is she interested

[scmhcat]

I am interested in this girl at work but she are ready has a boyfriend. For a couple of days she would rub my neck as she was walking by and play with the back of my ear.

And during service meeting she always would sit next to me and says I look hansom in my uniform. Also one day she notice how pretty my eyes were but they were real red and she put eye drops in my eye. She even invited me to Christmas dinner at her place, knots berry farm and to take me clothes shopping. So one day I took her aside and told her that I like, she was flatter and said we can be friends for now. As I walk her back to her office I ask her if is available and she said maybe some day. Is she interested in me and should age matter, I a 22 and she is 26. She knows that am quiet and shy so is she just be in a good friend. Any help would be great

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by scmhcat
I am interested in this girl at work but she are ready has a boyfriend. For a couple of days she would rub my neck as she was walking by and play with the back of my ear.

And during service meeting she always would sit next to me and says I look hansom in my uniform. Also one day she notice how pretty my eyes were but they were real red and she put eye drops in my eye. She even invited me to Christmas dinner at her place, knots berry farm and to take me clothes shopping. So one day I took her aside and told her that I like, she was flatter and said we can be friends for now. As I walk her back to her office I ask her if is available and she said maybe some day. Is she interested in me and should age matter, I a 22 and she is 26. She knows that am quiet and shy so is she just be in a good friend. Any help would be great

If she WAS interested, you missed multiple chances. And as if that wasn't enough to blow her interest, you told her you just wanted to be friends. And now you're being all quiet and shy and asking if she's available.

You've botched this six ways to China, man. If she IS still interested, you're either incredibly sexy or it's some kind of miracle. "Some day" is like saying "I'll consider it forever"...a polite way of saying "NO".

I suggest you read the "DJ Bible". Quiet and shy are adorable traits to have, but women aren't attracted to adorable guys.

 

[CharmaLeo]

She sounds like a c0kc teaser. Maybe you should stop rewarding her with your attention and see where it goes from there.

"So one day I took her aside and told her that I like, she was flatter and said we can be friends for now. As I walk her back to her office I ask her if is available and she said maybe some day."

I think that was a mistake and you should not profess your love for an attention hor.

Move on and turn the tables around. How you ask:

Build your style by dressing well and gromming well.

Chat with other women in front of the hor. That should make her intrigued.

Talk about your other women and in a 'friendly' way tell her about your sexual exploits. Don't save the details. That should demonstrate that you are a desirable man to other women.

Don't tell her again that you even like her. Never.

Show her that you are a desirable man. Show, don't tell.

Limit your interaction with this attention hor but not completely. Now is the time to tease HER with your attention.

Maybe sooner or later she will want you and she will start to tease you the same way that she does now.

But guess what, that's when you tell her to eat sh1t and leave you alone.

By then you will realize that you should not vomit your affections for a ****k tease.

You will also realize that you can be desirable and not a sap looking for someone to tease you.

Make yourself desirable and the bitcches will come after you.

You are a man and you can initiate anytime you want to whoever you want.

Be a man and give a woman what she wants. Not undying affection but fvcking indifference.

But first be a MAN.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by scmhcat
I am interested in this girl at work but she are ready has a boyfriend. For a couple of days she would rub my neck as she was walking by and play with the back of my ear.

And during service meeting she always would sit next to me and says I look hansom in my uniform. Also one day she notice how pretty my eyes were but they were real red and she put eye drops in my eye. She even invited me to Christmas dinner at her place, knots berry farm and to take me clothes shopping. So one day I took her aside and told her that I like, she was flatter and said we can be friends for now. As I walk her back to her office I ask her if is available and she said maybe some day. Is she interested in me and should age matter, I a 22 and she is 26. She knows that am quiet and shy so is she just be in a good friend. Any help would be great

ya u ****ed up by telling her straight up, sometimes that gets boring.

 

[scmhcat]

so if i screw up is there anyway to gain her interest and attention back. i don't get to talk to her very much because i am field tech and she works in the office. the only time i talk to her is on my nextel and it usally work related and in the morning when i need work for the day.also is there any way to tell if she is telling the truth about here boyfriend.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by scmhcat
so if i screw up is there anyway to gain her interest and attention back. i don't get to talk to her very much because i am field tech and she works in the office. the only time i talk to her is on my nextel and it usally work related and in the morning when i need work for the day.also is there any way to tell if she is telling the truth about here boyfriend.

get some rapport going (this is important) after u do, then grab her number, then when u goin sumwhere, tell her to come.

 

[scmhcat]

how would i get some rapport with her

 

[unistork]

Alright One, she is ALREADY taken. She rubs your neck, she is very flirty and probably does this or other things to other guys too. I used to work with a woman who had a boyfriend but she flirted with me, ate lunch with me and everything. A lot of girls think some features on guys are cute and hell they might even say "You're cute" to you, but they aren't looking for a relationship. It seems kinda weird how she is invited you to dinner if she has a boyfriend I don't know there... You should just go and see, maybe she is just inviting you as a friend, her bf might be there. Age shouldn't matter, but right now I think you're in the friends zone.

 

[bootlegger]

Originally posted by scmhcat
So one day I took her aside and told her that I like, she was flatter and said we can be friends for now.

This sums it up doesn't it?

Once your plan to seduce was revealed. Your power was gone. and so was the girl.

 

[00Kevin]

the DJ rule is simple.

you won't know if she is interested unless you ask her out.

.. and then you should ask her a few more times.

ask her
once during the rag,
once after the rag,
once before the rag,
and once off the rag

...hmm.. sounds like a good chorus.


btw, women who are on the rag tend to dress in black or dress down. They wake up, feel like crap, and then put on something that matches their mood

 

[scmhcat]

so i pretty much screwed my self over and just struck being her friend now. i guest i should move on.