Is she playing games or what?

[drake]

Been talking to this girl for about a month. (7-8 dates) I think she is playing games and im kinda at a loss for what to do with her. She gets pissed and thinks im not interested when I dont call, then she'll play this " you should have called me, thats why I didnt call you...BS"

Talked to her at noon on wednesday....she was going out that night with friends, said lets do something thursday night instead. She let me go on wednesday at noon....said she would call me in a few...I did not hear anything from her and we had plans to go out so I called her thursday afternoon. She tells me that I said I was going to call her back on wednesday when she let me go. I was flabergasted....like what?? You did not call me for a day because you thought I was suppose to call you. GAMES. Then she tells me that I am playing a game because I should have called her. Im 25 and this is not what I had in mind.

She thinks im not interested when I dont call.......but Im not going to call some chick everyday.......and then she doesnt call me cause she thinks IM the one playing the game.

Advise me please.........

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

well to sum it up in ********....she is saying,

I didnt call you because I am seeing other guys as well...and her interest level is probably real low right now as well buddy

an interested girl WILL CALL THE HELL OUT OF YOU, whether they are black, white, tall, skinny, big azz, little azz, you got the picture.

They want to talk wit you and they want to be wit you.......if you dont call them, that just makes them chase EVEN MORE.

I know you might think, Well, maybe she is playing games..

The fact is buddy, that when women are really interested in a guy, THEY STOP PLAYING GAMES.

her playing games is her telling you in ********, I am seeing other guys.....I only talk to you for sex if that, and I dont really like you that much....

That basically sums this up bro......but hey, congratulations on being in the field...I pray you were not paying her way on these 7 dates.....go out and do some free action dates, hell, jog in the damn park wit the slut, haha

Go out and get some more women, they are easy once you apply these techniques but a pain in the azz once you dont.

 

[biggestplaya]

tottaly agree ***** eater, and he`s right, u should have a "stock" as i call it of gyals wen 1 goes past its sell by date throw er away and always be taking new deliveries (getting new gyals)

 

[becker]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
well to sum it up in ********....she is saying,

I didnt call you because I am seeing other guys as well...and her interest level is probably real low right now as well buddy

an interested girl WILL CALL THE HELL OUT OF YOU, whether they are black, white, tall, skinny, big azz, little azz, you got the picture.

They want to talk wit you and they want to be wit you.......if you dont call them, that just makes them chase EVEN MORE.

I know you might think, Well, maybe she is playing games..

The fact is buddy, that when women are really interested in a guy, THEY STOP PLAYING GAMES.

her playing games is her telling you in ********, I am seeing other guys.....I only talk to you for sex if that, and I dont really like you that much....

That basically sums this up bro......but hey, congratulations on being in the field...I pray you were not paying her way on these 7 dates.....go out and do some free action dates, hell, jog in the damn park wit the slut, haha

Go out and get some more women, they are easy once you apply these techniques but a pain in the azz once you dont.

I'd have to say this is pretty accurate, but I'm not sure if the game playing ever stops. It always manifests itself in some way.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by drake
Been talking to this girl for about a month. (7-8 dates) I think she is playing games and im kinda at a loss for what to do with her. She gets pissed and thinks im not interested when I dont call, then she'll play this " you should have called me, thats why I didnt call you...BS"

Talked to her at noon on wednesday....she was going out that night with friends, said lets do something thursday night instead. She let me go on wednesday at noon....said she would call me in a few...I did not hear anything from her and we had plans to go out so I called her thursday afternoon. She tells me that I said I was going to call her back on wednesday when she let me go. I was flabergasted....like what?? You did not call me for a day because you thought I was suppose to call you. GAMES. Then she tells me that I am playing a game because I should have called her. Im 25 and this is not what I had in mind.

That's when you say, "Whatever. Let's go out tonight."

 

[the_great_gaia]

oh yes, she's playing a game. She doing that to see how many times you DO call her so that she can purposely MISS them! Yes, she's underneath some other guy.

Want a GREAT SOLUTION? Ok, great! This is what you do. Since she's trying to manipulate the way your brain functions with who-called-who-last.. you got to actually DON'T CALL! I know, I know, "..but what about the 7-8 dates I had with her?" Those dates only meant something to YOU. She's probably on a date with someguy now as you read this. Don't call her.. forget those dates, your lesson about her is your reward. If you spent money on her, it's okay... you just made a badd decision, that's all. You can not succeed if you are afraid to fail. You failed in this case, buddy. But hey, your failure taught you to be successful for the next encounter. You are one step closer to knowing what woman you do or don't need in your life. God forbids you let her take you in... oh, she'll probably call you after she notices that you don't call her no more. Then again, she may not ever call you again either, but that's the BEAUTY of it. If she doesn't call you, then that tells you the truth: she wasn't interested in you by a longshot! Time will tell you everything you need to know, but you just wished that it'd hurry the hell up! Be wise.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
well to sum it up in ********....she is saying,

I didnt call you because I am seeing other guys as well...and her interest level is probably real low right now as well buddy

an interested girl WILL CALL THE HELL OUT OF YOU, whether they are black, white, tall, skinny, big azz, little azz, you got the picture.

They want to talk wit you and they want to be wit you.......if you dont call them, that just makes them chase EVEN MORE.

I know you might think, Well, maybe she is playing games..

The fact is buddy, that when women are really interested in a guy, THEY STOP PLAYING GAMES.

her playing games is her telling you in ********, I am seeing other guys.....I only talk to you for sex if that, and I dont really like you that much....

That basically sums this up bro......but hey, congratulations on being in the field...I pray you were not paying her way on these 7 dates.....go out and do some free action dates, hell, jog in the damn park wit the slut, haha

Go out and get some more women, they are easy once you apply these techniques but a pain in the azz once you dont.

True Dat Pvssy Eater. Women, NEVER tire of the little BS games. Bottom line, if you start seeing and being around other women around this one, the games MAY end, if she thinks that other females are beating her out for your attention. Pay little attention to her. She will come to you.

 

[Colossus]

Your obviously dating a pretty young girl. Older women (25+) tend not to do that childish sh*t.

I know because I am in a similar situation right now. I'm seeing an 18 year old who plays the same phone games and basically wastes my time.

Dont let that have any power over you. If she doesent call when she says she will, she's being inconsistent and immature and you are most likely wasting your time. Like the other guys said, if this chick was really into you then she would MAKE time for you. Never buy their BS excuses. "I dont plan that far ahead", or "why dont you call me on this day" is ******** for "I'm waiting for a better option to come along" or "I'm not that into you, so I'll put the correspondence ball in your court", so to speak.

Start pursuing other women (your age, preferrably) and dont give her your precious time unless SHE proves to you she's legit and consistent.

 

[Jake-inator]

She's a psycho / seeing other guys... move on.