Is she a Tease or Not

rubberband

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Whats up,

Im new to the forum but I been reading Mystery's stuff and David Deangelo and of course this forum.

Now to my story I liked this girl on my campus we had a class together always talked to her but never took the next step and she flirted like crazy. Back then I was a nice guy with PUA characteristics( breakdancing, freestyling) I just didnt know. when I started being an *sshole to her she started showing me more attention. We were at a conference and I was using alot of ****y funny stuff on her and I performed that night and she was feeling it. She chilled in my room after she was really playful and we started making out and dry humping. She asked if I wanted her to stay I said go, like I didn't want her. This happened last summer, since then we talked from time to time I'd always catch her at a local bar and we'd always dance together and I'd go home with her. Each time we made out and we'd get to dry humping then I'd go to take her pants off she had the last minute resistance, then i'd makeout and try it again and she'd stop me. After awhile I got pissed off cause I felt she was teasing me so I was talking to other girls of course.

But I wanted to draw her out in the clear so One of her sorority sisters liked me and I dated her for 2 weeks. It worked out, at an afterparty to a campus event she ignored me and I ignored her till the party We ended up dancing and she went out to talk to me and she said I was upset when I found out you were with my sorority sister then I told her I didnt know if she liked me or not so I got with her sister and she said she was into me and all that. the next day I breakup with her sorority sister cause she's crazy clingy. The same night I break it off with her sister we chill that night and the same pattern happens with dry humping no sex. She screwed around for awhile like that for awhile and on the side I was having sleeping with other girls off campus. She told me she wanted to be exclusive cause she didn't know what we were and I told her I wanted to be with her. but the problem was that her reputation as a sorority sister looks bad cause she'd look like the girl that took away her sister's 2 week old boyfriend. She opened up more to me but said we had to lay low and she asked me if we were compatible and if I was worth risking her rep and we kept chilling together despite her doubts, which I reassured her and she was cool with it. She even went into how she likes to have sex telling me she likes it rough and deep so I became rough in our foreplay biting , pulling her hair and all that to escalate to sex she continued to decline. Each time after we're together she tends to bring up what happened between me and her sorority sister , she was asking me if we did anything I just said something vague so she'd forget. Lately she has noticed other girls interested in me on campus. She has asked me if im a playa and how many girls I been with.My question is why is she witholding sex from and if its my approach during last minute resistance that stops me.Another question is since we've spent a decent amount of nights together recently she could easily screw someone else but she chills with me and teases me , she also asked me what I see in her and what makes her different? (how do I respond to that test), She also overtly said she was testing me and I told her the same, she also implied that I was afraid to commit and fall in love , does this mean she has those feelngs and is trying to reel me in,She also gets me food and stuff and looks out for me, Is she a tease or is she wifey material? Also she was one of the first girls i experimented my Don Juan skills with, another question is if she doesnt like me why would she keep inviting me over? I also remember her saying one night that she is not a one night stand type of girl when we were messing around and I made light of it with a joke and said me too to kill the anti slut defense


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when I was with her last night she said she wanted me inside her and I was dirty talking with her her telling her I wanted to give it to her how she liked it and she asked me if I had protection I said yeah , then she started to screw with me saying you planned this I said no im mindful
 

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Nope - I don't think she's a tease but you sound like a player

Frankly I'm not suprised at how she's acting. She likes you but she's afraid once you get sex you won't want her anymore.

If you like her - why are you ****ing other girls.

Face it man - you just want to shag her. If that's the case. Leave her alone and don't use her.

If it's not then - seriously doubt it - start acting like a nice guy instead of just saying the words. Be her bf and not just some guy who is allways looking to bang her. The sex will come.

I'm not having a go - we've all done it.
 

Socialreject

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Sounds to me like she is using sex as leverage on you. In the sense of "I'm not going to give you any sex till you do this or that".

That's bullsh!t. Any woman who uses sex for anything but fun and pleasure is not worth your time imho. So she's worried about her rep, she's worried you'll leave her once you get sexed by her... So freakin what? She needs to GET OVER IT...

If it's all about sex anyways, you can get that elsewhere and she knows it, so why the drama? Sounds like she is so worried about a slut mark on her rep that she'd rather play games instead. She's immature.

I'll bet the content of my wallet that she will turn in to a complete psycho if you pull the "hit it and quit it" stunt on her. She'll prolly deny you ever were together completely.

It's pretty obvious that she wants to control you and she's trying to use sex to pull it off. If she's willing to use her pvssy to get exclusive with you, just wonder what else she will use her pvssy for (wedding ring?).

Drop her or bang her and live with the possible irritable consequences of that. If she has any kind of credible rep at your campus you will almost setainly end up being scolded as a player around campus. Cause trust me, she is definitly going to tell the world that you 'tricked her into it' if you manage to bang her and don't give her the relationship she wants afterwards.
 
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