Is she playing games!!

[Aesthetix29]

Ok to cut a long story short, I've been texting/talking/face timing and dating this girl we've been on a few dates and she seems interested at times and other times I just can't figure her out. This has gone on for 2 months now .. Still not banged her yet haha! The thing is I like this girl she's cool but I can't help but think she f**king with me... It's as tho she's dangling a bit of string! Ok so when I don't message her say for like 2 days she'll messgae me something like 'Helllllloooo' then something like sorry I didn't text you back the other day I fell asleep. I just think she's full of s**t personally, she works crazy shifts and long hours so I can understand that but i need to know what's going on is she interested or not ? Should I ask her or does that look beta ? I mean I actually bought her something for Xmas (not much only a bit of something) and she was really excited to see what it was etc... Which she still hasn't picked up.

I think this is a numbers game... Obviously texting others!

 

[SoSerene]

Ok to cut a long story short, I've been texting/talking/face timing and dating this girl we've been on a few dates and she seems interested at times and other times I just can't figure her out. This has gone on for 2 months now .. Still not banged her yet haha! The thing is I like this girl she's cool but I can't help but think she f**king with me... It's as tho she's dangling a bit of string! Ok so when I don't message her say for like 2 days she'll messgae me something like 'Helllllloooo' then something like sorry I didn't text you back the other day I fell asleep. I just think she's full of s**t personally, she works crazy shifts and long hours so I can understand that but i need to know what's going on is she interested or not ? Should I ask her or does that look beta ? I mean I actually bought her something for Xmas (not much only a bit of something) and she was really excited to see what it was etc... Which she still hasn't picked up.

I think this is a numbers game... Obviously texting others!

I stopped reading after that...

 

[backbeat]

yo bro, wut is up with u doin all that chattin when u should b doin sum f@ckin? y u talkin so much on that sh1t? f@ck bro, textin her is one thing but face time an that sh1t? 2 f@uckin months an u aint even got ur d1ck wet bro. time for her to put up or shut up. wut the f@ck u talkin when u should b f@uckin her? dont do that sh1t. get her in a spot when u can f@ck her, if she resists then kick her @ss to the curb. stop that all that talkin sh1t.....f@ckin a man u never get any puzzy that way y bore the sh1t out of chics who aint intersted more then a chattin buddy thats wut u r to her bro. wut the f@ck u buyin her sh1t for? u aint even f@cked that hoe to buy her sh1t. f@ckin beta @ss sh1t right there man. get ur head on right bro be a f@ckin man about this.

 

[sylvester the cat]

To buy her a Xmas present would be to reward her for her game playing. Why would you do that?

 

[stevo]

She likes the attention.

She hits you up for convo (that's good) she includes a moment she went silent so it doesnt come off like she's chasing (more so remind you of when she could care less to carry on the convo)

However, for the sake of sanity, fcuk that girl.

She'd be playing games if she doesn't give it up, for now she's just stirring the water. Take charge player.

Just curious, how often did you see her in 2months and what did you guys do? no kino whatsoever?

 

[Aesthetix29]

Stevo... Yeh we saw each other quite a few times we went for a meal then bowling lots of kino missing etc... It's not a random bird I've known her for a while but I'm sick of chasing now... She needs to step up!

 

[Aesthetix29]

Stevo... Yeh we saw each other quite a few times we went for a meal then bowling lots of kino missing etc... It's not a random bird I've known her for a while but I'm sick of chasing now... She needs to step up!

 

[stevo]

She does have to step up but she would only do what you lead her to do. Not very often does a girl jump your bones except if its a once in a lifetime thing with you being a celebrity.

Bowling is a fun activity you could have grabbed her, touched her in the moment.

It's up to you, if she hasnt classified you as dcikless or even worse "just a friend" then you have to make your intentions clear to her like right now.

Use your words. Sext. Make her juice flow gradually. Tease her mind.

Remember she wants to do what you want to do.

 

[RangerMIke]

You need to seduce her....until that happens I have no advice for you.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Believe me I'm trying ... She's a tough nut to crack!

 

[RangerMIke]

Believe me I'm trying ... She's a tough nut to crack!

Then move on... life's too short. Trust me you want nothing to do with this women if it sucks this bad after a couple of months it's going to get worst... move on to someone that is fun. Are you having fun? If not ask yourself what you are doing.

 

[VladPatton]

Stop playing these kissy-kissy high school games, man. She's stringing you along like a puppy. Don't contact her for about a week. Resist all urges. When you finally reply (if you do) tell her you've been busy gettin some action from a chick you've just met. Then promptly say you have to run. Play her ass right back and knock her off her high horse. Have fun, and good luck.

 

[Mr_Maximus]

Ok to cut a long story short, I've been texting/talking/face timing and dating this girl we've been on a few dates and she seems interested at times and other times I just can't figure her out. This has gone on for 2 months now .. Still not banged her yet haha! The thing is I like this girl she's cool but I can't help but think she f**king with me... It's as tho she's dangling a bit of string! Ok so when I don't message her say for like 2 days she'll messgae me something like 'Helllllloooo' then something like sorry I didn't text you back the other day I fell asleep. I just think she's full of s**t personally, she works crazy shifts and long hours so I can understand that but i need to know what's going on is she interested or not ? Should I ask her or does that look beta ? I mean I actually bought her something for Xmas (not much only a bit of something) and she was really excited to see what it was etc... Which she still hasn't picked up.

I think this is a numbers game... Obviously texting others!

you know whats going on

Ask yourself if she is treating you the way you would like to be treated.

If not -- :kick:

Just stop chasing her, let her do all the work, let her come at you and keep steering her towards you c***.

 

[nismo-4]

This attention hor loves you as her little beta orbiter! And you have not banged. So sad, you're likely friendzoned.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Ok so Its been 2 days since we last texted and I've just received a snapchat with her pulling her face with thumbs down saying stranger... This is what she does because we havnt spoke ina while she's trying to pull back in!

 

[stevo]

Good thing you held off making initial contact. She misses either the attention she got from you or she miss you (the person).

Set up a date at your place then escalate.

 

[bukowski_merit]

You are one of the guys she uses for entertainment when one of the guys she's banging isn't giving her the attention/contact she desires.

All the signs are here. Pull back. Talk to other women. Quit thinking about this one.

Might not get you layed by her, but it'll do wonders for the sanity.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Bukowski ... I think you're spot on fella, after that snap chat I messaged her and we was just chatting about Xmas and nye etc... And I said we should meet up for a drink and got no reply that was at 8pm last night! I think you're right about her banging someone else and with lack of attention she turns too me... *****! Haha! Time too call it a day. Thanks for you're advice guys.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Ok so it's 7am here and after not hearing from her since Monday ive just received this text 'U taking me 8! Xx xx' and 10 minutes later another text saying 'Haha that was for my dad was half asleep u ok? Xxx'

Is this a genuine mistake or what ? I've been NC since Monday.

 

[Aesthetix29]

And another text just come through 'Oi xx' sounds like she's getting annoyed because I haven't replied yet