Is Online Dating Ruining the Dating Scene for Average Guys?

[Eternal_water]

Ok its personal preference, personally I'd put the one I'm pretending to be above most of the other ones that you guys have put that i actually don't like the look of lol.

Physically she is what I'd go for.

 

[Eternal_water]

Given that we have had about 4 more threads on online dating since this one, a couple of hours ago I deleted the fake female profile that had a photo of (imo) an attractive girl with things written in the profile and replaced it with a profile with only a name (sophie) and an age (21) and nothing else, no picture nothing written about "me" or anything, no even where "I" live.

It already has guys winking at it!!

I'm gonna leave it like that for a few days then upload a couple of pics of another facebook friend (I hope they don't read so suave)

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.ne...292955401_649655400_20049753_1255066253_n.jpg

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.ne...3520725051_863945050_22745294_685976017_n.jpg

I'll comment back how that goes lol

 

[Solomon]

what I find funny with online dating, especially pof, is that 99% of the girls have fvcked half the site yet in their profile they write nonsense like "not on here looking for sex!" or something to that effect. it's like a car salesman smiling in your face and telling you he's going to give you a "great deal". so, they aren't looking for sex, but when you talk to them you learn that they've invited guys to their house to bang even though "they didn't know that's what he wanted" and are now jaded against all men because of it. so NOW they want YOU to take them on an expensive date and HOPE to get some puzzy by date 17....if you're lucky.:crackup: they tell you this bull$hit, no joke! so you ask yourself "I wonder why I'm having to play by different rules, make some kind of relationship promise to her, all to get the same @$$ that 50 other guys got and they spent not one damn dime."

in my experience the girls on line are God d@mn dumb. no common sense whatsoever, and me being an educated person I can't put up with such low intelligence. I just can't, it dumbs you down.

Robert hit the nail on the head, I rarely post anymore but posts like this is so spot on that anyone who is reading this about online dating take heed. Robert's post is nothing but truth!

The longer a women been online the more guys she's been able to meet and probably been with sexually. Online "hooking up" isn't a challenge. A lot of women say one thing but do another. Typically if a chick sends me "noodz" I know it's "on"

Also beware of the online "Gold digger"

http://www.themarysue.com/woman-used-match-com-for-free-dinners/

I had a Gold-digger who messaged me first and wanted me to take her out to eat recently she told me flat out she wouldn't "give it up" and oh did I mention she also was living with her boyfriend?

What has the world come too when ugly women now message men and are stating stipulations?

Guys just getting into online dating missed the boat. The golden years were pre-2010.

I used to line pof dates up in my sleep. Now, the same perfected profile and techniques yield very little results and it just isn't worth the time commitment or aggravation anymore.

What up Stig, yup my mans got it on point. POF in our area was a "Gold Mine" pre-2010. Between 2008-2010 I was getting numbers and dates regularly. I remember in Feburuary of 2010 I was getting a new phone number every day. I had at least 2 dates, granted most of the chicks where average

You aren't kidding. The chicks who frequent sites like POF and OkCupid are getting fvcked and chucked left and right. I wouldn't bother wasting time meeting trash like that. God knows who or how many c0cks have been in them or what addictions, mental issues, or diseases they have. Trolling POF is good to pass downtime. Meeting anyone off there? Only if you are convinced you can't meet people in real life or feel like playing Russian Roulette with your health for a 'date'.

The same thing is happening on these new "dating app's" I started talking to a chick come to find out one of my homies already hit that three weeks ago. Now she is already "Branch Swinging"


On another note

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185340

About a year ago i talked about the "Death" of POF. Personally there only two ways now to succeed now IMO

1. Great looking--this is self-explanatory

2. Great at marketing yourself--this is a combo of great pics and profile

I use to be number 2 but now my profile doesn't work even with pics of me playing sports, traveling, and just chilling with my social circle. However I'm fine with that my last encounter with a chick online was with a chick from OKCupid who confessed to me she had herpes and was bi-polar!

Yeah thanks but no thanks....

 

[Jitterbug]

So what's happened since 2012 that ruins online dating?

I've never tried it.

 

[sstype]

You aren't kidding. The chicks who frequent sites like POF and OkCupid are getting fvcked and chucked left and right. I wouldn't bother wasting time meeting trash like that. God knows who or how many c0cks have been in them or what addictions, mental issues, or diseases they have. Trolling POF is good to pass downtime. Meeting anyone off there? Only if you are convinced you can't meet people in real life or feel like playing Russian Roulette with your health for a 'date'.

Yeah no joke man, you have no idea where these girls have been. If you're struggling with online dating then consider that a blessing over having "scored" with some herpes infested slvt.

Besides the obvious health risks...you have no idea what kind of person you're dealing with on the other end. Online dating gives so much incentive to lie your ass off. Most of the women there use old and outdated photos, and completely blow smoke out their asses about how much of an awesome and unique person they are, when really they have little to nothing going on for them.

With all the losers (both men and women) that's flooded OKC and POF, its just a waste of time at best, and potentially dangerous at worst.

 

[Solomon]

So what's happened since 2012 that ruins online dating?

I've never tried it.

it just seems less women where messaging you back and seemed increasingly harder. I think in my area (as Stig can vouch since he lives in the same state i do). It went from being able to get easy dates/lays to women barley replying to messages anymore. The market became saturated. Where as in 2008-early 2010 women were willing to meet and date. It now was a bunch of women who just were AWing and just "checking out the site". Cause of their girlfriends found their man on it. Personally I think Pof is a waste of time as I mentioned last July. I think to many guys use it as their "main" game instead of "supplementing" it

Yeah no joke man, you have no idea where these girls have been. If you're struggling with online dating then consider that a blessing over having "scored" with some herpes infested slvt.

Besides the obvious health risks...you have no idea what kind of person you're dealing with on the other end. Online dating gives so much incentive to lie your ass off. Most of the women there use old and outdated photos, and completely blow smoke out their asses about how much of an awesome and unique person they are, when really they have little to nothing going on for them.

With all the losers (both men and women) that's flooded OKC and POF, its just a waste of time at best, and potentially dangerous at worst.

Hence now I'm chilling off "online dating" although I'm not gonna lie I'm addicted now to this "skout" thing. Chick I'm talking too now is smoking hot, hot, hot. to bad she is conceited nothing that a lil "G7" can't fix though

:rockon:

 

[Poonani Maker]

I don't know why but the number of views to my profile has increased 7-fold since I changed my main pic (just a smiling self pic in the truck while driving). I mean weeks of 2-5 views, then the past couple of days I've gotten 15+ views and 3 unsolicited msgs (none of them really my type but fvckable). I wonder if women on there change their settings to enable me to view them viewing me when they see a pic they like. Could it be the time of year?? Is this the time of year (mid-to-end of spring) where/when women start looking to swing?

 

[Poonani Maker]

^^ I don't get it guys. My profile is blowing up now. I used to Never get this many views, msgs, and especially, chat sessions. I guess I just ooze confidence in my photos (which aren't even clear, just dark or fuzzy). A thin, 24 yr old hot as H3ll brunette just im'd me out of the blue (she's Christian), it was basically Me asking nothing but questions of why she messaged me, what she wants to talk about, how was her weekend...her answers "Crazy" and "Partying a lot" and that she messaged me cause she's "having problems" and "as a distraction" she messaged me, I'm like thinking to myself "Grrrrreat, I'm just here to pass her time, a distraction..." Relationships? or the Partying? She's "Both.." Very short, sleepy, lazy answers from her, so I apologize for saying the word "Damn" that she's a Christian didn't see that, that I haven't been to a church in a while except on business, and then I just bail, cause she ain't conversing with me. It's like, wtf? say something b!tch! I don't want to be her weepy crying board from some dude who's hurt her today - probably some dude fvcked her last night after partying and now hasn't called her, so she hops on POF, sees my profile and wants to tell me how she's feeling down. I told her that "I can not offer you (her) any advice except to occupy yourself (herself) with other things.." no response, say something else, no response, soooo *Click* end the chat session, I'm out.. I'm thinking that just cause I'm online, a dating site, that it knocks me down 2 notches to an HB9 just cause I'm on there on a Sunday evening, but what can you do?? She was 5'9" perfect height for me.