best friend to him that I could possibly be, but I would not ganji him.
SB