Is OnlyFans Killing the Strip Club and Breastaurant?

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Also worth noting from this article is that one simp gave her $60 for talking to him.
Back when I was making huge money, I went to Starbucks and there was this young and sexy barista. I ordered an Americano from her, and bought her a $200 gift card because she was young and sexy. That’s the only reason.

As with a lot of things in life, I think Simps don’t Simp to get love or affection or sex, I think they Simp just to see what the girl does. Granted they can afford to Simp, because no one is spending their lunch money on anonymous females, but I see it more as to see the reaction from the girl rather than the need for love.
 

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I like Twin Peaks, but none are in my area.
Twin Peaks has done well getting to roughly 100 locations. They have a solid grasp on the marketing mix. There's so much competition now in the breastaurant space that these brands need to find ways to differentiate. The differentiator for Twin Peaks was having outfits with midriffs showing and the hunting lodge interior theme.

Some breastaurants will use women in G string bikinis as the point of differentiation.
 

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Hooters still has more locations than any other breastaurant, but the number of US restaurants has declined nearly 30% in the past decade. Hooters has more competition in that category now. There's an argument to be made that they overexpanded in the 1990s/2000s.

A lot of Hooters locations are somewhat dated looking at this point.

Twin Peaks is its biggest competitor with around 100 locations. Hooters has about 300 locations.

Twin Peaks has women with skimpier attire, but there are even breastaurants where the women wear G stringed bikinis, which makes the Twin Peaks and Hooters outfits look tame and modest.
i have worked in the hospitality sector cant believe its gotten that bad wow where is your source that is alot!
 

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i read an article stating that the restaurant business /hospitality industry is down 22 percent due to zika the recession and covid anyways.
 

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Here's my take from seeing strip clubs change the past 30yrs.

1. A lot of 80's rock bands promoted strip clubs in their music and videos. You don't have that anymore. Also the music back then was a great fit for strip clubs.

2. Strippers used to make their money off the stage. Some could actually dance. Most changed outfits thru out the night. It was about putting on a show. Now days they can't dance, they wear lame outfits and don't change. All the money is made off lap dances and hand jobs in the back. So it's attracted a different type of girl. If you don't want to get dirty you aren't going to make as much money unless you're really hot and hustler.

3. Entertaining is hard work, nobody is happy and in the mood to party 4-5 days a week. Only Fans is much easier and you have more control. You also don't deal with disrespectful customers. It's horrible some of the things guys try and get away with. Dating strippers and hearing their stories set me back a bit.

4. There are too many girls that don't look good naked these days. More fatties than ever before in the 20 something age group. The clubs are all using traveling dancers or bringing in foreign girls. Lots of dirty cuban girls dancing.

5. Groups of Businessmen used to frequent clubs on business trips/conventions. Now days corporations frown upon that.

6. There isn't as much money to be made. It wasnt uncommon in the 90's-2005 for girls to be able to afford nice Mercedes, BMW's,and Porsches. A lot of strippers had nice cars. A friend of mine was averaging $1500/nite back in early 2000's.
 

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1. A lot of 80's rock bands promoted strip clubs in their music and videos. You don't have that anymore. Also the music back then was a great fit for strip clubs.
There is truth on the connections to 1980s rock bands. However, a lot of hip hop of the last 20-25 years works for strip clubs too. It's been a long time since I've been to a strip club.

2. Strippers used to make their money off the stage. Some could actually dance. Most changed outfits thru out the night. It was about putting on a show. Now days they can't dance, they wear lame outfits and don't change. All the money is made off lap dances and hand jobs in the back. So it's attracted a different type of girl. If you don't want to get dirty you aren't going to make as much money unless you're really hot and hustler.

3. Entertaining is hard work, nobody is happy and in the mood to party 4-5 days a week. Only Fans is much easier and you have more control. You also don't deal with disrespectful customers. It's horrible some of the things guys try and get away with. Dating strippers and hearing their stories set me back a bit.
Good points. Though OnlyFans women might deal with internet bullying, internet trolls, and disrespectful online comments. The majority of OnlyFans women don't make enough off of OnlyFans to pay bills. They would still need another job, which could be stripping or a breastaurant.

4. There are too many girls that don't look good naked these days. More fatties than ever before in the 20 something age group. The clubs are all using traveling dancers or bringing in foreign girls. Lots of dirty cuban girls dancing.
This is a challenge for both strip clubs and breastaurants. At least with the breastaurants, the women aren't getting naked so it's slightly more forgiving. A woman can't be fat at either of those jobs.

6. There isn't as much money to be made. It wasnt uncommon in the 90's-2005 for girls to be able to afford nice Mercedes, BMW's,and Porsches. A lot of strippers had nice cars. A friend of mine was averaging $1500/nite back in early 2000's.
Strippers are also paying house fees for stage time.

Simps can do their simping from the comfort of their own home vs. the strip club. High speed internet connections were in fewer households in 1990-2005. It is healthier to see a stripper naked vs. online porn. A lot of simps don't realize that.
 

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There is truth on the connections to 1980s rock bands. However, a lot of hip hop of the last 20-25 years works for strip clubs too. It's been a long time since I've been to a strip club.


Good points. Though OnlyFans women might deal with internet bullying, internet trolls, and disrespectful online comments. The majority of OnlyFans women don't make enough off of OnlyFans to pay bills. They would still need another job, which could be stripping or a breastaurant.



This is a challenge for both strip clubs and breastaurants. At least with the breastaurants, the women aren't getting naked so it's slightly more forgiving. A woman can't be fat at either of those jobs.



Strippers are also paying house fees for stage time.

Simps can do their simping from the comfort of their own home vs. the strip club. High speed internet connections were in fewer households in 1990-2005. It is healthier to see a stripper naked vs. online porn. A lot of simps don't realize that.
Everyone in here hates when I say this, but I elevated my social and seduction skills practicing on strippers. It got me comfortable around attractive women. Lap dances never did anything for me, but building a connection thru conversation did. Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.
 

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Everyone in here hates when I say this, but I elevated my social and seduction skills practicing on strippers. It got me comfortable around attractive women. Lap dances never did anything for me, but building a connection thru conversation did. Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.
I had never read that story about you. I can imagine how that would be possible so I don't think that's a bad thing. You apparently weren't a big spender so that's not simping. Did you happen to go on slower nights? It seems possible that a strip club on a Tuesday or Wednesday night would allow for an extended conversation.
 

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I had never read that story about you. I can imagine how that would be possible so I don't think that's a bad thing. You apparently weren't a big spender so that's not simping. Did you happen to go on slower nights? It seems possible that a strip club on a Tuesday or Wednesday night would allow for an extended conversation.
Yeah I barely spent anything. Thru a few bucks on the main stage and that was it. I'd go in the late afternoon around 3-6.

On Fridays At the byob clubs my buddies and I would bring lots of alcohol to share with the girls. Had some unique liquor bottles and names of booze. One liquor bottle was in the shape of a tommy gun that stood 2' tall which was always a big hit. Had some other liquors called Gay Rum, and CahkBurn. They were great Convo pieces. We had a huge bottle of grey goose that had cheap vodka in it. It was all about presentation. We were known as the fun party crowd to hang out with. We became the entertainment. It got to the point where it was expected and if we missed a week they were texting us. After a few weeks, 3 of us had stripper girl friends.

We also made it a point to become friends with the security, door girls, and dj.

Those door girls are easy to pickup, but the security will always cahk block you.
 

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I remember many years back, hearing an ad on the radio for a sports bar/restaurant. It was listing the good food it had, and added "with a hot, young wait staff". I always thought that was a curious thing to advertise. I mean, I guess it makes sense, but it seems strange to advertise that. What are they saying, come in and ogle at our staff, or come in and flirt with our staff?

I guess that's why I've always found the breastaurant idea to be kind of weird, knowing that waitresses are incentivized to be flirty with the customers to get better tips and sell more food and drinks. I suppose it's just like a strip club lite though.
 

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I remember many years back, hearing an ad on the radio for a sports bar/restaurant. It was listing the good food it had, and added "with a hot, young wait staff". I always thought that was a curious thing to advertise. I mean, I guess it makes sense, but it seems strange to advertise that. What are they saying, come in and ogle at our staff, or come in and flirt with our staff?

I guess that's why I've always found the breastaurant idea to be kind of weird, knowing that waitresses are incentivized to be flirty with the customers to get better tips and sell more food and drinks. I suppose it's just like a strip club lite though.
The biggest difference between a strip club and a breastaurant is that it would be possible to have a meaningful conversation with a male friend while at a breastaurant. At a strip club, that isn't happening.
 

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The strip clubs have definitely taken a hit that's for sure between cash app WhatsApp and can't modeling and of course only fans it was only a matter of time
 

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Twin Peaks has done well getting to roughly 100 locations. They have a solid grasp on the marketing mix. There's so much competition now in the breastaurant space that these brands need to find ways to differentiate. The differentiator for Twin Peaks was having outfits with midriffs showing and the hunting lodge interior theme.

Some breastaurants will use women in G string bikinis as the point of differentiation.
I would be happy if there just weren't any fat chick waitresses at such places. :rolleyes:
 

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Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.
We are a kindred spirit. :cool: I like it when the aggressive ones start "reaching around". :eek: :cool:
 
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In Montréal, alot of the strip clubs are closing / have Closed.

Its too expensive for what you can get online
 

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In Montréal, alot of the strip clubs are closing / have Closed.

Its too expensive for what you can get online
I had visited Montreal a few decades ago. There seemed to be a lot of strip clubs there.
 

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And AI is going to put those OF sex workers out of business. Why care about that?
 

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So AI will put OF women and strippers out of business?
 

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So AI will put OF women and strippers out of business?
I'm sure you can calculate the costs of a photo shoot compared to having AI generated nudie pics and vids. Most content on IG/OF is heavily photoshopped and filtered anyway, so you won't even notice the difference between an 'real' girl and an AI generated one.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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