Is the DJ Bible really right about everything?

CrazyGuy

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I have been reading the DJ bible,and I dont agree with all those things it says a nice guy cant get the girl,because his too needy.Which is wrong its when your TOO nice the girl wont like you,I mean do you think a women would like someguy who beats her everyday,slaps her around and calls her a hoe or ***** or even slut,isnt he a bad boy?I think people on this forum depend too much on books,when some of the information havent even been tested in the real world.And as for looks do matter I mean lets face it you can be a fat ugly slob who has the highest confidence in the world,but still his looks wont make the girl physicaly attrative.Come on guys we can get laid by taking peoples advice on this forum,rather then just reading books.But the sad part is 99% of guys on here WONT AND DONT TAKE the advice on this forum,so it makes this forum pretty pointless Nobody really wants to change,if you guys did you would read this site advice,take the advice apply it,and if it doesnt work come back for advice.Here is an example of an AFC of people on here:
They read on the site where it says how to approach a girl.
So the guy reads it,then goes to sleep,after he wakes he goes to the mall,and he sees a hot girl and he is afraid to approach her.So he comes back to the forum and says the advice doesnt work or he has approach anxiety when the truth is he hasnt applied to what the sites advice,does guys stop thinking im your mind of approaching,do it.Im pretty sure the guys who give advice here are wasting their time,99% of MEN on here wont apply and listen to the advice,its sad but true.

P.S. 96% of MEN on here are virgins and will be virgins for awhile,but as for the rest of 4% are on a good road!Guys on here fear change,they dont want to get out of their comfort zone,get out of your comfort zone starting making a change.

EVEN GUYS ON HERE WHO ARE AFCS READ MY THREAD THEY WILL EITHER FLAME IT OR WONT LISTEN TO THE ADVICE AND WONT CHANGE SAD BUT TRUE :)
 

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CrazyGuy said:
I have been reading the DJ bible,and I dont agree with all those things it says a nice guy cant get the girl,because his too needy.Which is wrong its when your TOO nice the girl wont like you,I mean do you think a women would like someguy who beats her everyday,slaps her around and calls her a hoe or ***** or even slut,isnt he a bad boy?I think people on this forum depend too much on books,when some of the information havent even been tested in the real world.And as for looks do matter I mean lets face it you can be a fat ugly slob who has the highest confidence in the world,but still his looks wont make the girl physicaly attrative.Come on guys we can get laid by taking peoples advice on this forum,rather then just reading books.But the sad part is 99% of guys on here WONT AND DONT TAKE the advice on this forum,so it makes this forum pretty pointless Nobody really wants to change,if you guys did you would read this site advice,take the advice apply it,and if it doesnt work come back for advice.Here is an example of an AFC of people on here:
They read on the site where it says how to approach a girl.
So the guy reads it,then goes to sleep,after he wakes he goes to the mall,and he sees a hot girl and he is afraid to approach her.So he comes back to the forum and says the advice doesnt work or he has approach anxiety when the truth is he hasnt applied to what the sites advice,does guys stop thinking im your mind of approaching,do it.Im pretty sure the guys who give advice here are wasting their time,99% of MEN on here wont apply and listen to the advice,its sad but true.
I don't recall anywhere on here anyone saying that they should beat women. And next thing, guys can't get hot girls because they ARE too needy. You have to treat her like you don't want her in order for her to keep coming back. Let her enjoy your company when you're together and keep on goin on with your daily life without thinkin much about her. If you make her your world and keep on thinking about her you will end up flat on your face because you will subconciously start developing feelings for her and when you make yourself too available they disappear. This is all before there is an actual relationship of course.

And you are partly right, people do read this stuff and go out there and do nothing. But at the same time there are people that do. If you read with understanding it will get you somewhere.
 

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BxPrince24 said:
I don't recall anywhere on here anyone saying that they should beat women. And next thing, guys can't get hot girls because they ARE too needy. You have to treat her like you don't want her in order for her to keep coming back. Let her enjoy your company when you're together and keep on goin on with your daily life without thinkin much about her. If you make her your world and keep on thinking about her you will end up flat on your face because you will subconciously start developing feelings for her and when you make yourself too available they disappear. This is all before there is an actual relationship of course.

And you are partly right, people do read this stuff and go out there and do nothing. But at the same time there are people that do. If you read with understanding it will get you somewhere.
Yes but beating her,slapping her is the samething as telling her you dont need her,so does that mean she will want you more?Come on its part of common sense most of the stuff atleast 64% of the DJ bible information hasnt been applied in real life and is rather ficitional its ment to bring MEN like on here hope&confidence.So your saying if you have feelings for a girl?and for someone who doesnt have feelings for her will get her?Let me tell you something WHY would you go after someone who doesnt care about you?I mean it makes more logical sense going for someone who Does like you or care abouts you.I mean feelings and emotions are part of human nature,you guys depend too much on books,try it in the real world its a litte different and girls arent that complex!
 

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Yes but beating her,slapping her is the samething as telling her you dont need her,so does that mean she will want you more?Come on its part of common sense most of the stuff atleast 64% of the DJ bible information hasnt been applied in real life and is rather ficitional its ment to bring MEN like on here hope&confidence.So your saying if you have feelings for a girl?and for someone who doesnt have feelings for her will get her?Let me tell you something WHY would you go after someone who doesnt care about you?I mean it makes more logical sense going for someone who Does like you or care abouts you.I mean feelings and emotions are part of human nature,you guys depend too much on books,try it in the real world its a litte different and girls arent that complex!
I have never read any books on pickup or getting with a woman. And you're still speaking about abuse. Any man who abuses a woman deserves to get shot. When I say behave like you don't need her I mean to go on with your life. Yea, you met a new girl, you got her number. good job. carry on with what you are doing. Developing feelings early for a girl, making her what you think about the most, will definately screw with what you do daily because all you want to do is be around her.

Now in terms of feelings. When you want something and you can't get it, it makes you want it more. For example, if you see a hot car, you want to buy it. you try one dealer and they don't have it. Lord know's that if you have the money you will search every dealer for the damn car till you get it. And the longer you wait to get it the more anticipation you build for it. Liking a girl or being attracted to a girl is different from developing feelings for her, at least in the sense that I'm using the word in. If you go and defer from your life and put her to the top of your list then eventually you wont get no where.

Now is this always true? no. There are circumstances where vice versa does work. But that doesn't mean the stuff on here is bullsh*t. The main point to get across on this forum is to improve yourself physically and mentally. Once you do that and develop confidence and a backbone then you really don't need all the extra stuff.
 

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Originally posted by CrazyGuy
atleast 64% of the DJ bible information hasnt been applied in real life
Originally posted by CrazyGuy
P.S. 96% of MEN on here are virgins
You know this.......how?:rolleyes:
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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CrazyGuy said:
I have been reading the DJ bible,and I dont agree with all those things it says a nice guy cant get the girl,because his too needy.Which is wrong its when your TOO nice the girl wont like you,I mean do you think a women would like someguy who beats her everyday,slaps her around and calls her a hoe or ***** or even slut,isnt he a bad boy?I think people on this forum depend too much on books,when some of the information havent even been tested in the real world.And as for looks do matter I mean lets face it you can be a fat ugly slob who has the highest confidence in the world,but still his looks wont make the girl physicaly attrative.Come on guys we can get laid by taking peoples advice on this forum,rather then just reading books.But the sad part is 99% of guys on here WONT AND DONT TAKE the advice on this forum,so it makes this forum pretty pointless Nobody really wants to change,if you guys did you would read this site advice,take the advice apply it,and if it doesnt work come back for advice.Here is an example of an AFC of people on here:
They read on the site where it says how to approach a girl.
So the guy reads it,then goes to sleep,after he wakes he goes to the mall,and he sees a hot girl and he is afraid to approach her.So he comes back to the forum and says the advice doesnt work or he has approach anxiety when the truth is he hasnt applied to what the sites advice,does guys stop thinking im your mind of approaching,do it.Im pretty sure the guys who give advice here are wasting their time,99% of MEN on here wont apply and listen to the advice,its sad but true.

P.S. 96% of MEN on here are virgins and will be virgins for awhile,but as for the rest of 4% are on a good road!Guys on here fear change,they dont want to get out of their comfort zone,get out of your comfort zone starting making a change.

EVEN GUYS ON HERE WHO ARE AFCS READ MY THREAD THEY WILL EITHER FLAME IT OR WONT LISTEN TO THE ADVICE AND WONT CHANGE SAD BUT TRUE :)


None of the stuff in the DJ bible is right or wrong. It's all based on opinions.
most of that stuff in there is most likely articles that people wrote to help other people out with girls/confidence/physical looks/etc/etc. This was all written as a TOOL/RESOURCE for other people to use when needed. like the other guys said...these are meant to be guidelines; not rules. it worked for the peopel who wrote the articles, they are sharing this with us. we should be thanking them.

As for the "AFCs" that never take any action. That ultimately is their fault. not ours. THEY have to make the choice, we can't make it for them.

Note: If it wasn't for this website, i would not be the person i am today. every action we take effects our entire lives; as well as everybody elses. If it wasn't for some girl who had rejected me when i was a sophmore in HS...i wouldn't be be typing this right now. When i discovered this website, it lead me on a path that i will never forget. I became more attractive physically, developed my sense of style, met my best friend, completely re-arranged my entire mental philosophy on how things work, as well as countless other things. This website CAN change your life. Granted, will it work for everyone? probally not. if we at least can transform ONE person...don't you think that is enough? i certaintly think it is.

just my 2 cents.
 
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