Alright Boys, Time to wake up and understand Borderline reality! I like some of you thought I knew how to spot someone with a mental illness. ****, I dealt with mentally ill people all the time as a inner-city Medic for 10 years.
You are very correct that her song "Blank Space" describes her BPD behavior. She admits that she is unable to have adult romantic relationship and feels obsessed then quickly devalues. Borderline Personality Disordered woman are not all "waifs", low functioning/suicide threatening attention seekers. BPD can be very hard to diagnose in the non "waifs" as they avoid psychiatrists. Many are high functioning, hot and charismatic. They wear their mask very well until you get close and they feel intimate. During the idealizing phase they are very good at seducing you! Even BPD woman feel she is one of them according to BPD forums. Here is what one of the "Siren" gals with BPD posted about herself in the BPD forums.
Being in lust/love/need used to be my favorite feeling. The back and forth? Yes, It's constant and I often feel like a "nightmare dressed like a daydream". I am absolutely fantastic in bed. I am adventurous and will attempt to make all your wildest fantasies come true. I'm also attractive, But when my anxieties come out to play and I start getting attached, get ready for the threats of leaving and mood swings and bitching. I can't help it and I don't want to do it but it can feel almost compulsive.
I fell victim to one of these high function "Siren" BPD gals, She was a student of mine and I knew her for over a year before getting involved with her. I knew she had a lot of past relationships but I ignored that red flag, I also ignored that she branch swung to me when we got involved, claiming her EX was an abusive A-hole (another red flag) I missed. 5 years I wasted with her, ignoring her abusive behavior on occasion, thinking it wouldn't really affect me since I would retaliate by enforcing boundaries. The sex was incredible and the thought of her ass still drives me crazy, Sex will never be the same with normal gals. It's been a year of no contact and I still feel down most of the time, I'm not the happy guy I was before Lucifer's daughter targeted my soul!