need help I’m not sure how to handle my situation. Usually I’m ok with women, but I don’t know with this girl.
Let me explain the situation from the being. Oh by the way I apologize if this is too wordy or boring.
One night I was with my good friend and we went to a bar that we frequently attend while we were there we got a couple. I decided to leave the bar and convinced my friend to join me for a walk around the city to see if we can pick up some girls. Well while we were walking I saw four gorgeous girls and I told my friend to walk faster so we could catch up to them as we were walking every single guy on the street was trying to pick up these four girls. Now I’m not that muscular and maybe not even that good looking but from my girlfriends in the past I’m not to bad, and I’m a very nice guy with out having women walk all over me. Anyway I remembered reading on this web-site that when you see a girl on the street and you want to talk to her you have to make eye contact be respect full and say hello with a smile and if they say hi and smile back start talking with her. Well that’s what I did and I got all four girls to talk to me and my friend. So we started walking will them, my friend started talking to one girl and I started talking to another one and their friends didn’t really want anything to do with us they were in a hurry to go to a club but the girls we talked to walked and talked to us on a nice pace. To the point where their friends left these girls with us while we escorted them to the club. It was a great walk and in the middle of it the two girls that were with us noticed that they had no idea where the club was and their friends ditched them. So I acted quickly and got us a cab to bring them to the club.
When we got to the club their friends were inside already and me my friend and the tow girls (which I’ll name as Jill and Kim so that’s it wont get confusing sorry) I was with Jill and my friend was with Kim. We waited in line with them. I got a weird vibe from the girls and I told my friend that we should leave because when these girls get in the club we are old news. So I said to the girls have a nice night and I told Jill to have a nice birthday and that me and my friend were going to get a cab and leave. Then it happen Jill and Kim looked at each other (and I was thinking to my self ok we crashed and burned) to my surprise Jill and Kim both said why? Stay guys I had to think fast so I replied that my and my friend don’t want to intrude on your girls night. They said no it’s ok stay so we did. Now the bouncer didn’t let us in so I said ok lets do something else lets get your friends and let so someplace. So at this point I was on could # 9 I got a cab to go back to my car and so that we can go to the bar I was at earlier in the night. When we got their Jill didn’t like the bar so we said ok no problem let me just go in and close my tab then she said ok well while you do that we will come in with you so I we got their I offered my Jill and Kim and their friends a drink. I might as well be nice to her friends too. We had a drink I paid the tab and then we were off to another bar but no luck then we walked to another place to eat and we were their for a little bit and one of the girls noticed that they were going to be late for their train so I got the food to go and got Jill a happy birthday desert. I offered to pay the check and Jill and Kim offered to pay which made me happy that they offered because a lot of girls wouldn’t even offer like their friend I said it ok and paid the check got in my car gave her the desert and she said that was nice and I drove them to the train station me and my friend were going to ask for Jill and Kim’s number but we didn’t have to they asked for ours. Usually I hate to just give my number and not get heir’s in return but I was not thinking straight we got to the train station the girls got out and then Jill got back in the car to give me a kiss on the cheek and say thanks for the desert. About for days passed and no call I would have forgot about the girl but I couldn’t forget Jill’s smile so I had to take matters in my own hands I remembered she told me that she worked in a car dealership and then I decided to find out which one and send her flowers and I did with a message and my Number. I thought to my self no more waiting when she gets the flowers and if she is interested in me she will call if not just move on. The next day the flowers arrived at work and latter on in the day she called me and gave me her number I tried to set up a date and she said Saturday and if she can bring Kim and I can bring my friend. I said ok the conversation was short because she called me during work. I told her I would call her later on that night to set up time and where to pick them up I called left a message and nothing happened so Saturday I called her in the afternoon I talked to her she told me she was not sure if her friend wanted to come out and she told me she was at work and that she was going to call me to tell me yes or no for that night she didn’t call neither did I it Sunday night and I cant stop thinking about her or what to do I don’t want to call to early but I don’t want to lose it either should I call ? When? (In my next conversation I wanted to be very direct and tell her that obviously I’m interested in you for sending the flowers and if you're not interested in me tell me so I don’t waste my time.) What do you think? Please help me out I think she is testing me but I can’t think straight I need help.
Let me explain the situation from the being. Oh by the way I apologize if this is too wordy or boring.
One night I was with my good friend and we went to a bar that we frequently attend while we were there we got a couple. I decided to leave the bar and convinced my friend to join me for a walk around the city to see if we can pick up some girls. Well while we were walking I saw four gorgeous girls and I told my friend to walk faster so we could catch up to them as we were walking every single guy on the street was trying to pick up these four girls. Now I’m not that muscular and maybe not even that good looking but from my girlfriends in the past I’m not to bad, and I’m a very nice guy with out having women walk all over me. Anyway I remembered reading on this web-site that when you see a girl on the street and you want to talk to her you have to make eye contact be respect full and say hello with a smile and if they say hi and smile back start talking with her. Well that’s what I did and I got all four girls to talk to me and my friend. So we started walking will them, my friend started talking to one girl and I started talking to another one and their friends didn’t really want anything to do with us they were in a hurry to go to a club but the girls we talked to walked and talked to us on a nice pace. To the point where their friends left these girls with us while we escorted them to the club. It was a great walk and in the middle of it the two girls that were with us noticed that they had no idea where the club was and their friends ditched them. So I acted quickly and got us a cab to bring them to the club.
When we got to the club their friends were inside already and me my friend and the tow girls (which I’ll name as Jill and Kim so that’s it wont get confusing sorry) I was with Jill and my friend was with Kim. We waited in line with them. I got a weird vibe from the girls and I told my friend that we should leave because when these girls get in the club we are old news. So I said to the girls have a nice night and I told Jill to have a nice birthday and that me and my friend were going to get a cab and leave. Then it happen Jill and Kim looked at each other (and I was thinking to my self ok we crashed and burned) to my surprise Jill and Kim both said why? Stay guys I had to think fast so I replied that my and my friend don’t want to intrude on your girls night. They said no it’s ok stay so we did. Now the bouncer didn’t let us in so I said ok lets do something else lets get your friends and let so someplace. So at this point I was on could # 9 I got a cab to go back to my car and so that we can go to the bar I was at earlier in the night. When we got their Jill didn’t like the bar so we said ok no problem let me just go in and close my tab then she said ok well while you do that we will come in with you so I we got their I offered my Jill and Kim and their friends a drink. I might as well be nice to her friends too. We had a drink I paid the tab and then we were off to another bar but no luck then we walked to another place to eat and we were their for a little bit and one of the girls noticed that they were going to be late for their train so I got the food to go and got Jill a happy birthday desert. I offered to pay the check and Jill and Kim offered to pay which made me happy that they offered because a lot of girls wouldn’t even offer like their friend I said it ok and paid the check got in my car gave her the desert and she said that was nice and I drove them to the train station me and my friend were going to ask for Jill and Kim’s number but we didn’t have to they asked for ours. Usually I hate to just give my number and not get heir’s in return but I was not thinking straight we got to the train station the girls got out and then Jill got back in the car to give me a kiss on the cheek and say thanks for the desert. About for days passed and no call I would have forgot about the girl but I couldn’t forget Jill’s smile so I had to take matters in my own hands I remembered she told me that she worked in a car dealership and then I decided to find out which one and send her flowers and I did with a message and my Number. I thought to my self no more waiting when she gets the flowers and if she is interested in me she will call if not just move on. The next day the flowers arrived at work and latter on in the day she called me and gave me her number I tried to set up a date and she said Saturday and if she can bring Kim and I can bring my friend. I said ok the conversation was short because she called me during work. I told her I would call her later on that night to set up time and where to pick them up I called left a message and nothing happened so Saturday I called her in the afternoon I talked to her she told me she was not sure if her friend wanted to come out and she told me she was at work and that she was going to call me to tell me yes or no for that night she didn’t call neither did I it Sunday night and I cant stop thinking about her or what to do I don’t want to call to early but I don’t want to lose it either should I call ? When? (In my next conversation I wanted to be very direct and tell her that obviously I’m interested in you for sending the flowers and if you're not interested in me tell me so I don’t waste my time.) What do you think? Please help me out I think she is testing me but I can’t think straight I need help.
