Is She Playing Me?

habzie

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i met this girl thru a freind shes realli beutiful shez 17 and few dayz later i told her i love her and she got turned off by that because she sed she dnt beleieve me

newayz that was 3 monthz ago

i see her after college

and a month ago on day b4 her bday she told me she wud go out with me the day after her bday and wen i saw her on her bday i sed to her so todays ur last day being single and she sed yeah until i find another guy

i was hurt by dat so i sed to her friend shez too faced and then she must hav herd me and didnt say ne fin bt wen she went to her bus stop i try givin her..the bday card i gt her and she juz went off on one and walked away i followed her and sed js take ur card and she turned around and sed fuk u leave me alone b4 i call da police

she told me b4 hand she has a bad temper

den we made up and she found out i had made a girl pregnet in her colllege bt i denied it... and also i had got arrersted for sumthin stuipid and sher momz a police officer and she found out i been in trouble a few times

we chatted on the fone alot and i even sang her a song (steevie wonder i just called) and i told her i was arranged engaged which i wasnt and den she sed she happy for me and was excited on the fone then i told her that i will break it up to be with her and she sed i wud go out with u bt u got a crimnal record and ur engaged ...and she sed dat i wud prob fuk her life up as i did to dat girl i got pregenet

so then i saw her after college at a arcade where i normally meet her she was with 2 oda boyz and den i sat wid dem i knew them a bit and they went and i sed to her if ur gona b with him js tell me now and she sed i dnt kno... when dat guy came bak she accidently called me baby .. and then the next day she was with him which was a week ago bt they aint gettin on and broke up

so then few dayz ago i called her to see if she wanted to meet up on thursdya and she sed yeah and i sed we will go to pizza xpress and hav proper chat she was realli up for it
day b4 thursday i called her to make she she comin and she sed i dunno if i can i got a cooker delivery coming to the house and so i neva saw her..

then i called her later the same night which was yesterday and she didnt pik up and didnt reply to my txt ... so i txted her sayin i fought were freinds

and i called again and her mom mst hav picked it up and sed that to stop calling her or she wud do me for harresment ...

i realli care for this girl and think of her loads i think i love her i hav strong feelingz for her bt y she doing this to me i dnt undastand... she says im so buff and she always comez town to the arcade wat do i do i dnt kno wat to do

any help wud b gd thanks
 

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habzie said:
i met this girl thru a freind shes realli beutiful shez 17 and few dayz later i told her i love her and she got turned off by that because she sed she dnt beleieve me

newayz that was 3 monthz ago

i see her after college

and a month ago on day b4 her bday she told me she wud go out with me the day after her bday and wen i saw her on her bday i sed to her so todays ur last day being single and she sed yeah until i find another guy

i was hurt by dat so i sed to her friend shez too faced and then she must hav herd me and didnt say ne fin bt wen she went to her bus stop i try givin her..the bday card i gt her and she juz went off on one and walked away i followed her and sed js take ur card and she turned around and sed fuk u leave me alone b4 i call da police

she told me b4 hand she has a bad temper

den we made up and she found out i had made a girl pregnet in her colllege bt i denied it... and also i had got arrersted for sumthin stuipid and sher momz a police officer and she found out i been in trouble a few times

we chatted on the fone alot and i even sang her a song (steevie wonder i just called) and i told her i was arranged engaged which i wasnt and den she sed she happy for me and was excited on the fone then i told her that i will break it up to be with her and she sed i wud go out with u bt u got a crimnal record and ur engaged ...and she sed dat i wud prob fuk her life up as i did to dat girl i got pregenet

so then i saw her after college at a arcade where i normally meet her she was with 2 oda boyz and den i sat wid dem i knew them a bit and they went and i sed to her if ur gona b with him js tell me now and she sed i dnt kno... when dat guy came bak she accidently called me baby .. and then the next day she was with him which was a week ago bt they aint gettin on and broke up

so then few dayz ago i called her to see if she wanted to meet up on thursdya and she sed yeah and i sed we will go to pizza xpress and hav proper chat she was realli up for it
day b4 thursday i called her to make she she comin and she sed i dunno if i can i got a cooker delivery coming to the house and so i neva saw her..

then i called her later the same night which was yesterday and she didnt pik up and didnt reply to my txt ... so i txted her sayin i fought were freinds

and i called again and her mom mst hav picked it up and sed that to stop calling her or she wud do me for harresment ...

i realli care for this girl and think of her loads i think i love her i hav strong feelingz for her bt y she doing this to me i dnt undastand... she says im so buff and she always comez town to the arcade wat do i do i dnt kno wat to do

any help wud b gd thanks
Read the first two sentences of your post, and that is the problem.

You told her you loved her, and you put her on a pedastal by saying she's beautiful; that will make you supplicate and qualify yourself to her- it makes you look desperate. Also she told you she wanted you to fvck off (And even threatend to call the police on you) so no- she is not playing you she is genuinely disinterested. She does not like you and it shows beacuse you placed more effort into this 'relationship' as she did. Move on, Learn from this, forget her.

Ways to improve:

1. Improve Grammer, Spelling, Punctuation.
2. Do get in trouble with the feds, makes you look low quality.

Thats the most important so far, after you finish those two steps improve your image. Especially the way you articulate yourself, this is extremely important for communicating with members of authority (Police Man) and for future social endevours.
 

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Keep being her ho and buy her more presents. Maybe that'll change her mind about you as a man.
 

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okay so i basically cant do anything now its all messed up bt i was wondering if there is a way i cud get her bak for my pain that wud make me luk kool at least
 

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How is she playing you when she's making it clear she wants nothing to do with you?

i think u r a troll.
 

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you're playing with yourself.

First step for you is to NEXT every girl you know and every one you are currently interested in. You are just f-ucking up your life.

Then get some self respect and go for the women who show it to you. I'll bet there isn't a single girl besides your mother that is showing you any level of respect as a man. You are going after the wrong type of girls.
 
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I don't have a degree in e-bonics - no comprendo!
 
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