is she not interested?

spang

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im talking to this girl on facebook i like. she is single. i havent seen her in person in a few years, she moved to the next town but not too far away. we had a conversation yesterday on fb, then i asked for her number but she didnt reply back. i know she saw it yesterday. is this a hopeless case and i should move on or keep trying?
 

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Clearly not interested, sorry man. Your game was probably weak, maybe post the conversation on here so we can get a better idea of how she responds to you.
 

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1. If you ever have to ask if she is interested then probably not
2. Chicks get so much attention on fb. Any guy that contacts her first is "just another guy."
 

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well she replied back with convo but no number 0.o
 

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me: whats your number ill text you
no reply...
me: i cant believe you watch duck dynasty that show makes me feel like im losing brain cells. :p
her: i love it!
me: that means youre a redneck
her:lol
me:got any plans this weekend
her: not much i have to work saturday and sunday though

i thought about asking her to meet up for a drink but it feels like shes nicely telling me to piss off.
 

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reach right up inside yourself... i mean REALLY dig around there something good and see if you can find some balls floating around. now once located simply tell her that she is coming out for a bit of fun after work on satuday.

but as previously said if you have to ask then chances are she isn't interested.
 

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Forget her, don't send anything. Her hamster might spin a couple of days/weeks and try to get your attention again. If she doesn't your 100% sure she ain't interested. Both win-win, bein afc and asking out even more will only push her away more. I know it can be hard if u like a chick but going ghost is sometimes and im pretty certain in this case too the best thing you can do coz she already made clear that shes not interested in a date. Btw if you see her in real life, dont mind testing your dj skills and asking for her number ! but on facebook, google+ lifeinvader whatever lol forget it
 

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Stort_Brød said:
reach right up inside yourself... i mean REALLY dig around there something good and see if you can find some balls floating around. now once located simply tell her that she is coming out for a bit of fun after work on satuday.

but as previously said if you have to ask then chances are she isn't interested.
done
me:well youre gonna come have some fun with me after work saturday how bout that
her: Well I have my cousins birthday party to go to when I get off Saturday

well i can ask about sunday? sigh why bother
 

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Shes not interested in you. Quit being an optimistic dumb@$$
 

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well i give you points for trying for sure man. good job to actually do it instead of remaining an AFC. this is only a suggestion though is next time don't add "how about that" at the end. it isn't what made her say no but it gave her opportunity as it is seeking her approval of the activity.

but anyways broski i would cut your losses and move onto bigger and better things. she is just but one of the many girls that will miss out on whatever wonders you have to offer to their somewhat meaningless life.
 

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Spang I Love You!!!! Have my babies!!! :crackup:

Tell her your available every night the whole month and ask her when she's available. Make her sign a contract, if she can't make it say my whole calendar just freed up, morning, afternoon, and evenings!! When are you available honey.
 

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That is a non-interested attention wh0re who's in another castle. The fact you had to even ask should tell you something.

Case closed. Move on.
 
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