Is telling her to NOT wear heels a mistake?

[sosuave213]

I tell my girl to wear boots, flats and sneakers because I like it, but the Book of Pook says:

"She deliberately wears high-heeled shoes."

She wants to get ****ed tonight.

Women call their heels their **** shoes.

Should guys even be talking to women about shoes?

 

[sosuave213]

you're pathetic

That's what your mom said last night when I asked her to call me mikedee.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Why wouldn't you want a girl to wear high heels? Wtf is wrong with you. We need to end the stupid boot and white sneaker trend.

 

[sosuave213]

Why wouldn't you want a girl to wear high heels? Wtf is wrong with you. We need to end the stupid boot and white sneaker trend.

You mad?

 

[LTG71]

Let her wear what she wants and then tell her which things you like. Example, I told a woman I liked certain pieces of clothing and certain shoes. She would take inventory of my compliments and dress accordingly without me saying a word. I literally could steer what I liked seeing her wear and she would do it. She was complying with minimal effort. Heels are sexy AF too, forget those sneakers.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

You mad?

Yes I am sick of women dressing like clowns

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I tell my girl to wear boots, flats and sneakers because I like it

Does your girl like it that you tell her what to wear?

 

[sosuave213]

Yes I am sick of women dressing like clowns

You and everyone else on this board who spends their time coming together to find people to make fun of and put down, bring the content of this board down with your pathetic behavior. You show an example of how to be more like a mean, gossiping kid than a suave guy with his own life, an example only for other losers to follow.

 

[ManFromTartarus]

OP asks a question, invites opinions, get's a 100% agreement consensus from "everyone else on the board", ..... then goes on the attack.

..... classic.

Who is really "bring(ing) the content of this board down"?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You and everyone else on this board who spends their time coming together to find people to make fun of and put down, bring the content of this board down with your pathetic behavior. You show an example of how to be more like a mean, gossiping kid than a suave guy with his own life, an example only for other losers to follow.

Instead of getting so riled up, maybe you should answer the question in post #8:

"Does your girl like it that you tell her what to wear?"

My kittens like to dress up for me and ask my opinion. If I think they should put on something else, I will give them my opinion, but I don't go around telling women what (not) to wear. Unless they ask.

So, does your girl ask you for your opinion on female footwear?

 

[sosuave213]

Instead of getting so riled up, maybe you should answer the question in post #8:

"Does your girl like it that you tell her what to wear?"

My kittens like to dress up for me and ask my opinion. If I think they should put on something else, I will give them my opinion, but I don't go around telling women what (not) to wear. Unless they ask.

So, does your girl ask you for your opinion on female footwear?

She always says, "what should I wear?" And asks "heels or flats?" I never tell her where we are going so she asks what she should wear to get an idea.

Chicks I've dated in the past have also asked, and if they didn't, I would just simply tell them what to wear (if I felt like it). They love it because it's a man taking direction.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Chicks I've dated in the past have also asked, and if they didn't, I would just simply tell them what to wear (if I felt like it). They love it because it's a man taking direction.

So, there's your answer.
Who cares what this forum thinks, if your women enjoy how you treat them?

 

[RangerMIke]

You don't like women wearing high heels, then don't date women that wear high heels.

I've said this before and will say it yet again. If you are dating a woman for any length of time she knows what you like and don't like... you don't have to tell them, they know. Sane women, by and large, are more intuitive than the average sane man. This is why the average woman gets p1ssed off when you cannot read her 'signs' that she is not in the right frame of mind. They do not understand why the average man cannot intuitively decern her emotional state, because to them it is second nature.

If she stops doing those things you like and starts doing things you DON'T like, then you are on your way out. If this happens than do yourself, and her a favor, and just dump her and move on.

Don't try and change her... don't have 'talks' with them... assume she knows exactly what is going sideways and knows what she needs to do to right the ship. You have to put the burden on her because she is going to tell you what she needs... it is a lot more efficient than the man twisting himself into a knot trying to figure her out. The fact that she isn't tells you everything you need to know. Now if she comes to you and tells you WHY she is losing interest... then fine... figure out what she needs from you and YOU get to decide if what she is negotiating is worth keeping her. If her price is too high... go find another woman.

 

[sosuave213]

You don't like women wearing high heels, then don't date women that wear high heels.

I've said this before and will say it yet again. If you are dating a woman for any length of time she knows what you like and don't like... you don't have to tell them, they know. Sane women, by and large, are more intuitive than the average sane man. This is why the average woman gets p1ssed off when you cannot read her 'signs' that she is not in the right frame of mind. They do not understand why the average man cannot intuitively decern her emotional state, because to them it is second nature.

If she stops doing those things you like and starts doing things you DON'T like, then you are on your way out. If this happens than do yourself, and her a favor, and just dump her and move on.

Don't try and change her... don't have 'talks' with them... assume she knows exactly what is going sideways and knows what she needs to do to right the ship. You have to put the burden on her because she is going to tell you what she needs... it is a lot more efficient than the man twisting himself into a knot trying to figure her out. The fact that she isn't tells you everything you need to know. Now if she comes to you and tells you WHY she is losing interest... then fine... figure out what she needs from you and YOU get to decide if what she is negotiating is worth keeping her. If her price is too high... go find another woman.

Loving this wisdom!!