Is she playing games!!

[Mr_Maximus]

This ones is probably just an attention seeker, playing games.

You have nothing to lose at this point. Try one last time to set up a date at your place and escalate.

Ask her to let you know when she is free so you can get together. Then, only respond when she tells you when she is free.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Well she's also just commented on my fb status... Seems like she's trying hard to initiate contact again

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Stop playing these kissy-kissy high school games, man. She's stringing you along like a puppy. Don't contact her for about a week. Resist all urges. When you finally reply (if you do) tell her you've been busy gettin some action from a chick you've just met. Then promptly say you have to run. Play her ass right back and knock her off her high horse. Have fun, and good luck.

^^Believe it or not OP this works.^^

All the sh*t you've been doing hasn't worked 1 bit! Are you paying for all these dates? Stop with this nice guy crap spending $/presents on her trying to buy some pvssy! Cut this onetis sh*t out dude...seriously you'll start feeling better once you get some power back.

 

[GS750]

Nope, not a mistake. She is absolutely playing games with you. The "accidental" text is clearly to get you to respond. I'd ignore this little attention hoe for a month, make her think you are DONE. Block her on FB. If after a month she gets in contact, pitch a meet one time. If she doesn't come through never give her the time of day again. Cut her off completely. She sounds like a real pain in the ass playing these texty high school attention games.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I hate to say it, but you aren't gonna get anywhere with her no matter what. Call her out. I personally hate people who try to abuse me so I would have fun with her:

"Who's this?" and regardless of what she says, don't respond back.
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As for facebook, wait till someone else responds to whatever and reply to them, but not this girl. Show that you are purposely ignoring her. Fvck with her bro. She tried to abuse you, you have every right to abuse you.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Kicked her ass to the curb! back too NC i give her a week before i hear off her again.. as too which i will not be replying! Just going to play her at her own game!

 

[MOTU]

Believe me I'm trying ... She's a tough nut to crack!

Bro, you should read anti-dump's machine in the DJ bible. Very relevant to you right now.

 

[Aesthetix29]

So she sent another message on Sunday at 3am saying ' U out? X' which I ignored and I've just received another saying 'Alright stranger how are you xx' should I just ignore her is she just wanting attention ? Thanks

 

[Nu Vision]

I'm dealing with a similar situation with a coworker I've been talking to for some time. She's just an attention shore. Ignore her bro. She's just attention seeking.

 

[El Payaso]

If you have to ask yourself if she's playing games, she more than likely is.

An interested woman will never confuse you.

 

[Boxer00]

If she liked you don't you think she'd be in contact?

 

[RangerMIke]

If you have to ask yourself if she's playing games, she more than likely is.

An interested woman will never confuse you.

I agree, but let me add that a woman who is interested, but NOT completely available will confuse you but not because she is trying. Chances are that if you are with a woman who is showing high interest at times, and then not, then again.... it usually means there is another dude in the picture.

A woman that is interested IN THE MOMENT, will not confuse you. The problem is that if there is another guy, you two are 'sharing' moments.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Rangermike... I agree with you as there are times when she seems very interested in me then drops off again... I didn't reply anyway. I would like to get her hamster going if possible by not making myself available to her but on the other hand it might come across that she hurt me by ignoring her which j don't want her to think.

 

[El Payaso]

I agree, but let me add that a woman who is interested, but NOT completely available will confuse you but not because she is trying. Chances are that if you are with a woman who is showing high interest at times, and then not, then again.... it usually means there is another dude in the picture.

A woman that is interested IN THE MOMENT, will not confuse you. The problem is that if there is another guy, you two are 'sharing' moments.

Very good point.

 

[Aesthetix29]

So she texted me last night night saying she wasn't up to much this weekend and that we need a catchup.... To which i replied

Hey, I don't fancy doing anything too big this weekend... If you want come round to mine I will order in. That way we can have a proper catchup xx

Which was around 14hrs ago and no reply... Just thought I'd call her out ... And looks like she's bottled it. Haha

 

[mikey2012]

So she texted me last night night saying she wasn't up to much this weekend and that we need a catchup.... To which i replied

Hey, I don't fancy doing anything too big this weekend... If you want come round to mine I will order in. That way we can have a proper catchup xx

Which was around 14hrs ago and no reply... Just thought I'd call her out ... And looks like she's bottled it. Haha

Why bother ? Look for another chick. This is far too much effort on your part