MascaraSnake
Senior Don Juan
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Last night, I was out with a don juan fraternity brother of mine...he's got a serious girlfriend now and women are just drawn to him, which makes him one of the best wingmen I know today. He's always been great advice, since he doesn't think about girls...he just goes out and does it.
Last night, we were at a crowded dance bar - some attractive blonde walks up to us and starts talking to us. It turns out we have mutual friends. My friend says the usual "hi" and lets me talk to her. He later turns his back on her to get another drink, and I grab her number and say my goodbyes (we were meeting other people).
Later that night, he gets blunt and tells me "you realize that she walked up to us so she could hit on *me*, right? She touched me 7 times during your conversation, and I barely even said a word. You were drooling over her like a puppy and you didn't even have a chance, dude. And getting her number was completely unnecessary, since she knows friends of yours and she's going to your party next week."
at that point, I go into defense mode and say "well, whatever - she's not even that attractive anyway, and she has big ass horse teeth."
"Oh, come on, don't say that ****. that's a horrible way to think, man. Girls hate negativity."
See, though - is this a really bad way to think? Robert Greene says in his 48 Laws of Power that disparaging something you can't get is an ideal way to act.
Last night, we were at a crowded dance bar - some attractive blonde walks up to us and starts talking to us. It turns out we have mutual friends. My friend says the usual "hi" and lets me talk to her. He later turns his back on her to get another drink, and I grab her number and say my goodbyes (we were meeting other people).
Later that night, he gets blunt and tells me "you realize that she walked up to us so she could hit on *me*, right? She touched me 7 times during your conversation, and I barely even said a word. You were drooling over her like a puppy and you didn't even have a chance, dude. And getting her number was completely unnecessary, since she knows friends of yours and she's going to your party next week."
at that point, I go into defense mode and say "well, whatever - she's not even that attractive anyway, and she has big ass horse teeth."
"Oh, come on, don't say that ****. that's a horrible way to think, man. Girls hate negativity."
See, though - is this a really bad way to think? Robert Greene says in his 48 Laws of Power that disparaging something you can't get is an ideal way to act.