Is she playing games or should I walk away?

[mikee408]

Hey guys,

I was hoping to get some advice from a couple of you... Ill admit I'm not that great with girls, so I let me know if you think this chick is playing games with me or she isn't interested.

So I've been out with this girl twice recently, and the first time we had lunch; we seemed to be getting along just fine; had a few laughs and a decent conversation. I was out of town for a while, and when I got back I called her and set up a date for the next night. She didn't show, so I called her, and she claimed that she tried to call but didn't have a phone signal, and then insisted that we go out the next night, which we did.

It seemed to go very well and she was flirty and we got along great. After that, I called a few days later but got no answer. I waited and called her again the next week, and set up a date for a few days later. That afternoon, she called and said that she had to work, but would call me if she was free over the weekend. Never got a call.

Today again I called and got no answer, and so far no return call... So what do you guys think? Should I walk away or pursue further? And if so, is there anything else I should try to get her attention?

Thanks in advance

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Aww man, I'm feeling in a good mood so I will respond to your question.

This is something that I do. The only way I would go on a date with a women is if she lives 45 mins + from me. If she lives near then either she needs to come to my crib or I go to her crib. Maybe if I lived in an actual big city it would be different but this is what I do (Live 40 minutes West of Atlanta). The first date is just for us to get to know eachother and make sure that intentions are known. You don't let her know what your intentions are with words but you do so by showing her with actions. (Touching her and ALWAYS end the date off with a kiss). Second time you meet up should always be at the crib. The ideal situation is to get her to cook for you at your house! You should know what to do when she is in the crib. If you don't you may need more help.

But here is something that people might disagree with! You need to make sure that date 1 and date 2 are within a week of eachother. You must make sure to seal the deal within 3 dates with her. The longer that you don't get it the harder it is to get.

This girls interest seems to be low. If you called her and she didn't call you or text you back is a very bad sign. Just stop contacting her and let her come to you. In the mean time make sure to be out in the field campaigning. The name of the game is cop and blow so don't worry about this h0!

 

[Iceberg]

What's the game? You called and she didn't respond.

The first time, when you arranged a date and she didn't show up should have been your last interaction. "Tried to call...No phone signal." Come on...

Then you arranged another date, she was a no-show, and then she stopped responding.

There's not game-playing. Not anymore than the job you interview for not calling back.

A girl not returning a call. Especially a FEW calls is a rejection. If you were interested in a woman, would you reject her calls? Even if you waited a day to return the call for the sake of "playing games," you'd still return the call. No one (male or female) ignores a prospect they're interested in.

Should I walk away or pursue further? And if so, is there anything else I should try to get her attention?

Pursue further? Get her attention? No. I can try to help you find another girl, but there's nothing anyone can say to make this one work out.

Remember - you're going to strike out more than you hit. This is a strike out.

 

[konmai]

Run. A no-show speaks volumes about her character. You don't want that kind of chic in your life.

 

[bigneil]

You shouldn't give up on a girl for one blow-off. Just try again in a week. It's not until the 2-3 month mark that you start getting treated like a boyfriend versus some random guy.

 

[ladyzman]

She's still making an effort so she's still interested, like suggesting a different day to hang out. She's Just not as interested as before, but that's your fault not hers. She gave you a chance to woo/seducer/whatever her on that first date. You ob viously didn't do a good enough job. Probably cause you felt insecure about her interest in her. Remember the golden rule: if a chick goes out with you, she's interested. It's up to you to capitolize on that interest. That takes confidence and skill, but mostly confidence. Good news is she's still interested, cause she hasn't told you to f@uck off yet. When a girl isn't interested anymore, you'll know it. Right now, just text her something funny, like "are you giving me the silent treatment honey? cuase I don't remember not taking out the trash" or something stupid like that. Whatever you do, don't text her too much.

Wishing you all the best with women.

 

[nismo-4]

This girl is just not that into you.

You failed to make her remember you well on the first date. Therefore, she really doesn't wanna see you anymore.

Your princess is in another castle. Sorry.

And you are guilty of not being memorable in her mind and failure to arouse her.

Moving on is the best thing that is for you. That's my ruling.

Case closed.

 

[Gro0ver]

This girl is just not that into you.

You failed to make her remember you well on the first date. Therefore, she really doesn't wanna see you anymore.

Your princess is in another castle. Sorry.

And you are guilty of not being memorable in her mind and failure to arouse her.

Moving on is the best thing that is for you. That's my ruling.

Case closed.

Agree with this, move on dude. Next time try and kiss her at the end of the first date, if she pulls away then she's not interested and you can avoid wasting time. Girls will never blame you for trying, it's your job as much as it's theirs to look pretty.

If I don't kiss a girl on the first date then I consider it a failure. Remember also though that she's auditioning for you as well. If she doesn't want to kiss then why waste your time.

If you're out there meeting plenty of girls then you won't need to worry about one flaker/game player, you can cut her loose and put your energy into something more worthwhile.

 

[mikee408]

Alright, thanks for the feedback...

I'm not gonna contact again and if she comes back then cool, if not, **** it