Ok guys I may be overthinking this which I know I tend to do sometimes, but here is the runaround. Yesterday I was at Ralphs going shopping and I was feeling really confident cuz I got this chicks number that I met through ROTC and she has a nice butt haha but leave that as it may. Anyway, I was at Ralphs standing in line to pay for groceries and the cute ass HB 8 cart pusher with a tight little bod keep checking me out and getting in close proximity by me and I noticed her laughing and having a good time, locked eye contact with her, and asked her playfully what was so funny. She told me her and her co workers were playing some stupid game which is irrelevant. I said sounds like fun...She walked away with a swagger in her walk and looked back with this sexy ****in look like "**** me please" and I checked her out head to toe. So next, I pay for my groceries and I see her standing near the girl who was bagging my groceries. I have to side comment on a post made about girls who want to get picked up will be in closeness near you to see if you will make a move. So when that happens to you fellow DJs, MAKE a ****in move. She WANTS to get picked up. So I thought of something right quick and said to her, "hey can you give me a hand with my groceries to my car, I have a bad back," all playfully and she knew whats up. She said of course. So we have a nice little conversation while she is walking with me to my car. Lots of ****iness on my part and was just teasing her. She told me she likes to dance and she likes to go to this local club where they have college night on Wednesdays. I get her number and tell her we should hang out. She agrees and we hug and part ways. I can tell this chick totally dug me. She turns back and says hey we should go to college night tomorrow give me a call if you want to go. I said ok. My question is, If I do hit her up tonight to go, will I be giving up the control and letting her control where we go instead of me leading and telling her where to go. I want to go so I can **** her cuz I know I will and she might have friends going too so I might be able to game all of them all and maybe bring a cute friend back for my cousin at my house where it is just me and him living at the current moment. Haha good ****.
Is she controling the frame?
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Ollie
Don Juan
Dude you're way over thinking this. And to answer your question, so what if you give up control of the frame? Frame control is big, but if the girl takes control in an aggressive posture that might get you laid sit back and enjoy the ride. To me winning doesn't equal following a set of rules and doing everything right, it equals my **** getting wet before I go to sleep tonight.
Now some people will say this this could be a sh!t test and if you seem eager and call her she'll flake, but that doesnt sound like the case here. Interest level seems to be high enough to warrant a call. I'd be more worried about waiting and trying to act cool and having her initial attraction go down as she waits for you to call.
Now some people will say this this could be a sh!t test and if you seem eager and call her she'll flake, but that doesnt sound like the case here. Interest level seems to be high enough to warrant a call. I'd be more worried about waiting and trying to act cool and having her initial attraction go down as she waits for you to call.
Thanks for the response Ollie. Thats what I thought is that it could be a **** test. I feel that her interest level was sky rocket cuz she risked getting in trouble at work to walk with me and not working. **** it Ima go for it and I will post what happens. IF she was **** testing and I get flaked on then **** it to be honest. It would be a lesson learned and plus I have a couple of new girls to hang out with. I dont think that it will be the case though.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Go out with her, with a time constraint. Let's say you meet up at 11. Tell her you've got somewhere to be at 1. Tell her it's none of her business when she asks what it is. Dance with her and have fun. Sounds like she's just really interested in you.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Sounds to me like she's just really interested and probably pretty young. Go out, go dancing. When it feels right, isolate and kino escalate. Be alpha among the group, as there are probably guys there. When you go to the bar to get a drink, TALK to other girls. Have fun and send out that vibe. Oh yeah, and wrap it up ;-)
Hey splat I really like your idea of the time constraint. Do you think with that in mind, that she will try harder to keep me there or get me to take her home with me? Have you done that sucessfully and then gotten your **** wet? haha I like that.TheSplat said:
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
It mostly shows the girl that she's not the center of your night, shows your alphaness and it's an automatic DHV.
Let's just say there's a reason why in shows like "the pick up artist" mystery makes them put a time constraint immediately after their opener.
And yes, I learned it myself from experience. I was at a party a few years back making out w/ a HB9 ALL NIGHT. No time constraint, it was whatever she wanted to do. Ended up at waffle house at 4 am with her and her friends and just going to sleep together at about 7 am, which left me with a lower value, not to mention tired and frustrated. I even use it with my guy friends...it just keeps people on their toes.
Let's just say there's a reason why in shows like "the pick up artist" mystery makes them put a time constraint immediately after their opener.
And yes, I learned it myself from experience. I was at a party a few years back making out w/ a HB9 ALL NIGHT. No time constraint, it was whatever she wanted to do. Ended up at waffle house at 4 am with her and her friends and just going to sleep together at about 7 am, which left me with a lower value, not to mention tired and frustrated. I even use it with my guy friends...it just keeps people on their toes.
You sound like you know what you're doing. I'll give you props.
Just go out with her this time, but next time tell her you're going to "blah blah" at "blah blah" and she can go with you. Don't ask her just tell her. If she wants to go, fine.
Anyway, I think you're in control because you let her know what's up, and she liked it. I liked how you handled the situation, too.
Just go out with her this time, but next time tell her you're going to "blah blah" at "blah blah" and she can go with you. Don't ask her just tell her. If she wants to go, fine.
Anyway, I think you're in control because you let her know what's up, and she liked it. I liked how you handled the situation, too.
Now do you recommend that when I put in the time constraint that I do leave at the time I say I am going to leave or if I can tell she wants some cack, should I bounce her to my house? I know what I would do, I would bounce, but just want opinionsMavrick said:
Do you guys think that when I meet this girl up should I meet her alone or should I invite a friend for social proof? I already talked to her and told her I am going to meet her there at like 10:30, but that I have to leave at 1. lol
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Well? How did it go?
ok here is my report: At the start of the night I went to go drink a 32 oz of dos XX with my boy hugo around 10 and had some good conversation with him and I end up leaving around 10:30 to go to the club.
I get to the club in a good state. I get there and its a long ass line and the girl is already inside with her friends. I hit her up and tell her to meet me out in front but I cant get to the front and I have to wait in line. There were a **** load of HBs with good bodies in line. I meet some dudes from around my area and start chatting with them and have a good time despite the fact that I had to wait in line for about 45 minutes. I call the girl while I am in line to let her know that I cant get in through the front, but she doesn' answer, so I am like **** it, I will either run into her inside and if not I will find some new hoes
Anyway, I finally get in around almost 11:45, I go straight to the dance floor which has a bar and I go to buy a drink. It so happens that while I was waiting in line I see the girl I am meeting walking with her friends. I grab her by the waist and she suprised and gives me a hug. She is looking good with her tits popping out. haha. She introduces me to her friends, one which was and UG0 haaha she was a fattie, and some AFC guy friend who was with the fattie. We talk for a sec. Keep in mind this club usually plays country and ****, but everyone said it is hip hop night seeing how it was college night. The second song happened to be KC and Jo Jo, a slow dancing song, so I am like cool. I tell her I haven't slow danced since grade school and take her hand to go dance. We dance for a minute and chat, after that I go straight for the kiss. **** that waiting ****. haha. We have a nice kiss and the song ended. This girl I guess ****in knows all the staff and bouncers and **** so she is really chatty with everyone. We hang with her friends for a minute and then I grab her and hand and tell her to follow me and I isolate her to the corner of the club and sit down. We talk for a sex, I mean sec haha damn Don Jaime you a horny man, then we make out for a while. She wants to go back to her friends, so I go with her to her friends. After that slow dance song the club was only playing ****in country music and that square dancing which I have no idea how to dance to. I only like to dance if I am grinding my **** on an ass haha. She goes to dance on the floor haha and I see a midget girl dancing, she was with some regular dude too so props to her for having a good time and not caring what people were saying about her. I see some guy start grinding on my chick and she blows him off after a minute, and I don't even pay attention and I start talking to this girl next to me and I was getting some serious IOI's. We talked about music for a minute and I asked her where the restroom was at. So I go to piss and end up chatting to some dudes in line who were pretty cool. I was gone for a while and I know the girl was wondering where I am at. I come back and it is already almost 1 and I get back to her and they FINALLY start playing ****in hip hop and its my song, so I tell her hey, this is my last song so lets dance. We go dance and she ****in grinds my **** HARD and makes it HARD too haha. I start kissing and biting her neck and she likes that. So after the song, I tell her to walk me out to the front. We part ways and kiss and she says for me to call her tomorrow. I say I will, even though I won't haha. I leave and get home safely. I go to ****in sleep and I had a good time.
In retrospect, I had a good time and will see this girl again, but I know only as a FB. I don't consider her a LTR type of girl. Next time we go out the date will be on my terms for sure with no distractions. I know next time we will **** cuz she was really digging me. The club has a **** load of distractions so consider taking your date somewhere else fellow DJ's. She turns me on big time though and I will post what happens later.
I get to the club in a good state. I get there and its a long ass line and the girl is already inside with her friends. I hit her up and tell her to meet me out in front but I cant get to the front and I have to wait in line. There were a **** load of HBs with good bodies in line. I meet some dudes from around my area and start chatting with them and have a good time despite the fact that I had to wait in line for about 45 minutes. I call the girl while I am in line to let her know that I cant get in through the front, but she doesn' answer, so I am like **** it, I will either run into her inside and if not I will find some new hoes
Anyway, I finally get in around almost 11:45, I go straight to the dance floor which has a bar and I go to buy a drink. It so happens that while I was waiting in line I see the girl I am meeting walking with her friends. I grab her by the waist and she suprised and gives me a hug. She is looking good with her tits popping out. haha. She introduces me to her friends, one which was and UG0 haaha she was a fattie, and some AFC guy friend who was with the fattie. We talk for a sec. Keep in mind this club usually plays country and ****, but everyone said it is hip hop night seeing how it was college night. The second song happened to be KC and Jo Jo, a slow dancing song, so I am like cool. I tell her I haven't slow danced since grade school and take her hand to go dance. We dance for a minute and chat, after that I go straight for the kiss. **** that waiting ****. haha. We have a nice kiss and the song ended. This girl I guess ****in knows all the staff and bouncers and **** so she is really chatty with everyone. We hang with her friends for a minute and then I grab her and hand and tell her to follow me and I isolate her to the corner of the club and sit down. We talk for a sex, I mean sec haha damn Don Jaime you a horny man, then we make out for a while. She wants to go back to her friends, so I go with her to her friends. After that slow dance song the club was only playing ****in country music and that square dancing which I have no idea how to dance to. I only like to dance if I am grinding my **** on an ass haha. She goes to dance on the floor haha and I see a midget girl dancing, she was with some regular dude too so props to her for having a good time and not caring what people were saying about her. I see some guy start grinding on my chick and she blows him off after a minute, and I don't even pay attention and I start talking to this girl next to me and I was getting some serious IOI's. We talked about music for a minute and I asked her where the restroom was at. So I go to piss and end up chatting to some dudes in line who were pretty cool. I was gone for a while and I know the girl was wondering where I am at. I come back and it is already almost 1 and I get back to her and they FINALLY start playing ****in hip hop and its my song, so I tell her hey, this is my last song so lets dance. We go dance and she ****in grinds my **** HARD and makes it HARD too haha. I start kissing and biting her neck and she likes that. So after the song, I tell her to walk me out to the front. We part ways and kiss and she says for me to call her tomorrow. I say I will, even though I won't haha. I leave and get home safely. I go to ****in sleep and I had a good time.
In retrospect, I had a good time and will see this girl again, but I know only as a FB. I don't consider her a LTR type of girl. Next time we go out the date will be on my terms for sure with no distractions. I know next time we will **** cuz she was really digging me. The club has a **** load of distractions so consider taking your date somewhere else fellow DJ's. She turns me on big time though and I will post what happens later.